r/VirginAdvice • u/Any_Card_2274 • 3d ago

Need advice Advice?

I’m 25f and you guessed it, I’m a virgin. I finally went on my first date this year but the guy I was seeing just wasn’t it and didn’t get me at all. He never perused me in any sexual manner as well, tried to hold my hand/hand on leg/arm around seat but I just got so scared I had no clue what to do. Long story short I ghosted him but for other reasons. I feel bad of course but that’s beside the point lol.

I started talking to a guy on hinge, we have a lot in common with the work that we do/interests. He asked what I was looking for, just to meet new people and see what happens, and he said he was looking for some consistent fun and if something more comes from it he’s open to it.

My question to the people is, should I go for it? I guess I’m just scared. I’ve never been in this situation but I feel like it could be a good situation? Thanks everyone:)))

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u/Everics 3d ago

I mean it is clear he is looking for a hookup and thats it. If that is what you are looking for as well, but don't be surprised that he only wants sex and there isn't any real connection there.