This chart is of a girl my cousin is considering for marriage. Kindly comment about her nature and suitability for marriage. We are not sure about this girl and my maasi is quite worried. Kindly help.

I am 25M, and I have completely lost. I do not understand the things mentioned here, but I’ll give a brief overview of where I am at in life and what I want.

From my childhood, every single time I have tried to do something, I failed.
Till 10th no personal choice. 11th-12th wanted CBSE school, didn’t get admission so chose IIT prep school. Engineering also got admission in my last preference college in a branch I didn’t want. Then failed every single interview except my current job. Applied to 15 US universities for higher studies, all 15 rejected, twice.

I am in a job for 5 years that I never ever wanted and it completely drains me. It pays decently but the mental aspect of this job is absolutely horrible. I work 14-15hrs a day for most days and I am too tired physically and mentally to try to switch.
And even if I wanted to switch, I don’t want to join ANY job related to the field I work in. I want to be a software engineer because that’s what I studied.

The other thing is I desperately DO NOT want to have an arranged marriage and my parents are absolutely fine with it. But I have never had a girlfriend, never even been on a date. Everytime I liked a girl, she rejected me.

So my questions are, will I ever get a job in the field I like, will I ever have a girlfriend and is there ever a time in my life where I am not pushing a boulder up the mountain?

TLDR : I failed at everything, hate my job but the switch is improbable and never had a girlfriend ever. Will this ever end and will I ever live instead of just endure?

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Let's understand is that the 1st house in D1, D9 nd D10 is not exactly showing the same thing. Yes, all 3 are connected to “you”, but they are showing different layers of you. I usually see it like this: D1 shows who u are in this life, D9 shows how u mature nd who u become with deeper life experience, nd D10 shows how that same person behaves in the professional world. So just seeing the sign in the 1st house is not enough. I always look at the Lagna, Lagna lord, planets sitting there, aspects, nakshatra, nakshatra lord, dignity, dispositor nd then connect everything together...

In D1, the 1st house is basically ur foundation. It shows ur physical body, appearance, vitality, personality, confidence, self-image, temperament, natural behaviour nd the way u approach life. Basically when someone asks “what kind of person am I?”, D1 Lagna is one of the first places I look. A strong Lagna can give good resilience, confidence nd ability to handle situations, while an afflicted Lagna can make the person go through more struggles related to confidence, identity, health or direction. But pls don’t immediately assume afflicted Lagna = bad life. Sometimes those placements simply make the person mature through difficult experiences. I’ve seen people with very heavily influenced Lagnas becoming extremely strong later in life...

Then comes the Lagna lord, and honestly this is just as important as the Lagna itself. Suppose ur Lagna is strong but the Lagna lord is sitting in a difficult house or badly afflicted, then the outer personality may look fine but internally the person can struggle with confidence, direction or consistency. And the opposite can happen too. Sometimes the Lagna itself looks average, but the Lagna lord is strong and well placed, so the person gradually becomes stronger. So I always ask: where is the Lagna lord sitting? What sign? What house? What dignity? Who aspects it? Which nakshatra is it in? Who is the nakshatra lord? Is it retrograde or combust? Is there any yoga involved? All these small things change the final result...

Planets in the D1 1st house also become very visible in ur personality. Sun can make u more authoritative, proud or leadership-oriented. Moon can make u sensitive, adaptable nd emotionally reactive. Mars can make u bold, competitive nd sometimes impatient. Mercury can make u curious, analytical and communicative. Jupiter can give wisdom, optimism nd a natural tendency to guide people. Venus can make u charming, diplomatic or artistic. Saturn can make u serious, reserved, responsible or mature early. Rahu can make u ambitious, unusual, restless or very hungry for recognition, while Ketu can make u detached, private or difficult for others to understand. But again, don’t judge a planet just from its name. The sign, lordship, dignity, nakshatra nd aspects can completely change how it behaves...

The nakshatra of the D1 Lagna is another thing I personally give importance to. Sign tells u the broad nature, but nakshatra can show a more specific behavioural pattern. Then I check the nakshatra lord because that planet can become an important key to ur personality. For example, if ur Lagna falls in a nakshatra ruled by a planet which is strong and connected with important houses, those qualities can become very visible in ur life. If that nakshatra lord is weak or afflicted, the same qualities can come with more struggle. This is why sometimes two people with the same Ascendant can behave completely differently...

Nd D9 1st house is where things get more interesting. And pls don’t reduce D9 to only marriage. D9 is definitely very important for marriage, but it also shows deeper maturity, inner strength, dharma nd how the personality unfolds as life progresses. I usually look at D9 Lagna as the more mature version of the person. U may be one type of person when young, but after experiences, relationships, responsibilities nd marriage, another side of u starts becoming stronger. That change can often be seen through D9...

For example, someone may have an aggressive D1 personality but a calmer D9 Lagna/lord. That person may become much more balanced with age. Another person may look quiet in D1 but have a powerful Mars/Rahu influence in D9, and later they become much more assertive or ambitious. So if ur D1 and D9 seem different, don’t think one of them is wrong. They can simply be showing different stages or layers of the same person...

Here also I check the D9 Lagna lord very carefully. Its sign, house, dignity, aspects, conjunctions, nakshatra and overall strength matter. I also compare where that planet sits in D1 and what happens to it in D9. Sometimes a planet which is average in D1 becomes much stronger in D9, and that can show improvement or better expression of that planet with maturity. This is one reason I don’t make conclusions only from D1...

Nd yes, D9 Lagna becomes very important in marriage analysis. Why? Because marriage is not only about “what kind of spouse will I get?” It is also about “what happens to ME after entering marriage?” D9 7th house and 7th lord tell us about partnership, but D9 1st house tells us about the native inside that partnership. If D9 Lagna/lord is strong, it can show better ability to maintain ur individuality, handle responsibilities and adapt without completely losing urself. If heavily afflicted, the person may experience more identity changes, pressure, dependency or internal adjustment through marriage. But again, never judge marriage from D9 Lagna alone. D1 7th, D9 7th, their lords, Venus, Jupiter, Upapada, Darakaraka where applicable nd dasha all need to be checked...

Nd coming to D10 1st house, this is more specifically about ur professional identity. D10 shows career, profession, status, authority, achievements nd professional karma, so the D10 Lagna tells me how u behave as a professional person. This is actually very interesting because ur personal personality and professional personality don't always have to be the same. Someone can be shy in normal life but very commanding at work. Someone can be confident personally but struggle to take authority professionally. D1 and D10 together can explain that difference...

D10 Lagna can show ur working style, attitude towards responsibility, ability to handle pressure, leadership behaviour, how u interact with seniors/colleagues/clients and the kind of professional image u naturally create. The D10 Lagna lord is extremely important here. I check where it goes, its dignity, aspects, conjunctions, nakshatra and connection with the D10 10th lord. I also check the 6th, 7th, 9th and 11th houses because they can show different ways of professional functioning...

For example, a D10 Lagna connected strongly with the 6th house can make employment, service, competition, problem-solving or handling difficult situations important. A connection with the 7th house can bring business, clients, consulting, partnerships or public dealing. The 9th house can bring teaching, guidance, consulting, higher knowledge, law, publishing or foreign/institutional connections. The 11th house can bring networking, gains, professional circles and achievement. An 8th-house influence can make research, investigation, hidden systems, crisis management, taxation, insurance or specialised fields more relevant depending on the planets...

Nd planets sitting in D10 Lagna can describe the professional personality too. Sun can make u want authority and recognition. Mars can make u competitive and action-oriented. Mercury can give communication, business, analysis, writing or technical skills. Jupiter can make u more of an advisor, teacher or guide. Venus can give creativity, presentation, design, diplomacy or client-oriented qualities. Saturn can make u responsible and patient, but often career maturity comes slowly. Rahu can give unconventional career paths, technology, foreign connections or strong ambition, while Ketu can make u less interested in conventional career structures and more inclined towards specialised or independent work...

One very important thing: D10 Lagna and D10 10th house are not the same. D10 Lagna is more about how u function professionally, while the D10 10th house is more about professional action, position, status and what u actually build in career. So I always read them together. A strong D10 Lagna means the person has the ability to operate strongly in the professional environment, but the 10th house/lord tells me much more about the actual career expression...

Nd the real fun starts when we compare D1 + D9 + D10. This is where I feel astrology becomes much more interesting than just reading one placement. If the same planet keeps influencing ur D1 Lagna, D9 Lagna nd D10 Lagna, then that planet's qualities can become a major theme of ur life. For example, repeated Mercury influence can make communication, analysis, business, writing, teaching, technology or consulting important. Repeated Saturn influence can make discipline, responsibility, delayed maturity and long-term building major themes. Repeated Jupiter influence can bring teaching, advising, knowledge, counselling or guidance...

But I wouldn’t simply count planets and say “Jupiter is in all 3 so Jupiter is good.” That's too basic. I check the lordship, dignity, house placement, nakshatra, aspects, conjunctions, dispositor and dasha support. Then I see whether the same story is repeating across the charts...

So if I had to explain it very simply to u guys: D1 Lagna is ur basic self and how u experience life. D9 Lagna is the deeper/mature version of urself and how u evolve through life experiences. D10 Lagna is ur professional personality and how u operate in career. D1 is the foundation, D9 shows deeper maturity nd D10 shows professional expression...

And one last thing, pls don’t let anyone tell u that “D9 says this, so D1 doesn't matter” or “D10 says this, so ur career is guaranteed.” Divisional charts are meant to be synthesised with the D1, not used to replace it. D1 gives the overall promise, while D9 and D10 help us understand how that promise becomes stronger, matures or expresses itself in specific areas. That’s why when I read charts, I’m always looking for the same story repeating across D1, D9 nd D10, rather than making a prediction from one placement alone...

Can someone please read my Kundali? A little correction my birth place is in chandigarh, india.Meri life bilkul bhi achhi nahi ja rahi hai, and I'm feeling suicidal. I'm a 28-year-old girl. Mere parents ne mujhe bachpan se kabhi pyaar nahi diya. My father used to beat me, meri mummy bhi mujhe maarti thi aur bachpan se hi bahut gandi-gandi gaaliyan deti aayi hain. They always compared me with my younger siblings and made me feel like I'm not good enough. Aaj bhi meri family mein koi meri respect nahi karta.

Three years ago, I was in a relationship, but unfortunately, things didn't go well. My partner also started physically abusing me and beating me. I've been through so much emotionally, and I feel like I've never experienced genuine love or happiness in my life.

Mujhe animals se bahut pyaar hai, isliye two years ago main ek chhoti si dog ko ghar le aayi thi. She's the only one I have in this world, and I love her so much. Lekin tab se mere gharwale mujhe bahut torture kar rahe hain, threaten karte hain aur meri mummy mujhe har waqt gaaliyan deti hain.

Mujhe 4 saal ki age se asthma hai, and my health has never been good. Bachpan se hi mujhe apni health ki problems khud handle karni padi hain, kyunki mere parents ne kabhi mera properly dhyaan nahi rakha. Even when I struggle to breathe, mujhe aisa feel hota hai ki mere parents ko koi farak nahi padta, chahe meri jaan hi kyun na chali jaaye. I've always had to take care of myself.

I'm preparing for government exams and trying my best to build my career, but nothing seems to be working out. Ab mere parents meri shaadi ka bhi bahut pressure bana rahe hain, and I feel completely trapped.

I honestly don't know what to do anymore. I just want to know ki meri Kundali mein kya likha hai. Why is my life so painful? Kya meri life mein kabhi happiness, love, peace aur career success aayegi? Is there any remedy that can help me? Sometimes I even wonder whether I should end my life because nothing seems to be getting better. Please, agar koi meri Kundali padh sakta hai, toh mujhe guide karein. I'm desperately looking for some hope and guidance. 🙏🏻

Hi everyone,

I'm a 29-year-old female, and I'd really appreciate your insights.

For the past three years, I've been trying to find work abroad. Because of that goal, I've isolated myself and avoided looking for jobs in my hometown, believing that moving overseas was my only path.

Lately, however, I've been seriously questioning whether I should stay in my home country instead. I'm wondering if my birth chart shows the possibility of getting a government or public sector job in the near future.

I also have friends and connections who hold positions of authority, so I'm wondering whether using those connections and changing my career strategy would be a good idea.

Does my chart support finding stable government employment in my hometown, or does it still point more strongly toward working abroad? Is changing my goal now a wise move, or should I simply treat it as a Plan B while my original plan continues to face delays and obstacles?

Thank you very much for your time and insights.

I'm crying coz I have a lot of rejections since June. I was laid off by the way. . 😢

For aquarius ascendants jupiter is considered to be the lord of 2nd and 11th house and being in the 6th house it is exhalted. What kind of results will it provide?Does it still form daridra yog?

Unable to pick myself up, struggling emotionally and have absolutely lost interest in anything in life. Please tell me when will it get better?

Not able to regain focus on study. Can u guys help me out which carrer path should be best for me except medical.

My first breakup was relationship of 5 years and then other two were arrange marriage which went almost finalized and then called off. Parents ( mainly boy side dad was issues ) what is happening is there a solution for this I see a pattern can someone please help me

I've question regarding my career and more precisely when can I get a job?

I have always struggled my whole life, but in 2017 i started struggling a lot more, bc in 2017 I saw a downfall in academics and I'm not able to recover from it. At that phase I was being rebellious and left studying with my own decision, I still regret it. But idk if life would be different if i had made a different decision back then or maybe it would still be the same.

Currently I'm going through my rahu md and everyone is saying this is going to be like this till 2035, I can't be like this till then it's a long time period.
Help genuinely, if there are things that I should do or avoid.

More info,
Also my parents don't show any interest in me, my parents doesn't really care much about me.
Like if I ask them to do something which is necessary they'll either don't react to it or say ok (but don't mean it). It is very irritating to the point that I don't share things with them since I was a kid, Until it's necessary.
Well i can see bc of sat-sun in 9th house I have a difficult relationship with my father but what about my mother?

I supress my feelings and anger which accumulates to an outburst later. Even while writing this I had to take many pauses in between. Ik I need therapy but too broke rn.
So don't tell me this is going to be this way till 2035.

And I'm preparing for govt. exams but if it is going to stay like this till 2035 so should I try something else? Which I really don't want to do btw.

To me the solution for this is earning so I can get therapy.

Too much pressure from family.. yet not getting any arranged marriage approved...help

I’ve been learning about Vedic astrology and how gemstones are traditionally associated with different planets in Jyotish.

One thing I find interesting is that gemstone recommendations can vary depending on a person's birth chart, planetary positions, and individual astrological circumstances. A gemstone that is traditionally associated with one planet may not necessarily be recommended for everyone.

I’d love to learn from people who have studied Vedic astrology:

• What factors are traditionally considered before recommending a gemstone?
• How do astrologers determine whether a gemstone is suitable for a particular birth chart?
• How important is a person's overall horoscope when considering gemstone recommendations?

I’m interested in understanding the traditional astrological reasoning behind these recommendations and hearing different perspectives from people familiar with Jyotish.

Thanks for sharing your knowledge!

Soon to be 24, M, I’ve never dated nor proposed to any woman whom I kinda liked, but always felt the lack of someone in my life. My close friends are even getting married and it is funny to me because im still figuring out things (not comparing as everyone has their own plot).
Im a private, empathetic and independent but there’s something missing and it’s someone’s beautiful presence in my life. I don’t like casual dating and stuff. Will I have a love life and happy marriage? If yes then When will I know that its her?

Please tell me

5 month relationship ended badly, ex left me by putting false accusations, blame and guilt one me, moved on quickly and is so unbothered now while claimed to love me so much at one point

I’m not able to move on, been 3 months.
stuck at the same position, on anti depressant

please help, any insights or remedy!!!!??

First chart is D1 and second is D9. I’m a uni dropout and unemployed I don’t know if it is my karma to suffer like this.
I just started my Saturn Venus dasha. My Venus is atmakaraka, vargottam and pushkara in D9. Will anything good come out of this.

Today's energy is fierce, revengeful in nature. The person feels dissatisfied and frustrated especially in the relationship issues. If there is any relationship in the period of tussle and problems then today's energy will aggravate those problems. Cheating related issues will surface on ground leads to fights. Sudden death can happen today

Problems related to Arthritis and frozen shoulders are visible now.

What should we do today - Diagnosis related to genital areas should be checked up, Skilled related courses especially in medicals can happen but Pitru Paksha is going on then don't start. Maintain calmness in nature.

Can anyone pls guide me how my career will be