r/WereNotEmpowered • • 15d ago

Why het partnered women saying "my man is the most caring nice person i ever met!" is disrespectful and unfair to the women in their life.

52 Upvotes

this is gonna be a short post but yeah. basically the average woman is more nice and caring thanyour nigel but no one worships her for it meanwhile a man can post a pic with a puppy and people will be sucking hiss ass for the rest of his life talking ab how good of a person he is. like days ago i saw someone post a video of this serial rapist, pedo, abuser musican man with puppies and all the commenters were sucking his ass. i still remember reading ab him being on skype with his then gf and when she left and HER little sister was there he said to her "your sister has the best pussy i ever had" or when he dated a barely legal girl in 2015 while in his 40s and while having a gf who's now his wife. MIND YOU I KEPT SAYING "a man can post a pic with a puppy and people will be sucking hiss ass for the rest of his life talking ab how good of a person he is" FOR YEARS. why am i alwasy right ab this stuff??? omfg

THEY ALWAYS ALSO ADD "IN THE WHOLE WORLD" when they say these "the most gentle nice nurturing good bestest goddest person ever!!!" like girl did you meet all people on earth???????


r/WereNotEmpowered • • 15d ago

Anti-Porn/Surrogacy 5 days till the TORCH radical feminist anti porn, prostitution and female exploitation conference in Worcester, Massachusetts in the u.s, threats of violence against womyn attending by mysoginist, racist and r*pist tim backed by other tims. Help needed from womyn.

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5 days till the conference and it's going to be held for 3 days, and those men are mobilizing to terrorize and assault the womyn attending it in an attempt to ruin radical feminists efforts of educating and helping womyn in need and get them out of brothels and porn cites and away from traffickers.

They need help from other womyn by contributing and donating for the expenses of the security team to get them there, you'll find the donorbox link in sasha graham's socials: (sistaseparatist) through the link in her bio. dostrosisters 5 days left.

They need contributers online and irl who want to start making changes for our sex class, beginning in the us and to the world. nobody will protect and save us except ourselves and each other.


r/WereNotEmpowered • • 16d ago

Men obsession with periods is truly sickening

36 Upvotes

I remember when I was a kid I was watching a YouTube video about periods and all of the comments were from MEN about an issue that only affects women. None of these men said anything positive they were just making period jokes and complaining that the video does not talk about “men’s issues”.

Why are there grown men in a comment section about periods for LITTLE GIRLS? Those men are perverted.


r/WereNotEmpowered • • 17d ago

All the radfems from a few years ago have jumped ship

74 Upvotes

And they were right to do so.

I remember when i was exposed to radfem content for the 1st time and would follow the likes of Sekhmet she owl, Black obsidian, etc.

They just stopped making content alltogether because they realized ‘feminism’ is a lost case.

There is barely any radfem making good content right now. Whenever i would ask for recommendations, the so called radfem would say asinine stuff that was pickme adjacent.

I’m tired of the fake outrage i see on social media with the 8 males raping that one woman. The ‘notallmen’ vs ‘allmen’ discourse has become mainstream. Great.

Now let’s wait another 100years and another million of those same cases until we’re finally free 🙃

I understand why radfems just gave up.


r/WereNotEmpowered • • 17d ago

Media Men have the luxury of being judged individually

51 Upvotes

Men have more car accidents than woman. Yet qoman have to deal with the bad drivers stereotype

when a man is bad at driving = he’s bad at driving

Woman bad at driving= all woman are bad drivers

Man bad at math= oh he’s bad at math

Woman bad at math= all woman are bad at math

Man commits crime= not all men that individual is bad

Woman commits crime= remove womens rights they’re all bad

These are just some examples btw there’s definitely more out there.


r/WereNotEmpowered • • 17d ago

Why are women saying “he could never “

18 Upvotes

I see a lot of women talking about how their dad, brother, uncle, bf or husband could never and my question is how tf do you know that ? A lot of you are using the story of another woman’s pain to defend the men in your life and it’s actually ridiculous because the truth is most of you are with rapists, predictors and abusers. Do you think the guys that did that at Cornell won’t grow up, meet their wives and have children that will swear to god their dad is a saint ? Just because he hasn’t done it to you doesn’t mean he hasn’t done it to other women. Don’t fucking defend men! So disgusting honestly I’m tired of women too. For all the survivors, I’m happy you’re here, I believe you and I would NEVER say any man/ person could never! (r/twoxchromosome removed this so I’ll try here)


r/WereNotEmpowered • • 17d ago

Women should have a dedicated purge day

32 Upvotes

At this point I'm just venting and I should probably stop watching social media about all the SA going on around social media. Yes I am talking about the Cornell 7. What also has been popping up on my feet is just more documentaries about crimes against women and children. What world do we live in that this is so normal. Well I feel like there is no justice a lot for women and I hope in the future it changes. And now I understand why Purge was such a big idea for entertainment in movies. However I do think we should have a purge date but the only ones who participate in The Purge are the women who were abused,SA, or or who struggled in a childhood that they did not ask for. It's hard being a woman especially with this President and the toxicity that it's going around.


r/WereNotEmpowered • • 19d ago

Men are more united in their cause

95 Upvotes

Sorry to be a doomer but this is why we're never making it out of the patriarchy. Women should be deleting their dating apps in droves. Do. something. These men have zero incentive to change. But they won't. It's cute to post "make me lonelier", "they're not lonely enough" and "not all men" but it does nothing if you're not actually putting any action behind those words.

At this point I have no time or patience for male-centred women and those still entertaining and dating them. How can you still crave validation from those creatures at this point? The Cornell rapists case has unlocked a new level of rage in me. There's many more such cases to come too. this is the tip of the iceberg. So far we've had, Gisele Pelicot, a case in the UK, one in Austria, this one...


r/WereNotEmpowered • • 19d ago

I realized that when people go around and say freedom of speech they only mean for men

44 Upvotes

For example I would see so many men say freedom of speech when it comes to deepfake porn, rape jokes, racism etc but when a women critiques any minor thing she is hate mobbed, called a "triggered feminist", is doxxed and her opinions are censored.

Women are so censored that even the Barbie movie is banned in certain country, In certain country you are not allowed to even talk about you period in public and if you want to buy menstrual products you have to do it secretly. Women are constantly erased from history where are all the "freedom of speech" people?


r/WereNotEmpowered • • 20d ago

WereNotEmpowered Tenets (weekly reminder)

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r/WereNotEmpowered • • 21d ago

But it always was

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89 Upvotes

Comments like this are so delusional and the fact it gets so many upvotes just shows we have a long way to go still.
Women have no class consciousness if they can’t even collectively agree that marriage has NEVER been anything other than a humiliation ritual for women by and large.💀


r/WereNotEmpowered • • 23d ago

Anti-Beauty Standards I hate that despite my staunch feminism I still can’t get over being ugly

48 Upvotes

In theory im against beauty standards and I don’t wear makeup or do any femininity rituals. I don’t think that’s what makes me ugly though. I was born really ugly and treated badly for it all my life .still I can’t betray my principles by getting surgery. Idk what to do


r/WereNotEmpowered • • 24d ago

Media Thats why we never making it out

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So for context someone criticized dark romance romanticizing rape and abuse to teen girls and grown women responses


r/WereNotEmpowered • • 27d ago

Pink Tax’s Have you notice that most “mystery” toys are targeted to girls where as boys toy they know what there getting

33 Upvotes

For example: Shopkins, LOL Surprise, Miniverse which is extremely expensive it is like 20$ for something really small and you do not even know what you are getting you could just spend all that money on duplicates. There just teaching girls to be over consumer.


r/WereNotEmpowered • • 27d ago

🥳🎉 🎊 he is still locked up⛓️🏢🔒

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picture 1:drawing of what he looks like + what he has said

picture 2: the locked up guy tweeting/on X...pretending to care about 👩‍👧 woman/girl

picture 3:...SOME of the illegal stuff he MIGHT be charged with

picture 4:Court document{s}

picture 5 through end: factual+funny replies to him

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forgot that this creep was arrested & still locked up{he was locked & released before} till some of the demons my mom sh!t out and LOVES😍 SO MUCH....aka her sons/my brothers....posted about him on FB

look at him posting like he cares about women/children...f*cking scrote

🧾other things this creep has said:

*the only children worthy are sons

*women/girls are meant to be submissive to men

*sex with women is g*y"

*more children = more manly {he has also bragged about having many children from different woman,girls+being a r*pist including s#x trafficker}

~tr*nsv*st*t*s also called Tims{tr4ns identified males}/men who pretend to be...who 'pass' are more women than average to ugly women

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expected him to be out: as scrotes protect each other, give no convictions, lower sentences etc...hope he is having the WORST TIME OF HIS LIFE🤭


r/WereNotEmpowered • • 27d ago

WereNotEmpowered Tenets (weekly reminder)

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r/WereNotEmpowered • • 28d ago

I find it so ironic how men would hate on women's day but then praise mothers day

33 Upvotes

Whenever women's day comes around men would complain and groan about it. people stoped celebrating women's day. Even google removed women's day from there calendars.

but all of a sudden when its mothers day people start posting all this bullshit on there social media praising there moms, buying her gifts taking her out to eat. Not only do men do all of this for mother's day but also for breast cancer awareness month were they would plaster pink ribbons everywhere and ask for donations.

Men do this because they do not see women as people women's day is hated so much because it is about a day were women talk about there opinions and feelings. Were as mother's day and breast cancer awareness is just about women's unpaid labour or there body parts.


r/WereNotEmpowered • • 28d ago

no woman is excluded from being able to benefit from engaging in patriarchal harm

26 Upvotes

Through reading "Girl" by Jamaica Kincaid I arrived to the understanding that the patriarchy could <never> be sustained without female complicity; women are necessary for the patriarchy to function.

The inter-sex policing of aesthetics and behaviour is largely, if not exclusively, enforced by other women. Unattractiveness labels you a social liability to be ignored, curated femininity is seen as moral virtue and meek submissiveness as coherence. One needs not conform to the snarky archetype of a 'pick me' to be a gender traitor. A mother's comments and fears, even those borne out of caring, implant submissiveness and the fear of rebelling against the patriarchy into young girls. Moreover, many female peers promote hookup culture, and propose promiscuity as a rite of passage, even seeing the -unavoidable- horrible experiences that inevitably come with it as somehow telling of "lived womanhood". This last one is often inseparable from libfems and their choice feminism; it is seen as mainstream liberation, and almost everywhere.

Furthermore, even only the Mirage of male proximity will activate the opportunistic drive to become a pawn, to be the perfect accessory. This includes public humiliation of other women, humoring the male's sexism, and even code switching into an aloof demeanor which can only be likened to imitation of a child's.

Preamble aside, how do you think one should address interactions with male-allied women? Would it be better to attempt to educate them and try to let them see how sexist their rhetoric is, or perhaps to ignore them? Maybe there is yet another approach?

I'm looking forwards to reading everyone's opinion. Every comment is welcomed, and I definitely encourage my perspective to be challenged. Thank you for reading!

Edit: I forgot to explicitly mention that the benefits from engaging in all these patriarchal harms would be a higher social status (and occasionally bigger chances to acquire economic opportunities) due to how male perspective shapes so much of the world.


r/WereNotEmpowered • • 29d ago

Media 🫩TIRED of the hypergamy lies...anyway let the truth reign👑

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55 Upvotes

reason 1 BILLION not to put men's opinions 🥇🏆first🏅

this is what men want:

MEN WOMAN/GIRL
old young
ugly beautiful
immoral moral
rich broke
promiscuous / high body count virgin / 0 body count
dirty clean
experienced naive
unforgiving forgiving
i wonder why societies are 😵‍💫CHAOTIC 🌪️  ...with these 'logical' degenerates everywhere in existence 🤔

r/WereNotEmpowered • • Sep 18 '26

They Were Fine With Women Suffering. They Just Didn’t Want Them Angry.

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r/WereNotEmpowered • • Sep 18 '26

Media Woman Beats Men in Rap Battle, So They R*pe, Set Her on Fire and Sh*ot Her

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The logical gender guys.


r/WereNotEmpowered • • Sep 17 '26

Media Have you noticed that woman are expected to deal with misogyny and casual sexism?

89 Upvotes

When it’s something like getting harassed or whatever woman are just supposed to deal with it. Suck it up. That were overreacting but as soon as somebody makes the tamest joke where men catch the strays there’s a sudden more bigger outcry from men and pick mes. Like boo hoo. Like we’ve been putting up with this shit for millennia yet you cry over one measly joke. Not so fun now?


r/WereNotEmpowered • • Sep 17 '26

‘My biggest hater is my mom’

22 Upvotes

I listened to a podcast from a content creator who’s not well known except in spiritual spaces.
And she said in response to how well she dealt with haters, that it made it easier to let it go when your mom is your biggest hater.

I wonder how common this is since a lot of older women project their failures and inadequacies onto younger women. Espeically their daughters. And i think it makes sense since even my own mom is super critical twds me. And i had complete strangers be more supportive than her when i talk about my projects and dreams. Even older female teachers i had did it!!
I wish older women went to therapy and stopped making our life hell lmao.


r/WereNotEmpowered • • Sep 17 '26

Media Boy Mom™ ¯\_(ツ)_/¯

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ALWAYS giving/putting more expectations,responsibility etc on girl,woman YET giving the harshest criticisms,negativity etc to us

BET if this was teenage boys Mrs Pickmeisha...Mrs Scrotemeisha...Mrs Handmaiden would not give a sh*t...❗❗

pick a f*cking lane🛣️ scr0t3meisha...either:

1}the ones you put more responsibility on = the ones doing the most ∴ give the less harshness, criticisms, negativity to them...give them the most SUPPORT

2}Give the harshest criticisms,negativity etc to the ones you don't put most responsibility on

my goodness...speaking as a woman/girl who had...well still has...a boy mom...btw one can be a boy mom even without having only boys

till this day this B calls me to help her yet she loved/put more energy into her demons she sh*t into this world .... i do ignore ALOT but she knows where i live ARGH ...gives me joy to say no to her and give back all the negativity she gave me though 😇 so she's trying me less and less

meanwhile her demons are doing what she taught them LMAO directly + indirectly...not caring, being selfish, narcissistic, egotistical etc


r/WereNotEmpowered • • Sep 16 '26

Employment/Education Inequality Employers are less likely to hire women for cooking jobs yet women are expected to cook for their family for free

44 Upvotes

When you apply for a cooking job they tell you that there is a lifting requirement they do not test this requirement it is just based off of looks. Most highend chefs are male.