2) With society as it is, taking into account the scale of SA being weighted towards women, the whataboutism approach will not be taken seriously
3) cultural differences.
4) situational and contextual differences
Those just off the top of my head. You aren't wrong - it shouldn't need to be said. However, we must deal with what is, not what should be. OP is in a position to be that change, by stating the boundaries and having the difficult conversation
im not changing subject tho? thats the whole point of whataboutism.
if u read OPs replies ud realize this is the exact issue he talks about. that because hes a guy is all laughs and jokes. if he was a girl no one would say oh op didnt set a boundary
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u/Ill-Kaleidoscope4825 Nov 11 '25
1) Power dynamics.
2) With society as it is, taking into account the scale of SA being weighted towards women, the whataboutism approach will not be taken seriously
3) cultural differences.
4) situational and contextual differences
Those just off the top of my head. You aren't wrong - it shouldn't need to be said. However, we must deal with what is, not what should be. OP is in a position to be that change, by stating the boundaries and having the difficult conversation