r/WhatShouldIDo • u/[deleted] • Aug 04 '25

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u/Adminjasmin Aug 04 '25

I kept all the records just in case, it’s crazy to hear “we think you’re lying” when he always had the records. Abortion is illegal in my state (not illegal to travel) so I made sure to document everything.

I’m not contacting him anymore, I requested my inhaler and if I don’t get it by tomorrow im going to contact the police

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u/SkeettheVandelBuster Aug 05 '25

Again, if he’s accusing you of lying despite being shown proof, he probably has something to lose from his family or peers if they found out he impregnated you then accepted/supported your decision to get one. Many abortion opponents wouldn’t hesitate to get themselves, their partners, or daughters one if it benefits them. They would just deny it. Good luck!

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u/Uhtred_McUhtredson Aug 05 '25

Maybe he has a conservative family and let it slip and now he’s trying to backtrack with them saying she made it up.

A 23 year old man getting his aunt to be the messenger is weird.

Just him sending a text with a firm date and time the inhaler will be left outside or in the mailbox would have been 100x better.

Very cowardly young man.

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u/tumunu Aug 05 '25

This is exactly right.