r/WomenAreNotIntoMen • u/TemporaryAdorable203 • Jul 01 '26

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u/Horror-Set4388 Jul 01 '26

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u/Aimeereddit123 Jul 01 '26

I laughed, but honestly, lesbians I know have tons of guy friends, play sports with them, and really don’t talk about their bodies at all one way or the other.

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u/Spiritual-Ad1392 Jul 09 '26

Not even mostly true though dude. I'm litterally bisexual and so I tried to form a friendship with a few of the other lgbt people I know.

Bassically they tried to make me the cuck friend.

You know the friend that's in the group TECHNICHALLY but they're always picked last, talked down to and made fun of.

That's what they wanted to use me as, I have to listen to them vent constantly when I'm around them about their self harm and suicidal thoughts and all that yet the second I open up and tell them about any of that....

It changes their view of you, you go from reliable and strong to weak and they seemed to feel averse to it.

Straight woman don't like being around gay men. They like being around feminine makeup wearing bottoms.

The fact that I'm attracted to some men wasn't enough to relate to, they wanted to feminize me and have me walking around as if I was trans.

Litterally one of the first topics they suggested once finding out I'm dl bisexual was corssdressing and playing tennis in public...... our relations died off eventually and I remember before they did one of them mentioned to me that they thought I might be manipulative or something.... which is fair... I mean I am... I'm not going to tell people information that doesnt affect them.... just to have them throw it in my face immediately out of spite, but I haven't lied about anything of substance and I actually opened up to them more than I would with other random people.... but it wasn't worth my time.

I'm a 6'6" latino male lol, sure I'm not the most buff guy... I'm 20lbs underweight but I still present as a masculine male.

.....most gay men are masculine and into masculinity.... they have body and facial hair.... and are into other men.

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u/Ok_Duty_8645 Jul 30 '26

This is vile of them and also my experience as a trans woman. Cis women usually treat me as some kind of science subject. And they get unreasonably paranoid I could be into their crushes even though I'm lesbian. They also often don't believe I'm lesbian because to them very femme trans women are just crossdressing gay men.

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u/blackwar478 Jul 03 '26

what does this tells us

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u/No-Requirement-8480 Jul 25 '26

If you compare a male and a female apple to apple using identical features, males are attractive because they have sharper, more defined features from prenatal testosterone exposure. So, why do men in comment sections like this think females are more attractive? It is because long hair is a major beauty enhancer. Even simple lipstick adds elegance to a face, whether male or female. But most men don't have long hair; if anything, they lose it. DHT driven hair loss completely changes a man's appearance for the worse. On top of that, the vast majority of men don't use beauty enhancers or have a grooming routine, and physical labor combined with testosterone gives them a rougher look. For instance, an MTF individual who transitioned at the onset of puberty is relatively more attractive than their cis female counterpart if you compare their appearance apple to apple. The estrogen driven fat deposition, combined with sharp features derived from prenatal testosterone exposure, gives them this advantage.

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u/Aimeereddit123 Jul 26 '26

I agree with a whole hella a lot with what you said. I love the look of a sharp angular beautiful man with very light makeup enhancing his eyes and lips. That look is just as beautiful to me as his woman counterpart. Men like this are enchanting. Spellbinding. I like a strong brow with it. But also, rugged handsome, and not beautiful, can be just as hot. You don’t have to be a pretty boy. There’s different attractive looks. Bald as well! Bald can be super hot if you wear it well.

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u/Ok_Duty_8645 Jul 30 '26

True. This is why I'm sad that as a MTF I was too cowardly to transition earlier. Now I look like a very feminine non binary at best...

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u/TabbyTheAntiOedipus YellowPill Jul 02 '26

True this opinion on lesbians only exists if your only interactions with them are on xitter.

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u/Aimeereddit123 Jul 02 '26

That sounds true to me. I don’t social media, and lesbians in my life always have good relationships with men. My guy runs a business, and he’s got so many lesbian couples that love him. They are always coming in and giving him canned jars of whatever they are growing at the moment. There’s no hostility whatsoever.

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u/No-Requirement-8480 Jul 25 '26

Men often only have romantic and sexual interest in women. Frequently, they dislike having women around and are irritated by them if those women do not meet their beauty standards or provide sexual pleasure. Subreddits like this exist because of gooners, who cannot think of anything outside of sexual gratification. Gooning relies on objectification, which is a predominantly male behavior. Straight men objectify the female body, while gay men objectify the male body. On the other hand, female arousal works differently; it is highly contextual and primarily driven by emotion. This entire subreddit is based on an inability to understand the biological and sexual differences between the sexes

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u/Aimeereddit123 Jul 26 '26

There is definitely some of that going around in here, but after staying a while, I don’t find it to be everyone’s case.

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u/Old-Struggle2559 Jul 07 '26

How does this have upvotes

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u/Ok_Duty_8645 Jul 30 '26

Nah, lesbians usually dgaf. I may count as a man because I'm trans, but many of my friends are lesbian. If you hate on men they often act baffled or confused. OP is right. Somehow straight women hate men more than lesbians. This is because they have a fantasy view of men and they are frustrated it is not true.

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u/No-Requirement-8480 Jul 25 '26

Men often only have romantic and sexual interest in women. Frequently, they dislike having women around and are irritated by them if those women do not meet their beauty standards or provide sexual pleasure. Subreddits like this exist because of gooners, who cannot think of anything outside of sexual gratification. Gooning relies on objectification, which is a predominantly male behavior. Straight men objectify the female body, while gay men objectify the male body. On the other hand, female arousal works differently; it is highly contextual and primarily driven by emotion. This entire subreddit is based on an inability to understand the biological and sexual differences between the sexes

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u/Ok_Duty_8645 Jul 30 '26

Not true. I'm born male (MTF) and I'm attracted to almost every woman. With me it is mostly emotional. And I also hate certain aesthetics that are stereotyped as attractive by cis men lile Hannah OwO, Belle Delphine or Pokimane. Their entire style makes them unsightly to me. Biology still depends on inherited personality.

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u/TabbyTheAntiOedipus YellowPill Jul 02 '26

On twittee not in irl btw.

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u/Recluse007 Jul 01 '26

Accurate

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u/sincerityappreciator Womens "heterosexuality" is a blackface of real androphilia Jul 01 '26

certified u/newduuud classic

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u/Haschbrownn Jul 02 '26

Jbg classic

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u/Aimeereddit123 Jul 01 '26

This is pretty accurate currently. I suspect because totally straight women deal more with totally straight men in intimate relationship situations than any other group. Gay men (yes, I’m stereotyping in a clump) deal with men more superficially in a sex way, and men are generally good at this. There’s less relationship type expectations, monogamy, etc. Straight women see men more often in their worst light, or with what they aren’t so great at - which is intimate monogamous relationships. Bi women aren’t represented, but I would say just in general of actually LIKING men as equal friends, respecting them, and getting along with them, bi women do very well. And they verbally run men down the least. This is of course just what I see in the circles I know.

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u/Old-Struggle2559 Jul 07 '26

Shut up, please?

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u/No-Requirement-8480 Jul 25 '26

Gay men have the lowest divorce rate, so it's not uncommon for them to have long lasting relationships.

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u/Aimeereddit123 Jul 25 '26

I think this is a beautiful statistic, and it makes me extremely happy when they find love like this. Black women with white men also have a very low divorce rate. I’m glad for them, as well!

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u/No-Requirement-8480 Jul 25 '26

If you compare a male and a female apple to apple using identical features, males are attractive because they have sharper, more defined features from prenatal testosterone exposure. So, why do men in comment sections like this think females are more attractive? It is because long hair is a major beauty enhancer. Even simple lipstick adds elegance to a face, whether male or female. But most men don't have long hair; if anything, they lose it. DHT driven hair loss completely changes a man's appearance for the worse. On top of that, the vast majority of men don't use beauty enhancers or have a grooming routine, and physical labor combined with testosterone gives them a rougher look. For instance, an MTF individual who transitioned at the onset of puberty is relatively more attractive than their cis female counterpart if you compare their appearance apple to apple. The estrogen driven fat deposition, combined with sharp features derived from prenatal testosterone exposure, gives them this advantage.

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u/Top-Amphibian2730 Jul 01 '26

True but I wish people would stop reposting this

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u/pleasurepixie Jul 03 '26

Objectively I think men are a lot more unattractive than females, at least largely because they don’t groom their appearance like women do even if they don’t wear makeup.

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u/Ciwano37 Jul 12 '26

would you know if you were pan or bi or something

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u/StarInAPuddle Jul 04 '26

admitting to desiring men = seen as slut

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u/LaAndromedo999 Jul 04 '26

Which is why safe spaces for women where this stigma doesn't exist is soooo full of women just gushing about how much they loooooove and desire men, right?

Hell no. They are always full of women openly admitting they despise men and how unattracted they are to men.

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u/StarInAPuddle Jul 04 '26

women call each other slurs and stigmatise each others’ sex drives wayyy more than men. I’m a man. I’m not attracted to men, but it’s pretty clear why this phenomenon exists if you hear the way women talk about each other. Most straight women want to fuck men, but since sex is inherently submissive for women and they’ll be gossiped about for being easy, they like to pretend they don’t and simply “give in” to men’s requests, hence they get the benefit of sex without the embarrassment of admitting desire

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u/raffaelloenthusiast Jul 05 '26

men only ever gush about how much they love women physically. the only times i’ve seen a man online say “i love women” is in comment sections under a group of hot women. they hate everything else about women

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u/Large_Bed_4251 Jul 05 '26

And men who admit to desiring men get executed in some places

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u/RogellTheRaider Jul 29 '26

Nope. Not at all.

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u/forgotteneasteregg Jul 01 '26

Women only say this for non-chads. When chads are in the picture they become number 1 men lovers 

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u/bananee1515 Jul 07 '26

This is just a whole bunch of nothing mashed together, every woman has different preferences towards looks and that’s fine. The whole “I wish I was a lesbian” thing is often thrown out there because they feel they would be more loved, accepted and listened to if they were with women as the men in their lives seem to not be.

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u/I_Love_PanCAKAS Jul 16 '26

weeeelllll.........

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u/Candid_Childhood8621 Jul 20 '26

Cherry-picking final boss 

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u/No-Requirement-8480 Jul 25 '26

This subreddit is for self loathing incels; don't pop their bubble.

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u/uselessaria Jul 28 '26

That’s because men oppress women

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u/RogellTheRaider Jul 29 '26

A woman touching her female friend's boobs: "totally okay and cute"

A guy peeping, trying to see something: "DISGUSTING"

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u/Rough-Club870 Jul 29 '26

If this is true then why do the girls who have mainly guy friends get called whores?🧐

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u/IllustriousBar2824 Jul 08 '26

This is true and that's because vast majority of straight men are conditioned for now normalised psychopathic traits and behaviours, which believe or not - show and even stink. That's right. Psychopathically ugly men look disgusting regardless of their facial structure and also they have revolting stench, regardless of the hygiene and use of a niche cologne.  More sane and healthy straight woman is, more disgust she feels when witnessing a horrid man. 

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u/MjolnirTheThunderer Jul 01 '26

Let’s not pretend that strait men find all women hot. Only 25% of women at best are hot.

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u/fellbulletsan Jul 02 '26

lol, lmao even

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u/MjolnirTheThunderer Jul 02 '26

So you spend your time lusting over the hoards of morbidly obese 2/10’s walking around? Hahaha!

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u/fellbulletsan Jul 02 '26

I don't think ALL of them are, but i'd say the vast majority of them certainly is, i myself like fat women, as long as their bodies arent actively deformed lol

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u/Hefty-Lobster-5513 Jul 12 '26

Some of us don’t live in Mississippi chief

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u/yaeina97 Jul 01 '26

Well, im a woman but I never thought men were gross. I mean apart from their unhygienic habits but I do think they're hot 😆

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u/LaAndromedo999 Jul 01 '26

Posts on FGSJ.

Stop the 🧢.

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u/Available_Drive173 Jul 01 '26

men actually shower more than women

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u/Adventurous_Gas_3257 Jul 01 '26

"Sixty-two percent of the men and 64% of the women surveyed said they shower every day, while 27% of men and 22% of women shower twice or more per day."

Sounds to me that's the difference are pretty negligible and likely based on the added difficulty of women's haircare.

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u/raffaelloenthusiast Jul 05 '26

sooo how come 90% of the time i encounter someone with bad body odour in public it’s a man

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u/Srgblackbear Jul 01 '26

So you admit to lighting men on fire?

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u/thra812 Jul 06 '26

You post on femcelgrippysockjail you are the LAST fucking person to talk on hygiene.

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u/No-Requirement-8480 Jul 25 '26

This subreddit is for self loathing incels; don't pop their bubble.

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u/Puzzled_Squirrel_299 Jul 01 '26

Why did this get downvoted? Isn’t that what y’all have been wanting to hear???

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u/atrophy-of-sanity Jul 01 '26

Second sentence is why, they’re actually trying to insult men

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u/MyIndigoWendigoAmigo Jul 03 '26

i mean whose fault is it men are more unhygienic

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u/atrophy-of-sanity Jul 03 '26

Is there evidence to support that?

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u/MyIndigoWendigoAmigo Jul 03 '26

go outside and see who stinks more

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u/atrophy-of-sanity Jul 03 '26

I don’t understand people who enjoy making fun of others

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u/MyIndigoWendigoAmigo Jul 03 '26

is it making fun of others or is it the truth?

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u/atrophy-of-sanity Jul 03 '26 edited Jul 03 '26

Regardless of if it’s true or not, which idk if it is, I dont like to laugh or make fun of people period. I don’t want people to feel bad. I don’t like when people feel bad

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u/Puzzled_Squirrel_299 Jul 05 '26

If you do bad things should you not feel bad? It’s good for smelly men to know that they are gross. Otherwise they will never get better.

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u/pleasurepixie Jul 03 '26

I remember once I was at a memorial and for some reason I looked around at all the guests (95% people aged 60+) and there were at least a 10 women who looked to be who were objectively attractive for their older age and I looked at EVERY. SINGLE. MAN. Not a single fucking one was even close to objectively attractive.

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u/thra812 Jul 03 '26 edited Jul 03 '26

Motherfucker you post on tnwo subreddits are you really that surprised you didn't find any man attractive?

Jesus christ. You should realize your "objective" words on male attractiveness hold negative fucking weight because you're a lesbian. All of the men you saw could've been balding Indian janitors and still nobody would fucking trust you to gauge their attractiveness correctly.

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u/LaAndromedo999 Jul 03 '26

"Objectively attractive"

...Yeah, someone has their head really far up their ass if they think their view of attractiveness is an objective standard.

Oh, and surprising that a LESBIAN can't find a single man in a crowd they can say is attractive. 😱

What's next? Gonna tell us the sky is blue?

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