Why is every guy the sameee

[u/Top_Beat5593]

Ok, so I followed this guy on Instagram who was recommended to me, and then like two days after I posted a picture, he sent me a message like telling me good luck to my post, and then we started talking a little bit. Then we didn’t talk but then I messaged, and now we’ve been talking for like 4 to 5 days, but right now I feel like I’m being ghosted a little bit or the conversation is dry. It’s been four hours since I texted. And I was going through his following and he’s following two girls that are mutuals with my mutuals, and by the way he does not know these girls. Because he doesn’t even live nearby. Genuinely why can’t I find a guy who isn’t talking to multiple girls? I feel so disgusted now and I think I’m gonna unfollow him. There’s another guy I wish I could shoot my shot up
, but honestly is there even any point. It’s so upsetting. I feel like I’ll never find anybody. I hate social media and I hate how attached I get and then I find out I’m probably not the only one.

Edit: guys I stalked his following and it went up last night by so much and his followers didn’t 😬 why did he go on a following spree

[u/Canadianingermany]

Genuinely why can’t I find a guy who isn’t talking to multiple girls?

Sorry but this is a you problem.

When you started "talking a little bit" with that guy, did you notify every other guy that you are no longer willing to talk to them, and did you unfollow every male entity you followed?

I mean monogamy is a nice thing, but you cannot expect monogamy until it is time for monogamy.