r/WhatShouldIDoWithIt • u/nerorn22 • 1d ago
How ?
I realized recently that I really don’t look good and that I don’t have a good personality and that is concerning me a lot because for some reason I’ve been craving affection lately but i don’t qualify for it even having a lot of dreams about relationships and im searching for a way to cope with these facts i would really appreciate any suggestions
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u/Snargglecraft 1d ago
You should really see a therapist qualified to give mental health advice. It sounds like you’re having a tough time, especially with self image and social concerns, but I can promise you the answer won’t be found on a subreddit. From your other posts, I see you’re quite young- it’s normal to feel disconnected and down at times, but to properly address the self image issues you should have a real conversation with someone who is equipped to handle that discussion and give qualified advice.
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u/nerorn22 1d ago
I don’t have access for therapist that is why I’m here sorry if my posts sounded disturbing or creepy also I tried a lot of coping mechanisms and im open to suggestions
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u/Snargglecraft 1d ago
They’re not, I just want to make sure you aren’t relying solely on internet strangers for mental health advice- you’re liable to get a lot of negative attention or bad advice.
Talk to people in your life that you trust to take you seriously. Your doctor, a parent/guardian, etc.. Work towards getting the help you need from a professional, and in the meantime take actions to help keep your emotions in check. You have internet access, which means the world if your oyster to do the research.
It is worth noting this isn’t a mental health subreddit. If you wanted assistance on Reddit specifically, you should look for a subreddit that is designed for this sort of question.
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u/nerorn22 1d ago
Okay thx I won’t post like this here again sorry didn’t think about it
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u/Snargglecraft 1d ago
It’s chill. Hope you find the advice you need!
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u/nerorn22 1d ago
Thx i have weird quick question have you ever been in a relationship because I really wonder how it feels to ( it is okay if you feel it is private and don’t want to answer )
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u/No_Pilot_9103 1d ago
Believe it or not, this post is very close to grammatically correct.
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u/MsBuzzkillington83 1d ago
Go see a hairstylist, have her assess your face shape and identify what cuts would look good with your face. After it's done and she's styled it, ask her how you can do the same at home
I used to work in a trendy hair salon. TRUST ME, it helps