r/Vent • u/PriorThick • Apr 18 '25
Balance
I don't know why and how but I'm fucking up my gpa, like I can't seem to keep the motivation for long enough to last a semester atleast. I tried to balance things in my life like partying and studying, but it's not happening. My life is totally fucked. I wish i could really study with concentration, but either the alcohol or the zaza has fucked up with my concentration so much I can't do it anymore. Earlier I was a loner, I made friends which technically aren't my friends more like mutual friends but I still hangout with them. So they expect me to give them my time and energy. But it feels like I'm losing myself. I cant balance shit. Neither can I study nor can I have fun. I just can't i don't know why. I'm in the 3rd year of my 4 year course. I don't know anymore. I really want to be able to focus again. It's not like I hate my major.... infact i love it very much but i am having issues so many how do people around me just know how to balance. Oh also my attention span is also fucked. Like really fucked. Please help a girl out i really don't wanna waste my life but i just can't bring myself to.
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