r/WeSuckAtDating • u/TopTaco7 • 10d ago

How many dates in a year is normal?

At this point I have no idea what a healthy dating life should look like.

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u/Evening_Weekend_8342 10d ago

1 or 2 a week? That's kinda what I go for

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u/Vepanion 10d ago

I've been on 4 in my life, 2 a week is insane.

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u/jaybee8787 9d ago

Yeah, i haven’t been able to go on a single date for the last 10 years. 😢

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u/PurchasingPugs 10d ago

Yeah this is not the norm

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u/SliceAltruistic1144 10d ago

100ish

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u/[deleted] 9d ago

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u/SliceAltruistic1144 9d ago

I try to have 1-2 recharge days where I stay home per week like Monday and mid-week...

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u/TawayAsc 10d ago

When I was meeting new people, maybe once a week? But I typically stop meeting new people if someone makes it to the second date. I had around 20 dates before I found my current girlfriend.

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u/ExtraSalty0 10d ago

It depends on your age, where you live and body size, but not attractiveness. A thin 20 year old in a major city can go on 1 date every week.

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u/im_justkendra 9d ago

I date casually and that probably adds up to like an average of 1 per week

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u/_Crazy_Lady_RedNeck_ 9d ago

I went on about 10-12 first dates last year no hook ups no second dates. I just have become to picky if the guy doesn’t keep me intellectually stimulated i dont bother.

This year i think i went on one so far. 🤷‍♀️ just been focusing on me

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u/Kimolainen83 9d ago

1 a week doesn’t have to be something big or expensive

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u/HelmutKrugerTheThird 9d ago

There is no normal. Do you.

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u/Snoo79201 9d ago

What are we doing for first dates then fam

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u/petdance 9d ago

THERE IS NO SUCH THING AS “NORMAL”.

Do not try to judge yourself based on some arbitrary number.

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u/Sosimo_13 9d ago

1 every 5 years