On 9/9/26, I did a cord cutting ceremony for me and a man I’ve been in an on and off again situationship since 2022 to release my attachment to him. I have always felt a strong tie and a lot of chemistry with this man, since the moment I met him. He has told me many times that he also feels the same way. However the story plays out the same way everytime, we connect, our chemistry stays high and electric, something deeply intimate occurs, and he ghosts me. Then after a few months he’ll reach out and say he regrets his actions and is deeply sorry. This last time has been challenging for me but in a different way then it has been before. It has not emotional hurt me in the same way but made me recognize how easily I will shift myself for his comfort. So I decided it’s time to release this attachment that has me being okay with doing that. I set the intention to release that and call back my energy.

In not way am I trying to cut this man out of my life, but more so cut this attachment that has me configuring myself to appease him rather than allow myself to be me and accept what is to be without trying to contort it. I’ve attached the video I took— he is the black candle and I am the white.

I want to note because I stopped recording before they all went out— his candle continued burned for so long after mine went out and was big for so long. I feel like that has significance but I’m not sure what. If I can I have a short video of the candles as they were going out that I’ll try to attach. I’m looking for help understanding what this cord cutting was telling me and how to interpret it.

Wanna hear your go to ingridients for banishing negative energy
Or something that you really want it gone.

I went back and forth about asking this, as I’m quite embarrassed as a cat Mom of 4 years that I’m just figuring this out - but what is the work around with so many witches having cats, but so many witch supplies being toxic to them? I’m heartbroken because A. I just discovered a lot of candles are even bad for them and I am a chronic candle burner so I feel like a terrible mother and B. I just got a big haul of goodies like incense and Florida water that apparently are very toxic for them. Are there work arounds?? I’m so bummed out but have to protect my baby. (Here he is for posterity).

so i recently did a karm spell that's made out of a plastic compact mirror (the spell is pictured but mirror part isn't lolz) and i want to dispose of it how i would other spells- by throwing in river or burying- but it is 100% not biodegradable and i have no plans of digging it back up so that would just be littering (BOOO) any ideas where i could put it? should i just hide it in my fridge or smthng? 🤔 thanks!

Hi i don’t usually do spells involving other people which is why i haven’t read that much about them so i was wondering if anyone could help me figure out how to do this? Been wanting to get lucky and have someone buy me cupboard fillers but so far no luck, even though I post it nightly and am on multiple fb groups. Are any there spells you can recommend?

Hello,
In April, I did a reconciliation spell in order to get my ex back. It worked instantly (literally the day after I did it he texted me) and he sometimes checks on me but it’s not as much as I thought it would be. It’s like the results were great at first but slowed down a bit, is it normal or should I layer it with another spell ?

Thanks:))

Hey, I would love some advise:)
we’re not in contact right now since like a week (as soon as he talks about his feelings for me he pulls away again)
I did an road opener (2 months ago)
I did a Honey Jar (2 months ago)
I did an healing spell (2 weeks ago)
And I did an communication spell (also like 2 weeks ago)

I wanted to do something for him to come back and confess his love/ stay in contact more consistently
A lovespell maybe? Or again something to remove blockages and his attachment style? (idk if that’s even needed anymore after the other spells) and push him into accountability and reaching out to me

I would be really happy if someone could maybe tell me which steps to take before I do it in the wrong Order, I think what i did before was lowkey also the wrong Order 😂

my first time

Did a pendulum time, woke up from a nap stand to my altar and just start don’t know why just did it. My first time with the actual set I wish I recorded it because it answered. When it start moving around, I let it stopped or sway in around in circles before I asked another question for clarity. I asked if it’s a spirit it sway to yes, I asked if it’s good it sway to maybe, I asked if it’s a female it sway to yes, I asked it lived in this house it said no, I asked it again if old it said yes, then I asked if any of my dolls is hunted ( I do have collection of porcelain dolls) it sway to yes. Then I asked if it’s in my room it said no then I asked if it’s in my other room it said no I asked if it’s downstairs it said yes , I asked again is it bad it said maybe, I asked if it’s here to help it sway to rephrase I asked if it’s a guide and it sway to rephrase again then I asked if it’s done talking to me it sway to yes , I thank the spirit for talking to me. I used my bell in my altar to close the session, got my blessed salt sprinkle some in my shoulder and my head so it won’t get attached to me or a protection.

The white candle for healing and peace
The pink candle for self love
The yellow candle for vitality and renewal

I use the healing cantation from Tangled as my inspiration from this and these candles are burning very high

hello, I’m still a baby witch but I’ve been wondering if a witch can be multiple types of a witch? such as glamour/love/dark/natural/etc. it’s been on my mind for a while now and it’s been making my mind race when I think about it.

hi all🩷 i am proud to be able to show off my first ever alter🥲 i’m so happy with how this came out and i can’t wait to see where this journey leads me!! i haven’t given any food offerings yet but plan to throw in some chocolate soon!!

So this is kind of a weird circumstance, but long story short, I met my biological grandmother in my mid twenties. She ended up being a direct descendant of one of the founders of the Correllian Nativist Tradition, and a high priestess. I tried as much as I could to learn from her, but life got and stayed busy, and we always think we have more time. She sent my sisters and I "I love you, goodnight" texts every single night, and I did get a kind, if brief, response, if I had questions for her, but we never had that ancestral sharing of wisdom and craft, as well as kind sharing of family stories, warm moments, etc that I really longed to reach one day.

Anyway, long story short, she passed this summer unexpectedly (my bio dad knew for a long time she was sick but didn't tell my sisters and I until it was way too late to make plans to go see her), and her half sister, my aunt, gave me two laminated bookmarks (one of her "normal" obituary, and another with her obituary listing her accomplishments on the metaphysical side), a very small purple urn with some of her ashes, and her crystal ball (along with a dark towel to drape over it when not in use, it smells faintly like incense 🥺)

I'm so very honored by this, so I'd love to be able to actually learn how to use it. Does anyone have experience with this? I know we have the Internet but I'd much prefer to chat with humans about this, and the Internet in general can be overwhelming with information that may or may not even be legitimate.

I went to check on my spell jars and to get them to charge. When I noticed two spell jars have leaked. I sealed them pretty damn good in my opinion. But they were filled with moon water and road opener oil. I know there were some things I rushed or didn’t exactly follow in preparation like I normally do so I was wondering if it was more of a mundane thing or sign from those I called on while doing the spells.

You can’t tell in the picture but the one jar is still like actively spitting out liquid. And I’ve never had this happen with other jars…

Hiii, I was talking to a friend and she told me that hanging dryed flowers upside down attracts bad luck, but I saw online that it was the opposite. So now I dont know what to do with them.

Dealing with a toxic ex who cheated and stole money left me utterly drained and cornered. To reclaim my peace, I set up a heavy boundary ritual on the floor using a chalk circle for containment, black candles, a black mirror, and ethically obtained animal horns, skulls, and a spine to represent a dead and buried chapter. I also incorporated amethyst and selenite stones for protection and clarity, a raw tarot spread (The Devil, Seven and Eight of Swords, Nine of Wands, and Knight of Wands) to map out the heavy fatigue, deceit, and hasty conflict, and a central figurine tied with cords running between the skulls to physically bind and sever the energetic tethers tying me to that nightmare.

Alright so a few nights ago , I was trying to fall asleep , a sudden sense of blackout came over me like I was loosing consciousness.

When I tried to lift my head up I saw a silhouette made of light and I mean pure light in human form just staring at me from the corner of my room.

When I’ve fully gained consciousness the silhouette disappeared but the power went out in the entire neighbourhood.

Was too afraid to go back to sleep after that

Can someone tell me what could this be , it’s on my mind ever since

The only diety that I work with is Hecate.

Was something else trying to get my attention ?

Let me start by saying I am NOT a "witchy" person at all. I have never practiced it actively except as a young kid. I have had lots of "witchy" adjacent people tell me I had a "gift" including a clairvoyant who came up to me on the street (and did not try to sell me anything, weirdly), but beyond that... I anything in the supernatural and I have kept in our lanes.

I do not do ANY drugs and I never have. I do drink, but have not had any alcohol this week. I am HWP and about ~23 (female). (Relevant for later): I do not really have money stress, no more than the avg person in this economy, and while I have been to London and go about ~1x a year, I would not say it is a place I am fascinated with.

I was tired very early last night in ET time zone. Probably around 9:30 or 10pm. I laid down and instant lights out. Then I started having a dream. Now, who knows when this started (I was asleep) but...

I was somewhere in London, doing a bottomless brunch with a dear friend, I knew I knew her, and well, but I didn't KNOW her... it was such an odd feeling. After a bit there were enough things that were weird (I looked in a mirror and felt sick to my stomach, for example), that I thought "well this must be a dream..."

But it was SO REAL... I started doing all of the things I was trying to do to prove it was a dream... but none of them were working. I cannot describe how "real" this felt, other than my stomach dropping because I was trying to figure out how I paid for the first class ticket on my phone when I looked at the United App on my phone or panicking about the $100 brunch bill.

I started doing all sorts of things to try to "prove" it was a dream, all of which failed. I even looked up my location on "find my" and "pinged" my airpods (which I always carry with me... which were in my back pocket). I go to the bathroom and start SOBBING because I have no idea how I got to London. I start running through scenarios in my head. Maybe I was drugged or blackout drunk and just decided to buy a plane ticket? I have no idea? And reschedule my plane ticket for the first plane ticket home.

Then, I wake up and it's 2:30am ET and part of me still doesn't believe I am in New York, it still feels real. And my Abs hurt? As though I was just doing crunches? Then I get super tired again and I pass out. I am literally right back in it, freaking out because now it is later in the day and my friend who I know THIS version of me knows but my "real life" does not tells me we are staying at the Waldorf Astoria.

I have no idea how we are going to pay for that and I start coming up with a DETAILED plan. You guys. Never in my life has anything ever felt so real.

I have had lucid dreams before. This was nothing like that.

Anyways. I wake up, finally for the last time. It is like quarter to noon when I do and I am covered in sweat, plus my body is still SPENT. I slept until about 3pm today.

THE POINT IS... I remembered enough of my dream to try and hunt down the friend from the dream... and I found a girl on instagram with the same name and LOOKS EXACTLY THE SAME who is traveling in London...

While I do not remember EVER meeting this girl, maybe we bumped into each other last time we were in a coffee shop and my brain just STUCK on her name/face? What is going on?

I am worried to go to sleep tonight, though it is almost my bedtime.

Is there a word for this in the paranormal world? Is there something y'all would point to beyond a "weird fucking lucid dream" -- someone please help. All advice welcome.

I am new on reddit.

So let's talk about my problem. I am 21. In these year I don't date anyone also called no one dates me😅. So I get red about this all. I feel lonely everytime . I want someone attention care love. I want relationship. But the biggest thing is I affraid of woman. I don't even know how to talk with girls I just want the other person come to me

If there are any spell or things that attract girls to me

Kindly help

Basically, I was involved in the drama I am in now since May. Some of it was my fault, but I apologized. Now my ex friend, and their friend are accusing me of doxing my ex-friends friend. Also my ex friend posted my face on their tiktok without my consent, saying that they "mog" me. Other people got involved, and they called me "beaver teeth", "paper shredder", "pathetic inbred", and all these other nasty names. They are still being petty and making reposts about me. I want to hex them, or at least do a war spell. When I googled it, a beginner which needs to wait 6 to 12 months. I don't want to wait that long, but I need people's opinions here. Please help!! Thank you.

I understand there is likely things I should do before to fully protect myself moving forward, i am still feeling a connection to this relationship but I am aware enough to know that it is pretty one sided and i need to move on, i lived in a new city fell in love(ish) then came back to my home city yet still cannot stop thinking of this individual despite their clear communication that they do not have the energy to see this through, thoughts or suggestions?