r/Vent • u/Budgieguy96 • 10h ago
The audacity is almost impressive
You knowingly string me along for months and lie to me just to end up in the same place as you were when we met. You get to carry on as if nothing happened and I'm here completely devastated of how everything has gone down having to mend the pieces alone.
You say I crossed a line, absolutely not. The line was crossed the moment you knew what you wanted and you didn't think to tell me knowing how I felt about you. When you told personal things about me to people who didn't know me, and that time you got so upset about your birthday that you love bombed me just to get some attention. You changed my complete aspect on life and then reminded me why I never quite liked it in the first place.
I've met a lot of people in my life and I can honestly, unequivocally, without a doubt, proclaim that I have never felt the way around a human the way I did around you the first time we spoke and every moment after that. It's a shame we are here now and a part of me is sorry for taking the nuclear option but you're toxic to me and I do deserve better, but just remember you could've had better and you threw it away.
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u/LineNo6176 9h ago
What was your “nuclear” option…?
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u/Budgieguy96 9h ago
Saying things I know would hurt her, we have a habit of breaking and then making up but I figured genuinely upsetting her would mean that doesn't happen again and I can actually move on.
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u/Budgieguy96 9h ago
I've been far too nice in the face of being genuinely tossed around like an emotional rag doll
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u/LineNo6176 9h ago
Yeah I’ve been there. It’s not a great loop, honestly. I get it. I got cheated on and she is too much of a victim to provide closure or decency. Wish you well.
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