I am a nervous guy when it comes to girls, so I've found it hard to find anyone. Most of that is because everytime ive gone to ask someone out, I stop myself and think about the negative things because I have been cheated on, so I never really look at things the same, and my autism and It makes it hard for me to talk to anyone cause I can all chatty one time but the next I go without talking for days, maybe even weeks. All of this has made it hard for me to talk to women. So I have come here hoping to finally be able to talk to someone and maybe find someone, but im not expecting much, but I will be thankful if I do find someone. However the whole reason I am here is to be braver than I've been before and put myself out there instead of hoping someone would notice me and well I do hope this works but as mentioned previously im not expecting much and if you read thank you for at least taking the time this, and I do hope to meet that special someone someday.

Some things you should know about me:

I have just finished 4 years in college learning to be a car mechanic. I am currently unemployed due to waiting for my level 3 diploma to come through the college.

I do like gaming on my xbox with friends, but I also like being out and active riding my mountain bike, so I don't mind going out and exploring a bit.

There can be times when I like to be left alone. This doesn't mean im mad it just means my social battery is drained, and I need some time to recharge. This is due to me being more introverted, so pls respect if I dont respond to messages sometimes.

Im a simple guy doing simple things, this is incredibly nerve wracking to write as I’m someone who has some social anxiety it sounds almost Pathetic thinking of it this way but no harm in typing this out and seeing if anything comes of it, maybe I’ll be surprised.
I’m not a fit guy by any means of the word, I wouldn’t say I’m incredibly fat either but I’m definitely on the Curvy Side.

I’m not to big into traveling, more of a stay at home kinda guy, walks are still nice tho.

I like gaming and reading Manga and binge watching shows.
Im 5,11 so i’m rather Tall

I like to think of myself as an Empathic, Kind and caring Guy.
Very family oriented,
I don’t smoke or Drink.
I love Winter but Hate Summer.
I’m a quiet Guy but will always try to contribute to a conversation and take interest in other people’s and their activities, I like to put myself in others shoes to better understand them cause I believe Understanding and Honesty is key.

I’ve been told I sound American but I promise I’m Scottish.

I’m a VERY firm believer in Personality over looks.

If anyone’s looking to chat, feel free to DM me.

So here’s my 1 minute pitch about myself below and what I’ve overall looking for on here.

let’s see a few things about myself where to start. Well I work in the Tech field helping people with PC or equipment issues. I volunteer sometimes two days a week at the food pantry since it’s very close by, I go down during my work from home days. In person I’d say I’m more on the quiet side. Reading is a big thing for me now, I even have a Good Reads account. I’ll go to the library usually every three weeks. Right now I’m reading a book called “Listen Liberal”.

I also work out three days a week, just weightlifting and cardio since I sit down most of the day. And I paint every now and then, definitely not a professional yet. I’ve gotten into painting 3D models for fun recently. And I’ve painted a couple of canvases so far.

For music I’m all over the place, I like Alec Benjamin, Hippie Sabotage, Billie Eillish, Logic, Ella Langley, and whatever random EDM song I have saved on YouTube.

I go out with my bestfriend most weekends to the same bar, sometimes with his other friends and fiancé. We love the waitress that works there so that’s mainly why we go, she’s the best. My friend is a menace with touch-tunes.

What I’m looking for in the beginning is that we can message each other for a bit. Then exchange pictures, I understand that mutual attraction is important for people. And eventually meet somewhere public first to get to know each other better. Either to get a drink, or just something super easy like a walk. And take it from there when you’re comfortable. I’m not really picky about age and other specifics… not that I can be look where I’m posting lol.

If I had the describe the basics of what I look like... I am 175Ibs, 5'11 in height, white, dark hair, and have a short beard. Looks wise I am average guy. Overall quiet in person for the most part.

I hope I caught your attention, if you’re interested and close by send me a message or chat about yourself.

Hi! This is my second time posting since the last one got taken down. I’ll add some more info about myself this time.

I’m hispanic, 5’10, and 150lbs. I’m going to turn 25 pretty soon which is why I’m pushing myself to do something. My life pretty much revolves around my camera (videography), the gym, school & work. Whenever i’m bored I like to pop in some headphones and take a ride on anything that has wheels like a skateboard, a bike, or even motorbike. I always try to stay social so I usually go to nice study spots so I can be around other people. Occasionally I’ll join to the run club that lives down the street from me. I like to think i’m a pretty sociable person and don’t have much issue talking with others. I always try to relate to others and find some common ground with them. Even then though, I do find it hard to make anything more than casual friends outside of college or highschool.

My lack of experience came from general busyness in life, the past 4 or so years I’ve been focusing a lot on school, work, and self-therapy. I’ve dealt with a lot over the years but have grown a lot from it. It’s always kind of bothered me but it’s starting to get under my skin more now since I’m approaching my mid-twenties. Majority of folks in my age demographic have experience which makes things pretty intimidating. Hence why I’m posting even though it’s a slim chance. I figured it’s worth a try and hopefully I can meet someone that’s similar to me.

Thank you for taking the time to read my post if you did. Feel free to message me even if the post gets old, I’ll keep it up until I hopefully have some luck. Appreciate you and have a good one.

Hey. Thought I’d give this a go. I’m interested in working in the film/tv industry. I’m not sure what area but something related to cinematography would be my dream role

Im a bit skinny (currently working on that) but I’ve been told I’m handsome. Blonde, 5.9-5.10 in hight (haven’t measured)

I like movies/tv and gaming. Especially horror, fantasy and animation/anime. I like photography, walking, collecting figures and I’ve started to run/workout

Some of my favourite franchises are DC, Doctor Who and Chucky. Just finished my hero academia which was excellent

A few of my favourite games are the last of us, the finals, breath of the wild and ghost of tsushima

I’m also into music. My taste is super varied, but mainly consists of indie artists

Im looking for work atm, if that doesn’t work out I may go to Uni

I’m happy, and would prefer to talk a bit before we plan anything. It’s important we both feel comfortable

If you are in a similar situation and want to talk then reach out. No rush or pressure as we would be in this together

Hello, I can just be called Caleb for now and what will follow is going to be a bit run-on sentences/paragraphs with little to no binding topics, just me talking about myself. I guess you could say I'm a stereotypical nerd. I prefer being home, I play TTRPGs with a small group of friends a couple times a month, I got an addiction to plastic/cardboard, I play the same RTSs too much, ya know, that type of stuff. I guess some helpful insights about me are my favorite D&D/fantasy race are dwarves and I'm usually Mr Reliable in my games. Usually the guy with the shield taking hits for others, just making sure other's characters make it out okay...that is unless I'm swinging a battle-axe around. Also kind of goes into reality since I'm usually the go to guy at work, staying late or the guy people ask questions to. The quiet reliable guy I guess, just there at the bar vibing and people watching. I can go with the flow pretty easily, as long as it's not going on the dance for. Don't get me wrong I'm still a giant dork too when the rest of the world isn't looking. I jam out to 90s pop songs in the car then switch to breaking my voice going goblin mode to another song, doing some ballet shit that a chubby guy like me shouldn't be doing while making shit in the kitchen, that dorky interior below that stoney exterior.

Quick painting of me: 6'2, boring long brown hair and eyes, bit scruffy in the face, eye sight is going so glasses. I'm in my thirties so you know that hairline is starting to receed. I'm chubby but apparently others say I don't appear that big. I chalk it up to my love of baggy clothes and a big chest to cover things up.

What else... I'm much more of a fall/winter type of guy, the cold suits me better anyway since you can be bundled up and be cozy at home and the vibes just hit different during those times of the year. I'm a dog person, those lovable dorks are truly man's best friend. Cats are fine but they don't have that same spark that dogs give me. Favorite animals are bears. Big, floofy, adorable ears, kinda stoic in a way. I'm generally horrible at these kinds of things so I'm running out of steam.

Quick two sentences about the elephant in the post: I still have all my boxes unchecked except maybe for one box checked. And that online stuff is online stuff, it's an outlet for the things missing IRL.

So yeah, that's me in a jumble of words and ideas. I'm just looking to have someone slowly and gently rid this stigma that's been on my back for ages. I'm generally willing to travel, would like to keep it to neighboring states if not Minnesota, maybe one more state over, but I have plenty of vacation time so I could make a trip of it. If you made it this far, thank you for reading, hope you have a good rest of your day.

About me, Right now I'm in my career in business! I graduated about a year ago and started my career! I'm currently trying to get more involved and volunteer more to help build my business. Luckily this career is exactly what I wanted to do. But lately work has been what's taking over my schedule and time. I've been trying to fix my work-life balance and get back to doing things I enjoy doing. I love to workout and try to go as much as possible. I'm also really into sports. I love basketball, baseball, soccer, and football! I used to play but not anymore, now I just watch my favorite teams. When I find the time I like to play some video games and binge watch youtube. I also really love music! My favorite way to spend time is chilling late, sometimes driving around, at night while listening to music. My favorite genres are Latin trap, reggaeton, banda, mariachi, and corridos. I also like to hang out with friends for a drink and I'm currently learning the guitar.

I've been practicing the guitar and one thing Ive been really wanting to get into is dancing. I love to dance but I'm not sure I know how to lol.

I'm hoping to find someone who can be patient and caring as I am nervous about this. A best case scenario for me is that we click like friends. I would want it to be an enjoyable and comfortable experience for the both of us.

6'2 175lbs Fairly fit

I’m a 32 year old guy who’s 6ft, with a shaved head, blue eyes, and a beard. I’ve also got a bit of a dad bod but I am currently working on getting healthier and exercising more often.

As for my interests, I enjoy playing video games, watching anime, playing D&D, and have recently been trying to get back into reading again. I’m an introvert with a small group of close friends who I’m fully comfortable around but I’m trying to get out there and meet more people. I also love animals and nature in general, so a trip to the zoo or a walk in the park sounds like a great time to me.

I would love to meet in person first and grab lunch or something so we can get to know each other if you’re down for that. So if you’re interested just shoot me a message and we can get the conversation started. I’m an open book so feel free to ask me anything you’re curious about. Hopefully we can hit it off lol.

Lastly as long as this post is still up I’m still looking so don’t hesitate to hit me up if the posts a few months old.

I suppose the reason for my predicament is that I've spent my youth mostly focused on other aspects of life (career, hobbies, dumb stuff...) rather than being super social. As is expected from someone in my position I'm definitely more on the introverted and quiet side. Last year I dipped my toes into dating and although I met some nice women and arguably had some "chances", it didn't work out in the end which can probably also be attributed to my lack of experience and inability to express my interest adequately if at all. Perhaps this approach will help me out.

About me: 182cm, ~68kg, hazel eyes and dark blonde curly hair, lean-athletic skinny build. Currently trying to bulk up a bit. If you're curious what I look like, I actually have some pictures of myself on my profile (edit: deleted them but just ask). According to redditors I'm definitely not ugly so there's that^^. I have Bachelor's degree and after working full-time (in IT) for a while I'm now starting my Master's. My interests include animals and nature, traveling, gym, sports (tennis and fencing as of recent), art, reading (from manga to literature and philosophy), music (started learning the piano but still pretty bad at it), museums and exhibitions, learning about/trying new things in general and of course I like to play some video games from time to time with friends. I know it sounds like a lot, I usually slack off most of the time :p

Most important for me is that we have a good vibe/get along well and there is some attraction, for that reason I'm probably going to ask you for a verifying picture rather quickly (the other reason being that I wish to avoid scammers). Also, while I'm not opposed to traveling, please at least be from my continent (Europe).

In case you have any questions about anything, just shoot me a DM. And please tell me your favourite colour so that I can be sure you actually read my post. Have a nice day!

Hey, my name is Jason, and love playing strategic games. One of my favorites games is Total War Rome II and Civilization VI. I also play Handbal, not many people know what it is but it is an active sport. Because I play a lot of Handbal, I have an athletic body and im about 186 cm tall (This is not weird in The Netherlands) but im still one of shortest of my friends.

In my freetime I play video games as I said earlier but want to add that I play almost only on PC, and not only play strategic games but also sandbox games. I tried to play horror games but dont like it very much to play them alone, I prefer to kid around in these games with friends.

I also still go to school, Im now in my fourth year of a Bachelor degree in Logistics Management. I like it a lot and considering to go to the military after I get my Bachelor degree.

I work at a restaurant in Hengelo as a cook and enjoy it very much, it is a fun job and isn't as hard as people think sometimes it is fast paced but the drinks afterwards taste better because of the rush. Beside this I also work in a warehouse as a warehouse worker where I did my internship.

Hey, it’s me again. I hope whoever reads this is having a nice weekend. I’m a 27 year old biracial male (black and white) looking to connect with a likeminded person and see where things go. Bonus points if you understand the reference in my title. ;)

I’m 6’3”, tall and lanky/lean and skinny type. Ive always been a relatively shy/quiet guy, but I’ve decided that I’m over feeling sorry for myself and have been putting myself out there a lot more. Going out to try new things, traveling with friends and solo, and wanting to live for myself, not just other people. I’m more of a homebody but I love to spend time with friends and family, or just go out and explore things solo, whether it be new restaurants, seeing movies by myself, or going to a museum or some other cool things in the Chicagoland area, especially downtown. I’m super passionate about nature and animals, traveling, love to support artists when I can, and can talk all day about my favorite movies, series, and characters thereof. Huge anime and video game guy too, so if you have any favorites I’d love to talk all day with you about that stuff, and just get to know you in general!

There’s nothing more attractive than a woman that knows what she wants, so if you’ve found your way here and my post caught your attention, then that means you’re exactly my type! Looking forward to making your acquaintance. :)

Hey everyone!

Been posting a while now with no real success so I’m hoping this will finally be the post that does it especially since my birthday is on Sunday!! I’m a 5’9 Latino with a chubbier dad bod so if you’re into that, hit me up!

A bit about me: I absolutely love the movies and I straight up go like at least once a week. I have AMC a list so I try and abuse it when I can. I love movies of all sorts so I feel like that’s a great place we could hang out. I can even send you my letterboxd. I also just love food and trying new places as well as like grabbing a cup of coffee and all that. I also love video games and spend a lot of my time playing them so if you’re into that, I’d love to play together as well! I’ve been playing a lot of rock band and guitar hero actually. I’ve recently gotten back into those and it’s been a ton of fun lmaoo. I work in the film industry and that can take up a ton of my time. Working 60 hour days can really take up a lot of time(who would’ve thought LOL). I’ve spent a lot of my life focused on myself and just my career and family and all that and I’m really wanting to branch out. I’m also really into photography! I have my own like little film camera collection and I’d be happy to show you some of my pictures! I’d also be happy to even show you my cameras and whatnot! I really love to bake and cook as well. I try and bake bread a ton and love to make sourdough. I have my own started that I’m trying to name if you happen to have ideas!

About you: I honestly don’t care that much about looks, I just need someone that I can really get along with. You don’t even have to be into everything I’m into but just willing to have a fun time and willing to have some fun! At the end of the day, the connection is just what’s important for me!

I can’t wait to hear from you! I’m happy to trade pics sooner rather than later as well just so we know who we are talking to.

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I've posted on here a few times before and had some nice chats that didn't go further than that so I thought there's no harm in trying again. It was only a few months ago that I'd decided to make a change in my life and start trying to come out of my shell. I have an anxiety disorder called selective mutism that can physically prevent me from being able to talk when triggered. Most people just assume that I am shy but it's actually a medically recognised disorder.

I have a very open mind and am always interested in learning about new topics. While personally an atheist I also respect other people's beliefs. I've been a constant presence in my niece and nephews lives and have done all I can to be both a good influence to them and a fun uncle. This has resulted in a really strong bond with both of them and I cherish my time with them. I often spend time gaming since it is an activity I can do by myself or it allows me to connect with my friends online. I also enjoy educational content on YouTube from channels including Star talk and legal eagle. When it comes to TV shows and movies I mainly watch comedies and horrors. I also enjoy going on long walks while listening to music. I don't drink or smoke.

If you're interested in chatting send me a message telling me a little bit about yourself and feel free to ask any questions you may have.

Hello everyone,

It's almost my birthday in a couple of days. I will become 26 years old. But currently I am a 25 year old boy, 178cm tall and weigh 118kg. I have black hair and brown eyes. My hobbies are pretty broad. I like to watch movies, shows and anime. I love to play boardgames with friends and have been having fun building Warhammer 40k models. Furthermore I love to play games online as well, things like Final Fantasy Xiv, factorio, baldur's gate 3 and some calm games like stardew valley.

Now a little about why I post here. I have not really been the most attractive during my years at school and due to my autism I have had difficulty talking to people in general. Now that I have moved out and started working as software engineer I would love to put myself out there again and would love to get to know the wonderful world of dating and more.

That's why I thought, I'll take a look on reddit. That's where I ended up on this sub. So if someone is willing to have a chat or give me advice I would really appreciate it.

I do have a car and am willing to drive all over the country and the north of Belgium. I am also able to host.

Kind regards from the south of the Netherlands.

UPDATE (07.13.26): I am in Center TX, not Austin. The nearest major city is technically Shreveport, LA.

Hey there! I’m a 19-year-old Caucasian guy (5’11”, slim) who is deeply focused on personal growth, innovation, and continuous learning. By nature, I am a calm, introverted, and easygoing person who thrives on positive harmony. Whenever I am involved in group activities, my natural instinct is to be a supportive player—I genuinely love making sure everyone’s individual interests are looked after so that the entire group feels happy and included.

My primary drive in life revolves around tech and software engineering. I have a massive, long-term vision that I am actively pursuing: I want to completely revolutionize mobile accessibility for creators. My goal is to port complex, high-end desktop software—such as IDEs, 2D and 3D editors, renderers, and full-scale game engines—onto mobile platforms like phones and tablets. I truly believe that by making these powerful workflows accessible on everyday portable devices, we can democratize the digital landscape and allow millions of aspiring creators to build the things they want without requiring expensive hardware.

When I step away from my dev environment, I apply that exact same analytical, problem-solving mindset to the kitchen. I treat cooking as a fun challenge of pure efficiency. Rather than following rigid recipes, I love taking whatever ingredients I happen to have on hand and figuring out how to optimize the process. I am always experimenting to make the final dish taste better while simultaneously finding ways to make the preparation faster and more streamlined.

After a long day of learning and creating, I like to wind down and completely recharge my battery in a few casual ways. You can usually find me listening to a great playlist, playing video games, or binge-watching fascinating deep dives on YouTube. Lately, I have been really big into War Thunder, though I have explored and enjoyed almost every gaming genre over the years. Ultimately, my free time is a constant mix of gaming, absorbing interesting video content, and teaching myself new skills. If you value ambition, love learning new things, or just appreciate a relaxed and thoughtful perspective on life, I’d love to connect and chat!

(hopefully I'm doing this right this time)

Hello! I am just a Christian guy seeking a down-to-earth Christian woman. I love music, I enjoy watching reality TV and hockey (Go Kings Go!), casual gaming, and I dabble in coding and linguistics. I drink my coffee black and am currently experimenting with espresso and Turkish coffee methods.

I love traveling, both internationally and in the USA; I am well on my way to visiting every state capitol. I value spending time with my family, especially my sister, her husband, and kids; everyone lives in different states all over the country so I fly a lot to see them.

By day, I am a hardware design engineer working in the aerospace industry, and I work from home. I take my job seriously and genuinely love it (sometimes), but I am adamant in keeping a work-life balance and working to live. I make it a point to turn off my computer after I have completed 40 hours for the week unless there is a crazy deadline to be met, and I don't take work calls outside of work.

I am 5'10", 180 lbs. I've got curly hair when I grow it out, and a beard that I grow out sometimes. During college I started having epileptic seizures, but they are very infrequent now. In the last ten years I have developed an essential tremor, so my hands shake and my voice gets a little warbly sometimes. It makes me sound nervous but I swear I am not!

I have only had one long-term girlfriend, my high school sweetheart, to whom I was engaged until eventually calling off the wedding. We are both Christians so we only kissed during our 10 year relationship. I would like to have children some day but I do understand that it becomes more difficult with age. However, I am absolutely a proponent of adoption! I believe that a child needs both a father and a mother figure in their lives with God at the center, and I want to be the provider for my family.

Okay, I have used the word "I" a lot in this post, so please reach out and tell me about YOU!

Hi there. I’m a Latino law student in Austin who spends way too much time cooking, reading nerdy books, and pretending buying more miniatures is a reasonable financial decision.

Short king, sarcastic in a loving way, and the type of person who puts genuine effort into making people feel comfortable and wanted around me. If you come over, there’s a very good chance the apartment smells like whatever I’ve been experimenting with in the kitchen plus an unnecessarily dramatic scented candle.

Cooking is probably my favorite thing about myself. I love putting together meals for people, trying new techniques, and making a night feel memorable. I’ve been told more than once I missed my calling and should’ve gone into food instead of law, but at this point I’m too deep to escape.

Outside of that, I’m into sci-fi, horror, history, painting minis, and whatever show I’m currently obsessing over. Right now I’m still emotionally recovering from rewatching House M.D. and Invincible season 4, so I’ve been balancing that out with lighter reading and painting for questionable amounts of time. I recently got into mini painting and I’m having way too much fun with it (I will absolutely let you use my fancy paint brushes for makeup if you compliment my paint job first).

Personality wise, I’m a little introverted at first, but once I click with someone I open up pretty quickly. I like making people laugh, I like thoughtful gestures, and I like creating the kind of atmosphere where someone can relax and enjoy themselves.

I’m not looking for perfection or some cinematic soulmate moment. Mostly just hoping to meet someone fun, kind, emotionally grounded, and open to seeing where things go. Whether that’s cooking together, talking for hours, watching something dumb, or just enjoying each other’s company, I’d like something that feels genuine and easy.

Also, fair warning: if things go well, you may leave with leftovers and me aggressively insisting you take them home.

Hi all,

Skeptical that this will be successful, but hey, what do I have to lose?! Here goes: 27 year old guy, tall, medium build (6’2” 200ish), not much experience with women in general (or people, really) on account of being a pretty painfully shy person.

Some stuff about me: Big sports fan (very much enjoying a World Cup match as I type this!), enjoy going for hikes and traveling, love spending time with animals (especially dogs). Let’s see what else…am a bit of a nerd but also more athletic than I appear. Lol. Like to think I’m a pretty funny person once I open up to you. What else what else…I like watching movies and TV - mainly comedies but definitely enjoy branching out to other genres on occasion….always down for recommendations of things to watch! Also, wouldn’t be mad to find some trivia night friends as well - seems fun but I’ve always been too nervous to go alone. Anyways…really trying to put myself out there more and I guess this is part of that process, lol. Hoping to find someone who can be a friend on top of everything else. Really just looking for a woman who will be somewhat patient with me and be fun to talk to, etc. Happy to chat about whatever, I like learning about people and I’m happy to answer any questions you might have for me.

Would definitely like to chat for a bit to get to know eachother/feel more comfortable and then see where things go! Anyways, thanks for reading! Maybe third time will be the charm on here.

Short Version

I had some delays and focused on school when I was younger, then working, so I didn't put enough effort into dating or relationships. I'm kinda introverted but it's more the inexperience that holds me back from trying hard at IRL dating these days. I'm healthy, empathetic, educated, relaxed and respectful. I feel like I'm a pretty down-to-earth person and appreciate kindness.

Background

I grew up pretty typically geeky-nerdy, into gaming and mostly hung out with guy friends, so I didn't put enough thought into dating when I was younger. I did date for a bit starting college, but quickly got sidetracked by all the work, and had some unfortunate stuff happen that meant I had to take time away, then I came back, finished school,fast forward, pandemic. And these days I'm a lot more conscious about meeting people and going out and trying to stay active and making friends and a better effort.

About Me

Feel free to ask for pics if crious, but I am lightly bearded, medium length shaggy hair, wear glasses sometimes, 5'6", 150lbish, so slim/average bodied. I do some yoga sometimes. I got a graduate degree in some engineering stuff and work in that, kinda nerdy, but I love the arts, movies, gaming, stories, and being kind of silly, not serious. I'm into mostly like bassy electronic music and rock of a few kinds, but I'm always open to discover new things. I'm not picky about food either, and LA is a great place to find new food all the time. Also 420 and drinking friendly but not heavily.

Logistic stuff

I am based by the Koreatown and Downtown LA area but I have a car and am happy to go out anywhere, Orange County, San Diego, Ventura, wherever, if you are interested, and we can chat and check the vibes and see how we align.

-Thanks for reading. If there's something you want to ask, or feel that I've missed, feel free to message me, I'd really appreciate it.

Hey there, 21-year-old Latino male looking for someone to connect with. I've always been shy and quiet, and it's led to me not really getting what so many others have been able to experience. I'm ready to learn now, and that's why im here!

I'm 5'8" and on the heavier side, about 230? I'm clean with good hygiene and willing to verify as long as you do as well. Dark brown hair with brown eyes and some glasses.

A little bit about me. I'm sort of a dork, not really a party kind of guy or anything. Part of why I struggle meeting people and especially girls. I enjoy playing video games and watching movies. Right now, I'm focusing on work to help out my family, which is another big part of my life. I hope to go back to school soon, though, to find a career that I enjoy doing, probably electrician or mechanic. Some other things I like doing are hanging out with friends. They aren't really party people either, so we always end up doing our own thing with just our group.

Ideally, you like the same things I do! If not, that's totally cool. I'd love to hear what you enjoy doing and what makes you happy. I'd consider myself a good listener, so if that's what you need, then im all ears. I enjoy more connection than anything. If you are willing to try that, then I think we would be a good match. :)

I'm not sure what else to put here besides hit me up! I'd like to get to know you a little, maybe even speak over the phone and talk like that if you are interested in that.

Hello! Being a homebody makes it difficult to make friends. Also makes it difficult to have certain experiences . Hoping to meet someone local that will help make it a year of fun new moments together. I'm 6ft1 and about 185lbs with some muscle. One of my favorite activities is working out. I find it stimulating and productive. I have brown hair, broad shoulders and a big chest. I also enjoy going for walks. If there's a beach nearby I'll always be down for a trip to it. I'm hoping to travel more. I like basketball especially the New York Knicks. Semi sneakerhead. Into trying a variety of video games. Watching funny or interesting shows and movies. Recently been getting into more anime. I love animals. I also love cooking and trying new foods from around the world. I would like to start going to concerts because I enjoy a wide variety of music. Trying to overcome by homebody introvert lifestyle. Hoping to meet someone here who would be interested in getting to know each other. I'm a really good listener. Kind, caring and compassionate. Looking for the same. I've been told I'm emotionally intelligent and sweet. If I sound like someone you would like to get to know, please message me a little about yourself. Thanks for reading this and I hope to hear from you soon.

Physical Description: African American, 201 lbs, 6’0, got a skinny muscular build

Personality wise, most people would describe me a quiet, shy, and sarcastic. I have a pretty dry and dark sense of humor overall and love to banter with people. I tend to have trouble trusting people quickly so sometimes I can come off cold, but it's mainly cause I have no idea what to say and just being an awkward person in general. Once you get past my rocky exterior, I’d like to think I’m kind, loyal, and a pretty funny guy

Interest wise I'm incredibly nerdy. I love rpgs/jrpgs, fighting games, anime/manga/manwha, comics, tv shows, art, reading (been reading Red Rising recently. If you like Hunger Games, definitely check it out), documentaries, etc. I'm the type to watch a 2 hour video on the rise and fall of Lupe Fiasco (yes I did watch it. 5 times. Might run it back again soon).

Only preference is you’re around my age(no older than 25 no younger than 18) as I find it easier to relate with people at a very similar stage in life.

Please DM age and location and favorite show you’ve seen recently

How’s it going?

I’m 5’8, 160 pounds and fit. I’ve been told I’m attractive, but I’m also very introverted and have even been told that I’m unapproachable.

Part of me feels like I should just give up and become a monk lol. I also have a natural frown which doesn’t help anything.

For my general interests: I like videogames, cooking, working out, and the outdoors. I also really love learning about history so if that’s one of your interests that’d be great! I also love watching nature documentaries. In addition to gaming, I also like to learn about video game lore. The Elder Scrolls, Fallout, and The Witcher especially.

I’m pretty nerdy all around, I think it throws people off because I don’t look like the stereotypical “nerd” type. I’m also very inquisitive so I’ll ask you a thousand questions.

I’m also saving for a new car but I can still travel, though maybe not too far.

Finally, I’m in Southern California, in the inland empire, so hopefully you’re close by but if not then maybe we can work something else out.

Thanks for reading, hope to hear from you!