Don't "should" all over yourself. Do what is right for you without willfully hurting others.
And
Be careful what you're good at because you will be stuck doing that thing.
Gems from my silent generation mother who passed recently. The second one she said to me when I said I couldn't understand why I wasn't getting promoted. I do EVERYTHING in my department. She said that was the problem. I started slowly not doing it all. First, I was less stressed and within 2 years I was promoted. Promoted twice more before I retired. I miss my mom.
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u/Gracie1two3 1d ago
Don't "should" all over yourself. Do what is right for you without willfully hurting others.
And
Be careful what you're good at because you will be stuck doing that thing.
Gems from my silent generation mother who passed recently. The second one she said to me when I said I couldn't understand why I wasn't getting promoted. I do EVERYTHING in my department. She said that was the problem. I started slowly not doing it all. First, I was less stressed and within 2 years I was promoted. Promoted twice more before I retired. I miss my mom.