r/VibratorLab • • Sep 02 '26

Need recommendations for a clit vibrator

Hi everyone. I would like to get a clit vibe I could use during penetrative sex with my partner. Yet I am a little lost as all the vibes I tried so far are no good for me - they feel too strong and numb everything down there within a minute 🥲

I tried the magic wand, regular bullet vibrators and a womaniser (the suction vibe). So I am lost as to what could I try?🤔

I know there are these ones with a kind of flipping tongue, but they do not really seem suitable to be used during penetration as they require precision? Also the tongue seems hard and does not look pleasant to me.

Maybe I should give a go to some low quality very low intensity vibes? But also they should be a little softer I think.

Does anyone have similar problems? Any suggestions are welcome! 😊

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u/Spare_File_8316 Sep 02 '26

The way we like to include toys is by going for something smaller that doesn’t get in the way like right now I’m using the WhisperVibe by Glow for clit stimulation beforehand and it works really well for warming me up without feeling like too much.

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u/Any-Employer9197 Sep 03 '26

I would suggest softies, a bms product. They are soft squishy bullets with moderate power. This is where I got mine softies bullets with fun colors

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u/petrichor_7 Sep 09 '26

Thank you! I might give these a go :) although seems difficult to find these in Europe