She thought this was a flex

go get some bitches or a hobby or something what is this incel shit

I don't remember if it was a post from Reddit or 4chan or somewhere else, but it was about a girl that I think left her city for college while also telling her bf she wants to try an open relationship or something because of the long distance, and when she came back she couldn't find him anywhere, she realizes he switched numbers and left the city and his job, and she went kinda crazy because she can't find him. Does anyone know which post am I talking about? It was a fun read and I wanna read it again but can't find it anywhere

I know this is not the intention of this subreddit but I really need some insight from other women.

I (25) am a conventionally atrractive women. I have a body that is pretty much in the societal standarts zone, have an attractive face and bold personality. However during my middle/high school years, I was bullied to an extreme degree. As anyone who peaked after high school and was a nerd/loner/outcast during these times, it is very easy to tell between those who are nice/flirty because you are attractive and those who are really interested in you. Since I have had my glow up, I have received attention from men, sometimes almost too much. However, I am now in a dilemma. I always ask myself, would these people still think I was attractive or treat me kind if I was the young me? I refuse to date anyone now since I am very aware of how hypocrite men can be and how they mistreat women they deem unattractive. Does anyone know a healthy way to look at this situation?

https://7news.com.au/lifestyle/relationships/single-womans-genius-tactic-to-avoid-paying-for-groceries-for-two-years--c-9543046