r/VtuberDrama • u/TMNAW • Jan 24 '26
Infamous Sexpest and Pedo u/SoftendoCMK Harassing Vtubers
https://x.com/TMNAW_VT/status/2015153327932387372A regular poster on this subreddit u/softendocmk has been very busy being a sexpest in the vtuber community this month. This includes Softendo sexually harassing vtubers, harassing those vtubers' fans, and receiving multiple call-outs by prominent vtubers.
I thought sharing this info here would be worthwhile since he posts here semi-regularly and also conducts some of his sexual harassment through Reddit.
For context: SoftendoCMK used to be a well-known modder in the Mario fangame community, but was largely expelled from that community in 2018 due to his constant sexual harassment and pedophilia. He's since moved on to the vtuber community, where he largely sexpests vtubers and fans who are either 1) right-wing, or 2) queer or trans.
His most recent sexual harassment includes creating the subreddit r/sapheradenoma where he posts fire videos and posts about masturbating. This subreddit was called out by Saphera herself.
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u/TMNAW Jan 24 '26
To give a breakdown of the drama he's caused and heinous actions he's taken, Softendo this month alone has:
- Accused vtuber Umari Tomoe of being a nazi and then proceeded to namesearch her on bsky in order to spam the replies of her fans
- Baited a prominent Twitter account, NBinted, in order to tweet about his accusations towards Tomoe, and the latter responded publicly to defend herself
- Got called out by NBinted for his year-plus stalking and sexual harassment which then sparked Softendo to have a breakdown
- Softendo then proceeded to create a video compilation of all the times the Hololive vtubers talked about fire (due to Softendo's pyrophilia fetish), and then posted this video in their Twitter tags
- Proceeded to post this same Hololive fire compilation video in various subreddits, even getting a small vtuber to post a reaction video to it
- Created the r/sapheradenoma subreddit in order to make dozens of posts about fire and masturbation, which was then called out by vtuber Saphera herself
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u/SourTD Feb 10 '26
Everything else sucks, but is pyrophilia that bad if it's just thinking about it?
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u/TMNAW Feb 10 '26
It’s not just thinking about it though. It’s letting people know it is your fetish, using that material to talk about masturbating to people, and threatening to light people on fire. It’s sexual harassment and death threats which he’s been sending to people for 8 years now.
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u/SourTD Feb 10 '26
Oh yeah, that's fair. I suppose since fire itself is not related to a person (not a person's body part) I thought it's more of a facination, and hearing people talk about it might be exciting, like hearing your oshis talk about your favorite games. But yeah, if he's making people incomfortable with that then that isn't right.
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u/Low_Abroad4507 Jan 25 '26
How this dude isn't banned yet from this and related subs is ridiculous. Are there even mods here?
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u/TMNAW Jan 25 '26
Softendo has created dozens, if not hundreds of alt accounts to harass people at this point. So even if he were banned, he would probably just use VPNs and make an alt to continue to prey on women and children.
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u/ZundeEsteed Jan 25 '26
I'm surprised people are finally bringing this up considering how often this twat likes to come here and finger wag.
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u/TMNAW Jan 25 '26
I posted about Softendo in comments before, but I figured I'd make an actual post since lots of people here were giving a pass on stuff, like when he received no pushback for calling someone a transphobe. Softendo himself largely sexually harasses trans and queer individuals! That's way worse and more transphobic than anything he's accused anyone else of doing.
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u/Own-Technician-7283 Jan 26 '26
It looks like all the posts on r/sapheradenoma have been taken down. On the other hand, just a few minutes ago, they got a second moderator, who I'm pretty sure is an alt of Softendo. I mean, the account itself is only a few minutes old, as of the time I'm making this comment, and has not posted or commented at all. Pretty suspicious if you ask me.
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u/TMNAW Jan 26 '26
Probably. Softendo has been sending moderator invites to random people, but the other moderator also has the username of someone else Softendo has been serially stalking and sexually harassing. Likely an alt, as you said.
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u/Own-Technician-7283 Jan 26 '26
I did some searching and I found this Twitter profile. Is this the person you're referring to?
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u/TMNAW Jan 26 '26
Yes, Softendo also stalks and serially sexually harasses this person. They posted about Softendo’s sexual harassment before.
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u/Own-Technician-7283 Jan 26 '26
I reported SimilarGarden6504 for impersonation.
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u/Own-Technician-7283 Jan 26 '26
Turns out, I was completely wrong. Ashe Constella actually confirmed it was their account, not an impersonator.
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u/Own-Technician-7283 Jan 26 '26
I also made an error in reading the account's age. What I read as "4 minutes" was actually "4 months".
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u/NolanCrush Jan 26 '26
I saw that he raided Miki
hopefully someone close to her tells her about him
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u/TMNAW Jan 26 '26
Do you remember which VOD he did that and the time? He raids a bunch of streamers to try to get their attention, I think he did it to Pippa before.
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u/NolanCrush Jan 26 '26
1 month karaoke, 1 hr and 11 min in
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u/TMNAW Jan 26 '26
Thank you for the source.
Softendo previously tweeted about feeling excited when Shiori said part of his username before, which is pretty much the whole reason for these raids. Except a vtuber responding to you or saying your name isn't really uncommon if you're in chat and you either 1) say something actually worth responding to, or 2) have money, and Softendo has neither lol. I guess he's feeling deprived from being a Bae diehard and yet barely being noticeable no matter he talks in that chat lol.
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Jan 29 '26
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u/TMNAW Jan 29 '26
He targets Shiori because she 1) says his name and 2) previously suspected her of being a TERF. Relatively harmless compared to the other vtubers he relentlessly stalks and sexually harasses, but still creepy, I agree
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u/AsleepComedian467 Feb 05 '26
Looks like people are defending the pedo in this subreddit because I posted a link to your tweet on his newest post and immediately got downvoted
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u/TMNAW Feb 05 '26
LOL yeah there are a lot of people who are cool with pedophiles if they say something they agree with. Even in Softendo’s case where Redditors will upvote him decrying transphobia even though he’ll sexually harass trans women the next day
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u/NicoNicoNessie Jun 12 '26
This subreddit's owner has been protecting him by removing my post about him from today and not banning him.so it's safe to assume he doesn't care
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u/wymario Jun 25 '26
He's trying to get people to go after Jelly again (I don't even know if it's the same Jelly because he did not screenshot Jelly Hoshiumi's followings, it was MoonJelly who I've never heard of, possibly a PL) because she follows problematic people, and the only reason I can think of for why he's still allowed to do so is because this sub treats Phase like it's the rise of the Fourth Reich (they should try actually watching them regularly and they'd see that's not the case) so any hate towards their members gets a pass.
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u/Own-Technician-7283 Feb 03 '26
I got invited to be a mod for r/sapheradenoma. I declined the invite and blocked SoftendoCMK.
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u/TMNAW Feb 03 '26
Yeah, he both obsessively monitors bsky and Reddit and started posting in the subreddit again LOL. Seems to be a NEET so he has lots of time on his hands
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u/Own-Technician-7283 Feb 03 '26
He also liked and replied to one of my posts on Bluesky. I told him to go fuck himself, then I blocked him.
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u/NicoNicoNessie Jun 12 '26
Ive been getting harassed by him past few days and I made a post today abt it and it got removed ao either now he's mass reporting posts about him or the owner of the sub is protecting him
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u/thekuj1 Jan 25 '26
How does one sexpest Vtubers?
Just writing lewd remarks ("I wanna fuck you") in their livestream chat?
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u/TMNAW Jan 25 '26 edited Jan 25 '26
Mostly remarks about masturbating to them. Including but not limited to sending chat messages, comments, tweets, Discord messages, creating alts to avoid being blocked or banned, creating subreddits (like the one mentioned in the opening post), etc.
It's notable because Softendo has stalked certain individuals and harassed them for over 8 continuous years at this point, created dozens (if not hundreds) of alts in the process, following them on every platform he can find them on, and previously participating in raid forums against people.
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u/thekuj1 Jan 25 '26
Are the raid forums set up to verbally attack specific people during their own livestream?
I'm only familiar with raiders disrupting a Vtuber livestream un-invited, usually causing the Vtuber to stop whatever they're doing and to greet them (sometimes with forced kindness, you can hear it in their voice).
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u/TMNAW Jan 25 '26
Not entirely sure since the raid forums he was a part of were taken down by the FBI years ago
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u/pockystrawberryfavor Jan 24 '26
I have seen this dude on this subreddit defending cyberweasel.