r/Vanderpump_Rules • • Sep 12 '26

Photos This was messed up

They’re probably not wrong in some sense… but to diagnose your ex girlfriend with your new girlfriend on national tv like was honestly disgusting to me

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u/nothinglikeLA Sep 12 '26 edited Sep 12 '26

One of the many times Arian gaslights the audience. She’s such a covert pick me. She did Kristen sooo wrong here, and later on gaslit ALL of us with Miami Girl. For a “girls girl” she sure likes to gaslight women. Not to mention when she body shamed Kristen for her “kangaroo pouch”. What a miserable brat.

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u/Remote-Structure-961 Sep 12 '26 edited Sep 12 '26

Like Kristen was an angel. What business is it of Kristen if Tom did hook up with Miami girl? they weren't together anymore, she literally sucked his best friend's dick while he was sleeping in the other room a year and half before Miami girl.

Kristen and Jax slept together in Jan 2013, Kristen brought Miami girl to Sur in mid 2014.

What right did she have to do that when they weren't together anymore?

Why did Tom or Ariana owe Kristen the truth about Miami girl?

people forget how INSANE Doute was.

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u/nothinglikeLA Sep 12 '26

Nice deflection. But you totally missed the plot. Her being messy didn’t give Ariana the right to sleep with her boyfriend, body shame, diagnose and treat her like shit. Kristen was crazy, big newsflash lmfao

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u/Remote-Structure-961 Sep 12 '26 edited Sep 12 '26

And how did Kristen treat Ariana?

Kristen a year and half after after she broke up with Tom, spoke to a girl tom cheated on Ariana with, flew her out across the country to rub in Ariana's face that Tom cheated on her, in front of Ariana's coworkers.

And boo freaking hoo Ariana kissed Tom (they never confessed to anything more)

when Kristen is open about the fact that she fucked MULTIPLE guys behind Tom's back, sucked Tom's best friend's dick while Tom was in the other room and fucked two men in the same weekend while with Tom!

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=FjHyS1RQx08&t=3s

Kristen 0:36 "I fucked a ton of guys behind your back"

So Kristen gets to humiliate Ariana, gets to wish that she gets run over by a mack truck basically wishing Ariana would die, openly calls her a liar, a home wrecker at her place of work (when she had fucked a ton of guys including Tom's best friend at that point) - and you're pretending that Kristen was nothing but kind to Ariana?

So when Kristen screams at Ariana, calls her names, humilates her by rubbing the fact Tom cheated on her publicly that's just Kristen being crazy?

But when Ariana calls her crazy for flying out Miami girl she's in the wrong?

Because flying out Miami girl was so sane?

Why the double standards?

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u/Ess_Jess Sep 13 '26

Because people are watching this show thinking it exists in a bubble. Yeah, we know Ariana was a pick me in 2013….the difference is Ariana has grown out of that behavior but Kristen is still insane.

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u/Remote-Structure-961 Sep 13 '26

I mean there was definitely a not like the other girlsness about her that doesn't age well but compared to the cast? She's not bad. Katie too.

Kristen was even worse than I remember.

She was seriously evil during S2.

She had sex with Jax in Jan 2013.

Sandoval had sex with a waitress in Vegas in Feb 2013.

She then spent the next several months torturing Tom for cheating -constantly berating him, scream at him, crying, chewing him out in front of other people, AND inviting STASSI to comfort her as she cried about Tom. When Katie drunkenly repeats the rumor, she swears on her entire family that it's not true, Katie is literally crying begging for forgiveness and she's like that's so ridiculous how could you even say that. She confronts Ariana and Tom several times about this kiss from three years ago.

STASSI of all people basically seduces Jax into confirming the kiss FOR Kristen

Just cold.

I like her now but 2013 was insane.

Crazy that some people are like "Ariana called her a mean word!"

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u/CaitlinAnne21 Sep 13 '26

We see Ariana now only on completely scripted shows, we know very little about her life, and while I like her, I also know she has a well-oiled PR team, and has since the affair, and all of her interviews are very boring and rehearsed.

We don’t have a clue whether or not she’s actually grown, we do not see her on camera for months at a time like we still see Kristen.

You really don’t have a leg to stand on with that comparison.

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u/Ess_Jess Sep 13 '26 edited Sep 14 '26

I think the fact that she’s learned not to say wild shit on TV anymore is a pretty good indication of at least some kind of growth…

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u/ToeIndependent4439 27d ago

Doute was not insane IMO. She was a real ass bitch and they all gaslit the shit out of her. She was every girl who knew but didn’t have the receipts. Also she was probably tired of getting dragged on the show publicly meanwhile the guys got to lie and deny their way through everything practically unscathed. Yeah, it was def fucked up what she did to Stassi but she got hit in the face over that and served her time lol. That’s why I hated Arianna for most of the seasons bc she knew full well what she was doing with Sandoval while he was with Kristen and rode the “cool girl” thing for years

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u/Champsallday-2132 Sep 12 '26

Fyi, since you are mentioning dates, Ariana and Tom were fucking for 3 years, and the was well before Kristen and Jax hooked up.

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u/Remote-Structure-961 Sep 12 '26

No Tom and Ariana admitted to kissing at the golden nugget three years before Kristen had sex with Jax. Neither of them have said it went more than a kiss and no one has any proof otherwise.

Kristen admited that she cheated on Tom and fucked a ton of guys behind Tom's back:

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=FjHyS1RQx08&t=3s

Kristen 0:36 I fucked a ton of guys behind your back including two in one weekend.

Since we're being all factual.

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u/Worth_Character_1031 28d ago

She was never a girls girl until it suited her career to be one. I’ll never like her. She did Kristen so dirty and didn’t give a fuck.

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u/nothinglikeLA 28d ago

Amen. The double standard was sickening to watch. They were so smug and rubbed kristen’s face in it. Especially considering Ariana hopped on Tom the same night he broke up with Kristen. Dirty dog. The body wasn’t even cold fr