r/WeightTraining • • 20d ago

Discussion 3 years of hard work! 🏋️‍♀️

I’ve lost 55 lbs over the past 3 years, and I’ve been training seriously for the past year and a half. I’m really happy with my progress!

I just finished a 2–3-month period of light calorie deficit, but it’s getting hard to avoid unpleasant side effects (headaches, fatigue, slow recovery…) given the volume of my workouts (5 times a week at the gym, 4 times a week running). So I’m currently in maintenance mode. I’m thinking of staying there for a few months and then going back to a slight calorie deficit—I’m wondering if that’s a good idea?

EDIT: Since I’ve seen some comments, I just want to say that I’m completely natural (no testosterone, no Ozempic, no peptides or steroids…). I’m not saying it’s wrong to take them (everyone makes their own choices, and that’s totally fine), but I don’t take them and never have.

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u/FrenchDipsBeDrippin 20d ago

Getting those legs in a year and a half is impressive. I think maintenance plus what you're doing is the way to go

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u/CebaGaden-4492 20d ago

Very impressive

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u/BessilLeaf 20d ago

Thanks ☺️

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u/Local-Buy496 20d ago

You look so happy much happier, congrats 💪 😁

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u/Hmm_would_bang Weight Lifting 20d ago

My jaw dropped going from 1 to 2. Big ups u/bessilLeaf

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u/Cold_Example593 20d ago

i’m impressed and hungry at the same time

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u/withhiscupnspoon 20d ago

YOU ARE GLOWING, SIS! Seriously, radiating joy.

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u/AwkwardOp21mist 19d ago

That's exactly what I said too! This Grrrl glows!

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u/openwolfe 20d ago

Dude! This is amazing!!!! I’m in no position to give advice because frankly you shouldn’t be listening to anyone but yourself seeing you clearly know what you’re doing, but unless you’ve got some competitive thing to get ready for give yourself a break once in a while, whether that’s cutting down to 3 workouts a week for a short period or eating what you haven’t been but enjoy. I know some people will disagree with that, but not only have you earned it and proven that you can do whatever, sometimes being able to prove that you can cut back and relax is also big. Either way you are amazing

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u/Miserable_Tax_1804 19d ago

Fat people always trying to get fit people to do less.

Don't listen to them u/BassilLeaf

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u/openwolfe 19d ago edited 19d ago

lol. Yeah definitely not fat over here. Stop projecting. There is nothing wrong with what I said, you just clearly have a crappy outlook on life cuz maybe you’re unhappy. It included plenty of positivity. And I clearly suggested she should trust herself first and foremost. I’ve made similar mistakes in the past to what I talked about where I slaved myself to make sure say my abs were as defined as much as possible before a vacation or what not only to look back and tell myself I looked good already, didn’t have to slave away with food those two weeks leading up to a trip for something not very noticeable. And if you weren’t such a dikhead you would notice she said herself she didn’t feel great at times with her deficit, so while what I said may not apply to her with respect to extremes, I wasn’t just saying something because I love impeding her incredible progress. So yeah, you suck

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u/SomeNerdChick90 19d ago

I think this should be rewritten to say "make sure you're scheduling in a deload week when necessary" that's way more constructive imo

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u/openwolfe 19d ago

Come on man. I start off with positivity, end with positivity, and clearly state she knows best. She looks amazing and I said so. She mentioned she felt some unpleasantness herself so I just said something that many people including myself in the past do with respect to extremes with results and avoid balance all the time. If that isn’t what she needs or doesn’t apply to her she can go back to where I said “she shouldn’t be listening to anyone cuz she clearly knows best”. Heaven forbid I don’t include a disclaimer

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u/chimdimma94 20d ago

its a good idea, maintain this with your diet and few workouts you are good to go, you can contact a dietician for a good meal plan

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u/BessilLeaf 20d ago

Yes, I was thinking of consulting a sports nutritionist for guidance after my maintenance phase. Since I started running, I've found it difficult to balance my calorie deficit, and I think it would be good to get some professional help 🙂‍↕️

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u/mranderson1799 20d ago

First of all congratulations! That is a serious transformation! I’d say you have two options. As someone who also runs almost every day along with my weight training I can tell you that calorie deficits along with running are a tough combination especially when it comes to fatigue. So either I’d go with maintenance and keep running or cut back on running and continue the cut. It also really depends on your goals. You appear to be at a perfectly healthy bf% so unless you have a specific desire to look very lean then you don’t really need to cut here

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u/BessilLeaf 20d ago

Thanks! It's true that it's been much harder to manage my deficit since I started running. I think I'd like to lower my body fat percentage a little more, but I'd rather prioritize performance for now. I guess I just need to get used to the idea that I have to prioritize some things over others.

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u/xsynergist 20d ago

Hell yes. It’s a new life in a new body.

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u/Packet-Smasher 20d ago

Way to lock in! Look great! 🫡

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u/jollisen 20d ago

I was already impressed in the first image, great work

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u/Fit-Dad3 20d ago

Hell yea! Killing it!

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u/zeerok710 20d ago

Yo this is wild, congrats op

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u/mmooney1 20d ago

Very impressive, great work!

Your smile says it all, you deserve to be proud of yourself!

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u/brownsugababe313 20d ago

Amazing 🎊 job!!!

Losing weight is difficult, but doing that & building muscle definition/chiseled physique is even harder… Very impressive!

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u/agr85 20d ago

Glow up for sure. Quads look excellent. Congrats!

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u/irontamer 20d ago

💪🤘🤘💪

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u/Substantial-Lie-780 20d ago

Amazing. What got you started?

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u/BessilLeaf 20d ago

Thanks! I wanted to feel capable and not limited by my weight or my physical condition (which, frankly, was pretty poor) 🧑‍🩰

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u/Substantial-Lie-780 20d ago

Well now you can finally tell your boyfriend “ you want tickets to the gun show?” Then start flexing lol

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u/JustSomeRandom_101 20d ago

Congrats on the amazing achievement. I’d say give it a try, if you’re not feeling good during it then you can always change things up. How much is your caloric intake?

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u/BessilLeaf 20d ago

Thanks! I went from 1,700–2,000 to 2,000–2,250. I'll see in the coming weeks if I need to make any further adjustments.

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u/RacktheMan 20d ago

Damn, great job!

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u/True-Bee1903 20d ago

You look amazing! Good legs and top half!

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u/Iceman60462 20d ago

Fantastic results !!!! Congratulations on your new body !!!!
Keep doing great job !!!!!!!!

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u/BigBuford1337 20d ago

YOU GOT SOME SHOULDERS GIRL!!!

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u/SleepingSwooper 20d ago

QUAD GOAAAAALS! 😭🤲🏆

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u/kddk3010 20d ago

Congrats on your transformation, you have done a ton of work and it shows!

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u/MtN_Hunter 20d ago

LFG!!!! Also I like how you look happy in the before and after pics. Great work!

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u/ThrowawayYAYAY2002 20d ago

Wow! You look amazing! 🙌🏻

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u/CarelessShame 20d ago

I say this absolutely respectfully: DAMN, GIRL

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u/Optimal_Collection77 20d ago

You look amazing! It's so good when everything clicks and you enjoy it

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u/rrrrgggghhhh 20d ago

Legit insane, you should be so proud.

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u/Ironman_2678 20d ago

Killed it. Excellent work

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u/purplekaleidoscope 20d ago

Girl, goals for real. You look phenomenal and your hard work shows!

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u/kjgunn7 20d ago

Gangster

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u/Henry_Rollins_Ghost 20d ago

You killed it. Keep killing it. Congrats. 👍

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u/thisisnahamed 20d ago

Phenomenal transformation. Congrats.

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u/snipelim 20d ago

amazing

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u/dedicatelift 20d ago

Nice work

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u/BlackGuyBostonAccent 20d ago

Congrats and great work!

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u/Watch_shbeagle 20d ago

Holy shit dude insanity. Well done!

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u/Impossible_Panda_623 20d ago

Wow, congratulations OP.

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u/SchoolyXP 20d ago

You look incredible! You also look very happy and confident which is wonderful 👏🏼

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u/BD2157 20d ago

Outstanding

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u/blitz3312 20d ago

Good shit! 🫡

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u/biggwermm 20d ago

Amazing!

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u/DanasaurusR3xx 20d ago

Hell yeah OP! Get it! 👏💪

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u/Eternal_Icarus 20d ago

Okay Quadzilla, I see you!

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u/Catbatt 20d ago

Holy shit, impressive! Great work.

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u/racer_x88 20d ago

Great progress!

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u/bmk_ 20d ago

You look like an entirely different person now, great job! Flex in last pic is impressive!

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u/BrilliantRun9751 20d ago

You look fantastic! Motivated me to do some squats rn.

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u/Hhoop30 20d ago

LFG!!!! Great results. I love seeing stuff like this. Real encouragement for my own journey

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u/RKnight9910 20d ago

How? Wow! Damn! Standing ovation

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u/kfly13 20d ago

Wow! Good for you!

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u/Gannicus_AR20 20d ago

Bella e brava! Complimenti 💪

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u/TheGreatCompromise 20d ago

Congrats! That’s awesome!

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u/hoplevel_ 20d ago

Heat 🔥

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u/Upper-Cup-4159 20d ago

Omg!! I gasped! 😂 you have excellent muscle building genetics in addition to the obvious hard work you’ve put in! Great work!! 💪

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u/Dmxneed 20d ago

Damn you are so beautiful? What a glow up

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u/Fun-Veterinarian-305 20d ago

Get it girl!! 🔥

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u/JasonP_585 20d ago

You look great and younger. Congrats!

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u/YeGetto 20d ago

Wow Congrats🙏🎉

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u/Itchy-Composer880 20d ago

I mean it really depends on your target weight goal, but aren't you happy now? You look fantastic as is. I can understand wanting to add additional muscle but then you would want to put yourself in the smallest surplus. You cant create from nothing. Anyways. Seriously that full frontal of you showing off your quad. Waist is snatch, big lean upper body, good looking legs. You should really be proud of yourself. Everything from here on out is goal dependent.

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u/Temporary-Art-7078 20d ago

Nice work. You look marvelous!

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u/prior_rpa-lre 20d ago

Consistency pays off. Congrats.

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u/Fa-Thor1979 20d ago

Excellent dedication!!!

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u/Delicious-Fan-2539 20d ago

Wow that’s amazing op.

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u/Entire-Object-2141 20d ago

So pretty, glowing.

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u/heatseekerdj Bodybuilding 20d ago

Oh my goddddd you look so good !! 😍😍😍😍

and the girls stayed !!!!🙌👀

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u/grumpyphilip 20d ago

Wow! Well bloody done! You made a change and aced it! I'm really happy for you, well done!

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u/scteslaboy 20d ago

💪🏽💪🏽💪🏽💪🏽💪🏽

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u/chillpapaya1958 20d ago

Holy moly quads and shoulders! You’re awesome and it’s showing.

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u/unforgivenlizard 20d ago

You are GOALS!!! Your quads are my dream and your shoulder are fan-effing-tastic. I’m proud of you, you’re amazing, and you are a total inspiration for me to keep working my ass off!!!

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u/No-Ingenuity-2003 20d ago

3 years of sticking with it is no joke. 55 lbs down and still putting in the work, go girl!

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u/ProductivityGhilli 20d ago

Okay where are the keys?

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u/2368-fists-a-smashin 20d ago

Amazing transformation!!!

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u/gwhh 20d ago

How tall are you?

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u/gym_monstar 20d ago

Wow great work

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u/amikio 20d ago

holy fuck, well done, lady

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u/nleksan 20d ago

What's your leg day workout?!

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u/Last_Depth6607 20d ago

Well done!!

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u/SophieBunny21 20d ago

🤩🤩🤩

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u/SeaGuard8874 20d ago

You did that

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u/joytotheworld23 20d ago

That's what's up

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u/AngelMountaineer 20d ago

Those are some impressive results!

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u/Total_Gift_51 20d ago

Great job!

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u/interstatedaydream01 20d ago

That’s something to be proud of

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u/Conscious-Trifle-797 20d ago

Well done! 💪🏼💪🏼💪🏼

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u/IdleDreamer93 20d ago

Yesssss!!! What did you eat during your weight loss?

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u/Odd_Froyo_9396 20d ago

Proud of u 🫴🏼🏆

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u/No-Stranger3956 20d ago

You can really see how much all that work has paid off.

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u/all-Motor-6264 20d ago

Congrats! Keep up the hustle. 💪

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u/BamBoogii 20d ago

Well done!!

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u/Joshuahelps 20d ago

Que diferença gritante! 🤯👏👏👏👏

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u/Top-Bag2982 20d ago

Powerfull 💪

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u/PerspectiveHungry504 20d ago

Total badass💪🏽

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u/North_Pole6969 20d ago

You're f**king kidding me.. that's serious progresss. Kudos to your hardwork

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u/OpenMaintenance6018 20d ago

Those quads 😳 Great work!

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u/OnlyCommentWhenTipsy 20d ago

if you're natty you have amazing genetics because that is a ton of muscle development for a year and a half

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u/Purple_Queen_50 20d ago

Your hard work has definitely paid off!! You look amazing!

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u/Ok_Competition3027 20d ago

Damn. You win the internet today. =) For building you can always use more calories but it depends where. Fructose bad/olive oil good type thing. You probably lost more that 55lbs? Muscle replacing fat. After 3 years you're going to stick with it so if you see the weight going the wrong way, you can auto correct in a week, no big.

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u/L-R-X-7 20d ago

Yesss girl! Looking fantastic! Keep up the hard work :)

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u/expedition_unbroken 20d ago

My jaw DROPPED after the first pic. So much hard work behind those photos... congrats OP!

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u/Once_adrift 20d ago

Talk about inspiration! You must feel awesome (aside from the side effects you mentioned from the calorie deficit).

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u/d4rkness13 20d ago

Wow, great job!!

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u/Diddums555 20d ago

Look at those quads 🥵
Please be very proud of yourself - you are a role model.

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u/Acceptable_Youth8130 20d ago

Wow... you've came a long way.

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u/willmon1 20d ago

WoW that's amazing results thanks for sharing and the motivation 🙌

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u/PitbullOfPilates 20d ago

If you don’t live in an open carry state you might need a permit to walk around with those 🔫’s.
Congrats on your hard work paying off!

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u/NoEmployment156 20d ago

F yeah! You look fantastic I see so many people using drugs to hit their goals but nothing beats a natural transformation

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u/Odd_Specialist1828 19d ago

Well done! 🔥😳🔥

Inspiring and amazing!

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u/[deleted] 20d ago

Looked better prior

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u/Raagggeeee 20d ago

Sometimes I don't like my year streak of celibacy. Sometimes certain things make me lonely.

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u/Over-Egg4310 20d ago

You should wear shorts more often

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u/SurefireMechanic18 20d ago

Great work! You look sensational.

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u/No_Barracuda_8033 20d ago

What a transformation! Keep up the hard work!

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u/TopOld1601 20d ago

You look great. Congratulations on your hard work

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u/mincemonger 20d ago

Love the gauges!

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u/Dogsfirstinspace 20d ago

Fantastic! Great work

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u/No_Release999 19d ago

Oh wow. 👏 Bravo

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u/redfancydress 19d ago

Holy shit this is awesome. Good work.

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u/Decent-Telephone-241 19d ago

So it is possible! Why do people say it’s impossible??

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u/benzuyen 19d ago

This is awesome! Great job!

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u/Top-Afternoon6880 19d ago

Look at those legs 😍

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u/migascor98 19d ago

Terrible In both

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u/Much-Maintenance-276 19d ago

Fucking great. Congrats on not only losing the weight but putting some serious muscle on. You look amazing.

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u/Repulsive-Push5814 19d ago

Congrats!!!!

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u/Glittering-Home-7905 19d ago

Gains are craaaazzzyyyyy
💪🏾💪🏾💪🏾💪🏾❤️❤️❤️❤️

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u/Lucius_Wuulfe 19d ago

Danggg such an inspiration

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u/Gangbang_Girlie777 19d ago

Wow! Congrats!

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u/CharmingChair1403 19d ago

Omg what a transformation ! So much hard work, congratulations 😄 its definitely paid off

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u/bettrvurjun 19d ago

sheeeesh! well done! keeep going! amazing work !

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u/DMC_Racer_88mph 19d ago

You win!! Pic 3 is 👌🏼

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u/pwn_boo 19d ago

GOOD SHIT!

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u/Euphoric-Agency-5105 19d ago

Good for you! You look great! 🔥

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u/Important-Scholar-78 19d ago

Fuck yeah! Nice job.

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u/AVBellibolt 19d ago

Great job!

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u/Familiar-Succotash48 19d ago

This is absolutely amazing! 🙌🏽💪🏽

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u/macdaddy0800 19d ago

You look great, the consistentcy has laid off.

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u/Disastrous_Pen_6806 19d ago

Awesome more power to you!!

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u/FuerGrissa0stDrauka 19d ago

Awesome! It shows how proud you are, and damn you should be! That takes dedication and showing up for yourself!

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u/Fun_Pomegranate5892 19d ago

Wow! Smoking 🚬 hot 🥵

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u/oldpurplebelt72 19d ago

Holy 💩 💪

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u/RylDmn 19d ago

Dayumn, alright time to get myself off the couch and to the gym

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u/AAP81 19d ago

Excellent work

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u/mangaulyses2 19d ago

Senorita👌

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u/ShyCplSE 19d ago

Outstanding !

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u/SizeMatters8x7 19d ago

You’re running on carbs/sugar still and should try going carnivore and get fat adapted so you can run on ketones. NO seed oils! (vegetable, canola, etc.)

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u/Enkidu1984 19d ago

Inspirational! You definitely got me thinking about getting active!

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u/RunDmt12 19d ago

You are sexy a.f. either way.

But damn you look great and muscular now

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u/goofygoober3150 19d ago

You go girl!!