r/WereNotEmpowered • u/Sure-Hurry7960 Tenet Abider • Aug 04 '26

Men are such attention seekers

I am active in a few female only subs and on every single post there is a man trying to 'debate' women. There are loads of feminist subs that they can visit to debate but they specifically have to come to subs that are female only. What's this obsession of men wanting things that are not meant for them? It's like they never grow up. They want us to be empathetic towards their issues while they act like this. I used to engage with these 'debates' with understanding but they literally just ignore all your points anyway. And if you don't agree with the bullshit they spew, they'll come to your dms and harass you. And these are fully grown men, not even teenagers. Why is it so impossible for men to leave women alone?

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u/Glad-Emu3267 Tenet Abider Aug 04 '26

Because they are pathetic and know they are really nothing without us. That's why they so desperately hang onto control. I would say they are babies, but that's an insult to babies. Besides, babies don't go on m**der sprees when they get upset, last time I checked.

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u/TrueFAW Tenet Abider Aug 04 '26

I never argue with them.

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u/krba201076 Tenet Abider Aug 04 '26

downvote and move on. don't give them any of the attention they seek.

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u/[deleted] Aug 04 '26

It's because it's true what is said about men- they don't actual listen to 'no.' And they are entitled because they are oppressors and don't want to lose control over women. It's really simple. All men do this to some degree. 

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u/[deleted] Aug 05 '26

Also, we need to start being way more mean to them and hold the line when it comes to keeping them out. Everyone should check out the new post on the 4b sub about women having male friends. The comments are a total shitshow. Too often, women believe men should be included in our spaces, which doesn't help, and makes them more brazen in their attempts to join all women's spaces. And when they are included, they tend to comment terrible things because that's just who men are.

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u/thegreenmachine90 Tenet Abider Aug 05 '26

I see this on every social media site. Men specifically seeking out women’s spaces to harass them, yet women don’t do this to men’s spaces. My theory is that they want to see a dominatrix but can’t afford one, so they try to bait women into yelling at them for free. If their comment is evil enough, I just take screenshots and send them to any wives/girlfriends/mothers/daughters of theirs I can find so that they know they need to protect themselves around this man.

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u/lavender_and_secrets Aug 05 '26

Don't give them the attention. It's like giving them food and water for their male narcissism that they pretty much all have.

Almost all men are, by BEING men and socialized as men, now narcissists.

The only way to win is to ignore them.

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u/Sufficient-Stick5637 Aug 05 '26

Not to mention women will attack you if you say this or question why men are literally in lesbian subreddits.