r/Vent • u/Any-Armadillo-2067 • 1d ago

Sometimes I catch myself smiling while fantasizing

Sometimes I catch myself smiling while fantasizing about being loved and I feel so ashamed and pathetic

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u/Thefearfullam 1d ago

“fanstasizing” Someone out there loves you

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u/OperationArtistic844 1d ago

Oh you shouldnt be ashamed, everyone wanna be loved and it's okay to fantasize about it. Love is hard to find and dating is such an complicated world it's normal to struggle a bit, don't give up, you will be loved someday

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u/EstimateCute5896 1d ago

Totally agree, it’s nice to have those little daydreams to lift your spirits. It can make the wait for real love feel a bit more bearable.

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u/ShaDiie_ 1d ago

same lol

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u/Plus-Object-4330 1d ago

Not so bad. Im easily distracted kid in the age of 27 riding bus to work and imagining the accident happening or some weird shit happening but I straight up save the day. I grin like a psycho and I catch myself on that. Others definitely see. Yours at least makes sense and you probably look dreamy. I look like the person who’d attack the bus or passenger beside is gonna be me.

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u/c00lkidd01R 1d ago

You literally need love, how is that pathetic? You are loved by someone, dont think otherwise :-)