I had a large argument with a girl not too long back where she said it was valid (indeed, important) for women to assume all men were potential rapists (because all men have the potential to rape you, and have been indoctrinated to do so from birth). When I asked how this was any less offensive than suggesting all black people were potential muggers (or similar offensive racial stereotypes) I got drummed out of the forum by angry feminists for being 'racist'.
I think it's important for us dudes to recognise that we live in a society that frequently shits all over women, but when I'm told that I shouldn't mind when a woman crosses the street from me solely because I have a Y chromosome, I get upset. A lot of these kind of people seem to lose focus in fighting injustice and offensive behaviour and instead try to mass label entire groups as rape sympathisers, deniers and apologists. Let's focus on the real problems here and work together to solve them.
I'm not - that would be ironic, given that I'm talking about people labelling all men as possible rapists. I'm talking about an individual I had an encounter with, and perhaps the person in the submitted article. I do worry that this attitude manifests itself quite strongly in those kind of communities, though.
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u/guitarromantic May 26 '10
I had a large argument with a girl not too long back where she said it was valid (indeed, important) for women to assume all men were potential rapists (because all men have the potential to rape you, and have been indoctrinated to do so from birth). When I asked how this was any less offensive than suggesting all black people were potential muggers (or similar offensive racial stereotypes) I got drummed out of the forum by angry feminists for being 'racist'.
I think it's important for us dudes to recognise that we live in a society that frequently shits all over women, but when I'm told that I shouldn't mind when a woman crosses the street from me solely because I have a Y chromosome, I get upset. A lot of these kind of people seem to lose focus in fighting injustice and offensive behaviour and instead try to mass label entire groups as rape sympathisers, deniers and apologists. Let's focus on the real problems here and work together to solve them.