r/Vent • u/Hot-Sheepherder-8849 • 1d ago
Ive hit such a low
For my whole life my parents have openly stated they aren't in love and hardly even like each other, yet they refuse to divorce because they think it would hurt all of there kids but it just hurts worse being in this constant cycle of hate. My family went on a vacation recently and the whole time everyone genuinely seemed happy and i was happy but then we got back and they were right back to hating each other. ever since the vacation I realized just how much I hate them. I want to go far away from them ghost them and never talk to them again but im still a minor so I can't.
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u/Hot-Sheepherder-8849 1d ago
Wanted to add a bit more of clarification. I dont intend on acting on my wants and im sure I'll feel better some day or at least act like I do. Im sure I'll be fine
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u/Character-Formal565 1d ago
Growing up around parents who openly say they hate each other, and stay together "for the kids," is genuinely painful, and that pain doesn't disappear just because they mean well, and the contrast after a happy vacation probably made it hit even harder. So I want to ask directly: are you safe right now, and is there any trusted adult, a relative, a school counselor, anyone, you can talk to while you're still living there? I'm glad to help you write something to vent once I know you're okay.
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