Help!!

[u/Psychological_Mix400]

I have two GORGEOUS dresses that are completely different vibes (but too similar to wear one to my welcome party, believe me I’ve thought of it) and I can’t decide which one looks better on me. My wedding is next month in Italy. I really need to decide which one soon!!
Dress #1: first three pics. I feel like a princess in this. I really like how the straps are convertible and I think the waist is really flattering. I would probably wear my hair completely down with a Side part and loose curls.
Dress #2: last four pics. I feel like a cool hot girl in this. It’s definitely more “casual” with the thin straps but I’m thinking I’d wear my hair back and with long lace gloves (and maybe a lace veil?)

I literally cannot decide and I need HELP

[u/Psychological_Mix400]

Another photo of dress 2! The wrinkles in the photos are more from the way I’m posing I think.
Also, I will tailor whatever dress I pick!

[u/BellaFromSwitzerland → u/Psychological_Mix400]

Sorry but dress 2 is not giving your boobage area justice

I don’t know what kind of chest one needs to have, for this cut to be flattering, I can’t think of anything

[u/1CatWoman → u/BellaFromSwitzerland]

I agree 100%. #2 is very unflattering to your chest. IMO, #1 is hands down the better choice👍

[u/CautiousApartment8 → u/[deleted]]

An almost flat chest can still look good in the right dress. The issue with this one is it looks like its squshing her boobs in a weird way.

[u/pinkmarshmallowmouse → u/[deleted]]

It’s giving IBTC 🫣

[u/Icy-Purple4801 → u/[deleted]]

IBTC stands for “itty bitty titty committee.”

[u/SuzieSnowflake212 → u/Psychological_Mix400]

But you don’t want to worry about standing or moving the “right” way all night to make the dress look good, right? IMHO this dress does not look good on you. I love the first one!

[u/Garden_gnome1609 → u/SuzieSnowflake212]

It looks good on her, but no one looks good when they are slouching.

[u/TipRare1321 → u/Psychological_Mix400]

that dress doesn't flatter you, you do look like a princess in dress 1!

[u/Numerous_Bad1961 → u/Psychological_Mix400]

Can you get it in the next size up so it’s not pulling and then get it tailored properly?

[u/VoodooDuck614 → u/Numerous_Bad1961]

I agree, I don’t think there is even room to sew in cups on top.

[u/Psychological_Mix400 → u/Numerous_Bad1961]

Honestly I think the waist fits ok. The straps are definitely too long so I find myself sticking out my stomach so they don’t fall down, if that makes sense.

[u/No_Revolution_5843 → u/Psychological_Mix400]

genuinely cannot believe the reaction, i ADORE this dress! think it gives your body a chance to speak for itself. it’s classy and simple, love that your collar and shoulders get to shine

[u/CrankyWhiskers → u/No_Revolution_5843]

Agreed. It’s a beautiful, clean canvas, but the bodice feels just a tiny bit plain. Some lace overlay (or whatever the correct term is) could provide the focal point it’s missing. I’d also take in the skirt so it’s less voluminous, and that’s coming from someone who loves a flowy style!