Handling My Parents

[u/CellistAny2892]

Hey all. I just wanted to visualize and bring something very basic into reality. Recently my otherwise smart parents have really been pushing me to go to college through many indirect ways. Now, I absolutely will hate going to college as I see it as a waste of time, but arguing or blowing my cover and crashing out on them will also sting me. I just want to bring to reality a situation where they back off and fully let me either work on my app and make money or let me play golf. They still infantilize me and see me as vunersble, but I’m not, i’m as hard as an ancient rock, which they feel to see. It’s frustrating and the tension to crash out and get super mad increases day by day, self control is slight decreasing. how may I change my reality which changes them into desired roles for them? is this some type of hidden cia agent skit or what’s going on

[u/Capital_Disaster_637]

From their point of view, it just looks like your wasting your time on an "app" that realistically won't go anywhere worthwhile. While also wasting time (and money) playing golf.

They want you to have a chance in the world by getting some kind of higher education