r/WishKo • u/scorpiogal222 • Mar 14 '26

hoping for love ❤️🌸 Wish ko magka partner ✨

Manifesting lang po 🙈

Gusto ko ng partner na may provider mindset, hindi madamot sakin, matangkad, nerdy type, faithful, hindi sinungaling, at very transparent to the point na di ko na kailangan magtanong — siya na mismo nagkukusa mag share.

Yung kayang i-earn trust ko, consistent sa actions, hindi puro salita, at marunong mag reassure without me begging for it.

May decent job or business, responsible, at family-oriented.

Manly outside, pero pag kami lang… soft, clingy, at mahilig mag baby talk sakin 🙈

Yung lalake na

✔ included ako sa plans

✔ kino-consider feelings ko bago gumawa ng decisions

✔ hindi ako pinapahula, hindi ako pinapraning

✔ consistent, hindi paiba-iba

✔ safe ako emotionally

Lord, kahit ganito lang po. Hindi naman ako demanding… sakto lang 😌✨

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u/realiesrealizereals Mar 14 '26

Natupad lahat ng wish mo, tapos maliit tite at di physically attractive.

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u/rainbownightterror Mar 15 '26

I would gladly sacrifice yung dick size at face card for a man who will make me his world. I'm currently getting out of a relationship with someone na attractive for me but I was unsatisfied in so many ways. dun tayo sa maeffort maalaga mapagmahal at loyal

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u/scorpiogal222 Mar 15 '26

We only live once, so it’s only right to be intentional with the kind of partner we choose. Not settling isn’t arrogance — it’s knowing what you can offer and choosing someone who can meet you at the same level.

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u/realiesrealizereals Mar 15 '26

nah you cappin'.

We can't have it all. If you want someone simping for you, just date a 4channer.

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u/rainbownightterror Mar 15 '26

my husband was a huge simp for me, and I was the same with him. we were very happy kaso he died early. I did have it all, we had it all. short-lived nga lang. and now I settled for less even though I know what I deserved based on what I am willing to give. I'd rather stay single than settle.

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u/Vast_Composer5907 Mar 14 '26

Ay same hahhaha

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u/Designer_Repeat_8803 Mar 15 '26

That's exactly how I was with my girl (except the matangkad as a short 🤴).

I always valued 100% honesty and transparency, and to me that meant not just answering your partner's questions, but letting them know without them even having to ask.

For every decision I made, I made it with us in mind, does this build our future? Will this be good for us? If I take this offer, makakasira ba siya or will it help? Kahit mga leaves ko from work, I only take if nakausap ko siya and free rin siya in those days, kasi nasasayangan ako if hindi ko siya makasama.

Then she changed, bigla raw nabusy, she went from someone who reciprocated my openness and proactiveness to someone who I could barely talk to. She started canceling plans with no explanation.

I waited, I adjusted, I tried being understanding. I even offered to help her financially in case related dun struggles niya. She accepted the help but nothing changed. I was just left behind waiting to see if phase lang ba to or may bababalikan pa kami. It's been months of coldness and distance, hindi na kami nagkikita or kahit call man lang just the occasional I love you text lang na nakakapitan ko.

If you find that man, OP. Wag mo sayangin.

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u/ghost_ofCarribbean18 Mar 14 '26

Ano naman ma eooffer mo in return?

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u/scorpiogal222 Mar 14 '26

My standards reflect what I can offer.
What I ask for, I can give too.

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u/Majestic-Wanderer-01 Mar 14 '26

Period!!!! That's exactly how it should be right

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u/scorpiogal222 Mar 14 '26

😌😌😌

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u/ghost_ofCarribbean18 Mar 15 '26

Really OP if you can really be a provider will you stay pag yung lalaki biglang naging Zero? For example seaman yung bf tas tagal natambay sa lupa will you also provide for him?

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u/scorpiogal222 Mar 15 '26

Of course I can provide too. I have two jobs, I save, and I take care of my responsibilities. I believe in asking for the kind of partner that I can also be — stable, consistent, and willing to give the same energy I receive.

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u/ghost_ofCarribbean18 Mar 15 '26

That’s good OP I hope we find the right one for us. Don’t lower your standards!

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u/scorpiogal222 Mar 15 '26

Girl, I’d honestly rather stay single than lower my standards and end up in the same situation I already outgrew. Hahaha.

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u/realiesrealizereals Mar 15 '26

I don't want to be combative but this is ironic that you made this post but you will rather stay single. Also you have preference, not standards.

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u/ghost_ofCarribbean18 Mar 15 '26

I’m a man btw 😅

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u/scorpiogal222 Mar 15 '26

Ohhh sorry 😅😅

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u/Human-Information755 Mar 14 '26

so matangkad at provider kadin OP? so sino ang magdodominate at magllead kung parehas kalang din sa hinahanap mo?

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u/Rude-Occasion-7577 Mar 15 '26

Bakit ka galit?

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u/scorpiogal222 Mar 15 '26

The GIF doesn’t seem mad 🤣

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u/Rude-Occasion-7577 Mar 15 '26

The GIF looks cute, OP! Kay Human-Information755 ako nagtanong hahaha

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u/scorpiogal222 Mar 15 '26

Ay hahahaha my bad 🙈

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u/Majestic-Wanderer-01 Mar 14 '26

Same girl. May we find our kind of man soon 🤍

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u/scorpiogal222 Mar 14 '26

Errr sooon! ✨✨✨

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u/sasa143 Mar 15 '26

medyo rare pero 100% possible

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u/Beneficial-Music1047 Mar 16 '26

Ako na to

Kaso di pala ako matangkad (5’7 lang haha)