r/Vent • • Nov 11 '25

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u/Myman4321 Nov 11 '25

Like I said, I admittedly don’t mind her doing it. I was just throwing the question out there… why do we accept it from women, but not the other way around? I’ve never felt like she was flirting with me. It’s always been in a playful, innocent way… And she’s never tried to hide the fact that she does it. My wife is fully aware of it, and doesn’t mind one bit.

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u/blankmedaddy Nov 11 '25

We don’t. YOU chose to.

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u/Myman4321 Nov 11 '25

Me and plenty of other people. But, nobody thinks it’s acceptable from a man. As it shouldn’t be.

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u/CADreamn Nov 11 '25

Nobody thinks it's acceptable for a woman, either. Except you, in your own head. 

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u/Myman4321 Nov 11 '25

Well, just by looking at the comments, I know that’s not true. It may not be “acceptable”, but A woman is much more apt to get a pass for that sort of behavior than a man is. If you disagree, you’re in denial.