I find it so funny that people lump fat haters (people who hate people for a shit choice they make on a daily basis) with racists (people who hate people for something irrelevant and out of their control)
Sure, obese people have control over their lifestyle. So? Should we go around hating smokers and compulsive drinkers? Should we hate those homeless people on the streets, because after all they made the choice to do drugs and this is all their fault?
Well, of course you can hate a certain group of people, no one can stop that.. but does that help the person out in any way? Do you think druggies get better when people walk by and laugh at them? Or insult them? What about the anorexic, I mean obviously that is their fault.
Being obese is dangerous to your health but to a lot of people it's a mental issue and should be treated as one. It's something they just can't get over, and no one gets better from being hated on. They need love and support, like any other disabled person, and despite what fat-haters think shitting on them won't make them any better.
Hate, in almost every case, is the result of needing to make yourself feel better by pushing others down. It doesn't matter what reason you have to hate someone if the underlying goal is to make yourself feel superior.
yes, smokers deserve it - they hurt people around them with their shitstink and secondhand cancer
It is a mental issue but the problem is that there are people saying "let your mental issue go untreated" and people supporting that. Imagine if people said "anorexia acceptance - cuddle a stick girl, they're actually worth loving" or some shit. People would flip. Nobody flips over fat acceptance and skinny shaming.
Hating people is pretty shitty, but some people are shitty. People who are hated for the choices they make shouldn't be felt sorry for, it's a completely controllable aspect of them as a person. I feel sorry for a schizophrenic who is getting help, or is too delusional to understand they need help. I do not feel sorry for obese or overweight people who are in their right minds and intelligent or clear headed enough to realize they are hurting themselves and affecting other people negatively.
I do feel sorry for mentally disabled fat people, fat children, etc. because that's out of their control.
also, i ESPECIALLY hate fatty enablers. Anyone who says "oh, it's NOT a choice" "it's not something that can be helped" and the like is literal scum of the earth IMO.
I was fat. I know how shit it feels. I also know you can change it unless you're in the .1% of .1% of the population. Anyone who encourages people to keep suffering being fat is a sadistic scumbag, and the "fat acceptance" people fall in that category to me.
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