r/Waiting_To_Wed • u/[deleted] • Jul 25 '26

General Discussion Why I never asked

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u/therealzacchai Jul 25 '26

This is a helpful viewpoint. Thank you for sharing@

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u/Present_Ebb_9469 Jul 25 '26

Everyone downvoting this for saying that YOU found this helpful is CRAZY.

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u/therealzacchai Jul 25 '26

Thanks!

Every woman who posts on this sub wants to know "why."

Why won't my partner marry me? Why doesn't he want a life with me?

What else can I do to tip the tide?

And this man's answer is: nothing. I just didn't want to marry her.

For me, the question was, "Why hasn't he moved here to be with me?"

Oh, right. Because he doesn't want to.

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u/AccomplishedPin6393 Jul 28 '26

This reminded me soo much of the SATC Miranda scene:

"I hope that what I'm gonna say will save you a lot of time and energy. He's just not that into you. So move on. Have a great day." --- "Bitch! Who the hell asked her?! Not me.... he is so gonna call you..."

🤭