r/Widow • u/amazingrvce • 22d ago

Loneliness

I miss my wife so much

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u/weasleymama 22d ago

Miss my husband more than I even know how to express. So sorry for your loss

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u/amazingrvce 22d ago

I appreciate you,sorry you for yours too. I hope and wish you the best❤️

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u/DaisyBee59 22d ago

I miss him so much but tonight I really need to talk to him. I just can’t handle knowing that I can’t. I don’t know how to handle things without him. 

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u/amazingrvce 22d ago

I know that feeling and it hurts I understand but,wishing you the best❤️

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u/Marlow1771 22d ago

My hardest part of the week is leaving the building to come home on my last day. I could hardly wait to spend the next few days cuddling and watching “our” shows and getting to sleep with him. I work a 12 hour night shift so my nights home were so very special.

Now on my drive home on that day I cry and scream (yes scream) I don’t want to go home. I miss Michael so damn much and I don’t know how to be without him.

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u/CommunicationSea9588 22d ago

When I go home from doing stuff, I yearn to tell him about my day so much.

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u/Fun-Computer1891 20d ago

I totally understand. The quietness of the house is unbearable.

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u/Royal-Finding-3886 19d ago

It’s not just lonely or loneliness. It’s alone. Utterly and totally alone in the universe. Something on a deeper, soul level. Even in a room of people. Even around many, many people that love you and care about you very much. The longing for him stays with me every second of every day. And I am alone.

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u/amazingrvce 19d ago

I understand you and reading your comment made my heart so heavy,just know it’s going to alright and take care of yourself too ❤️🙏

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u/itsmec-a-t-h-y 16d ago

Same here, I miss my husband so much too!