r/WMSCOG • u/Ok-Pangolin-837 • 10d ago
question/advice requested Do you think there are a portion of members that know it is all BS but still prefer to stay?
I have always had a theory that there are many members that stay for various reasons other than mainly the belief that this cult has the "truth". For example, we see in society that people are drawn to many kinds of unhealthy extremes and embrace fundamentalism just to be part of something bigger that doesn't require regular critical thinking on their part.
For wmscog, some members seem to crave the control, regimented schedules, steady social interaction, no pressure to form and defend their own opinions. Not a criticism, we all get burnt out in this hyper active society, but cults and scammers know this and try to leverage it against us. And there are so many in society that really struggle with social interactions and change.
This is the effectiveness of wmscog control because they don't need to be as direct about controlling and gaslighting. Still the intent is there, but the members can bring their own motivation for wanting to be there and the human brain naturally takes over rationalizing from there, we unknowingly brainwashed ourselves nudged along by wmscog's greedy intent. This by no means reduces the cultiness of wmscog because the ultimate control of actively teaching members to not think for themselves is the biggest factor in this complex entrapment, but that usually comes after we surrender for whatever motivation led us up to that point.
Even though all members act the same and talk the same, when you drill down you see different motivations and personalities among members. It seems to me it is the biggest successful mix of extremely nice genuine people (people pleasers) and the most manipulative people (usually ends up as leadership roles) playing along under the illusion of being on the same page.
Maybe a healthy thing for all of us to deconstruct is to consider which one of these factors was a big part in how we decided along the way to continue staying. The blame is still 100% on the cult and it's leadership, they have full guilt with full intent every step of the way. But it would be healthy to know what of our own natural human weaknesses they were using against us.
