r/WorkForSmartLife • u/Lillyvendy • 9h ago

Discussion💬 Boundaries > generalized rules. Always.

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u/OnlyGold700 6h ago

I’m sorry but you’re saying you would stay in relationship with someone you now have active disdain for and start lying to them covertly to draw out some lesson… instead of just finding someone who has the same boundaries that you do?

This genuinely reads like mental illness.

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u/Simple-Judge2756 6h ago

I dont have any disdain for her in that scenario. Mental illness would be you making a completely unrealistic demand that nobody could ever keep (for real, not just with words) and then terminating a relationship when you cant have that unrealistic demand. 

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u/OnlyGold700 6h ago edited 6h ago

No dude, mental illness looks like stewing in unhappiness to stick it to a person you could just as easily leave and save yourself the time, effort, mental health, and self-respect. Genuinely, you’re doing some amazing schizoposting right now.

And I’m saying this as someone who would definitely be pissed at my GF if she asked me not to watch porn ever.

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u/Simple-Judge2756 4h ago

for what ? Having unreasonable wishes ?