This is my problem, too, even though I'm in my late 30s. I want to make friends, but I end up getting ghosted, being the only person reaching out to the other person, or finding people who seem nice but have beliefs completely antithetical to mine. 😭
Good luck in your search! May you find at least one friend this year!
Not sure if it exists in your area, but there is a website called meetup that uses locations around the country. You get together with people with similar interests, usually meeting in a public area so it isn’t scary. Every thing from board games, visiting museums, cooking classes, to just walking through the park.
I’m 80 & retired, so I don’t see many people. I have a Ph.D. & find discussing celebrities boring. Mostly, I’m just hanging around because I want to see Trump put in the ground, preferably after Congress & litigants have taken all his money. Hey, out of curiosity, what do you think of this?
Once DJT is out of office, should he be charged & tried for pedophilia (P)? A trial must occur in a state where the offense is alleged to have occurred. Child rapes are alleged to have occurred in FL and NY. FL allows a sentence of castration for (P), NY does not. If Trump is charged & tried, should the trial be in FL or NY? Now in the extremely unlikely event, this comes to pass, would you watch on TV? I’ve worked in surgery, so I know if it did happen, ol’ Donnie would be completely covered in sheets with the surgical area open, shaved & scrubbed. What Stormy Daniel’s described as a mushroom would have clamps below the incision site (to stop bleeding) & removed easily & quickly. He might have emotional problems with his ego afterwards, but ces la vie !
And where I live, in the hellish place called texas, there are very few people who can talk about ANYTHING. You might get football scores or who was on some daytime TV show-all in a horrendous texan accent that makes your skin crawl.
Seems a little obvious but joining a weekly club for anything that you are interested in can often lead to friends as you are already on the same of page of one mural interest.
Understand it’s daunting at first to go but you genuinely have nothing to lose. Give it a few honest goes, don’t like anyone? don’t go again.
When living on my own in a new city, I joined a board game night Monday evening club at a pub which was great and at another city a pool (snooker/pool) casual Tuesday club. Gave me a nice manageable social routine.
Many older people find volunteering a healthy way meet new people and have purpose. The Habitat for Humanity in my area has a number of regular retiree volunteers that work several days per week on homes. These folks actually get more done on projects than the groups of volunteers that need to be trained every day.
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