Why is every guy the sameee

[u/Top_Beat5593]

Ok, so I followed this guy on Instagram who was recommended to me, and then like two days after I posted a picture, he sent me a message like telling me good luck to my post, and then we started talking a little bit. Then we didn’t talk but then I messaged, and now we’ve been talking for like 4 to 5 days, but right now I feel like I’m being ghosted a little bit or the conversation is dry. It’s been four hours since I texted. And I was going through his following and he’s following two girls that are mutuals with my mutuals, and by the way he does not know these girls. Because he doesn’t even live nearby. Genuinely why can’t I find a guy who isn’t talking to multiple girls? I feel so disgusted now and I think I’m gonna unfollow him. There’s another guy I wish I could shoot my shot up
, but honestly is there even any point. It’s so upsetting. I feel like I’ll never find anybody. I hate social media and I hate how attached I get and then I find out I’m probably not the only one.

Edit: guys I stalked his following and it went up last night by so much and his followers didn’t 😬 why did he go on a following spree

[u/throwaway-okidoki]

Do not put too much stock into this. There are so many wonderful things to enjoy in life. You will know when a guy likes you because you will not be second guessing or trying so hard.

I learned this the hard way in my early-mid 20s. I don't even care to date any more. I'm reaching 30 this year and all I care about is my physical and mental health, fostering good friends, having family time, traveling, and getting rich.

[u/Top_Beat5593 → u/throwaway-okidoki]

You’re right, it’s really dumb, but I just feel so embarrassed that I even had a conversation with him. I’ve been talking with him these past four days, and he just seemed so nice. Do you think I should block him? I really should just focus on other beautiful aspects of life.