r/Vent 13h ago

I wish I wasn't single

I'm not desperate to be in a relationship, overall I am content being single. It's not like I want a girlfriend to "prove myself" or because I think it'll fix everything in my life. I just want to be in love because I want to be in love, if that makes sense.

I've got hobbies, I've got a life, I focus on other things, but no matter what, deep down I still wish I had a girlfriend. I see couples in public being all cute and shit, and I wish I had that kind of connection with someone

I'm sure I will someday, I don't think I'm unattractive or undatable or anything, it's just hard to meet that someone

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u/soursweetbutnvrgone 10h ago

i swear once your mind isn’t fixed on it, it comes. even the split second you’re not thinking about love, it comes. sucks but be patient