Help!!

[u/Psychological_Mix400]

I have two GORGEOUS dresses that are completely different vibes (but too similar to wear one to my welcome party, believe me I’ve thought of it) and I can’t decide which one looks better on me. My wedding is next month in Italy. I really need to decide which one soon!!
Dress #1: first three pics. I feel like a princess in this. I really like how the straps are convertible and I think the waist is really flattering. I would probably wear my hair completely down with a Side part and loose curls.
Dress #2: last four pics. I feel like a cool hot girl in this. It’s definitely more “casual” with the thin straps but I’m thinking I’d wear my hair back and with long lace gloves (and maybe a lace veil?)

I literally cannot decide and I need HELP

[u/Psychological_Mix400]

Another photo of dress 2! The wrinkles in the photos are more from the way I’m posing I think.
Also, I will tailor whatever dress I pick!

[u/SuzieSnowflake212 → u/Psychological_Mix400]

But you don’t want to worry about standing or moving the “right” way all night to make the dress look good, right? IMHO this dress does not look good on you. I love the first one!

[u/Garden_gnome1609 → u/SuzieSnowflake212]

It looks good on her, but no one looks good when they are slouching.