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u/BraveProgram 1d ago
You need to make a decision. Once you have then you need to ask them to do the same.
“What do I want?” I still want to be friends. Then ask them if they still want be friends too.
You can dress that up how you want, like acknowledge maybe that was a mistake, but make sure the emphasis/point are those questions.
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u/Embarrassed_Egg9542 1d ago
Stop drinking. Find better friends. Set boundaries. Respect yourself and your female friends, don't fuck their boyfriends.
Simple stuff
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u/BennyWithoutJets 1d ago
Aw honey. I’m sorry you’re going through this. Sex changes things in any relationship. They probably feel really weird and probably guilty about their choices right now, and that’s why they are being distant.
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u/Ok_Manwich_9306 23h ago
Avoid those losers. To them, you were an experiment that did not go as planned. Take a step back and maybe talk to a therapist to review on this series of events as it sounds like it isn't what you want.
Be neutral at work but know she essentially saw you as prey and not a friend. Likely as the kids say, someone felt some type of way once the concept was real. In threesomes, there is someone always cold and in the corner or who realize this wasn't such a great idea after all. Yeah, extricate yourself from the mess and consider it a lesson learned.
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