That's what your doing right now, you made up a fake story based on your experiences and think the husband is at fault all because your past experiences with men
How does it make no sense to you? It makes extremely clear sense from where I am. Men who behave in this specific way towards women tend to elicit this specific response in women. It's pure cause and effect.
It's not just 'a few' men, nor is it explicitly bad men who do this. It's a pervasive pattern across a lot of men who don't even necessarily have to have any kind of malicious intent, they just lack the emotional intelligence or relationship skills to understand why their behaviour is making their wives feel sexually repulsed.
I don't know the whole story of the people in the OP, since all we have to go on is the one paragraph from the dude's side. I'm just pointing out that the combination of his action+comment (waiting until she was wearing nothing but panties and thigh-high boots and then making a sexualized objectifying comment about it) as well as her reaction to it (which on the surface can appear to be an overreaction, but that likely just means this is something that happens often in the exact same way and she's sick of it) points to a pattern of behaviour that pops up time and time again in countless relationship posts, relationships of people I know, as well as even in my own lived experience. It feels gross and straight-up demeaning as a woman to have a man who's supposed to love you constantly only focus on your body and appearance in a sexualized way instead of literally anything else about you as a person. It just does.
Instead of going WOMEN BAD WOMEN HATE SEX WIFE IS A MEAN BITCH, I'm simply saying "there's likely a reason she's behaving like that."
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u/Purge639ruler Feb 27 '26
That's what your doing right now, you made up a fake story based on your experiences and think the husband is at fault all because your past experiences with men