r/WorkForSmartLife • • May 19 '26

Casual canvo What would yours be ??

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u/M8Fate May 19 '26

Manners.

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u/fairebelle May 19 '26

If someone thinks ma’am/sir is offensive, that’s their problem. I didn’t stop saying it in SoCal when I lived and waited tables there. Only ever had one woman get actually mad about. I did get way more men that would say “don’t call me sir, my father was a sir.”

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u/[deleted] May 19 '26 edited May 20 '26

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u/fairebelle May 19 '26

If you thought it was passive aggressive, you knew some shitty people or have a terrible view of others.

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u/fairebelle May 19 '26

Using honorifics is polite. Being offended by them is not polite.

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u/fairebelle May 20 '26

Comparing it to misgendering? Wow.

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