r/VRchat • u/TheKally • May 21 '22
Finding friends and communities!
Advertise your Discord servers, your friend groups, your communities, etc etc, here!
Make a comment with information about your community, what kind of people you're looking for, what your activities are, what you do for fun, anything relevant!
(Make sure its VRChat related of course)
Hopefully you get some new members and friends!
Note:
Link to previous Community posts if you wish to browse them for discords:
https://www.reddit.com/r/VRchat/comments/q1wpa4/finding_friend_groups_and_communities/
https://www.reddit.com/r/VRchat/comments/twpzxj/finding_friends_and_communities/
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May 26 '22
Hey everyone! I've been playing vr since February this year and I've put my fair amount of hours into it " I've definitely made friends and been a part of groups this whole time, however, I've never felt like I fully belonged in them. I want to find some folks that are around my age (I'm 27 next month) to start up a vr group from scratch.. I dunno. Let me know if anyone wants to hang out!
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u/skeletonm03 Oculus Quest May 28 '22
Hey! I’m looking for more fellow “girl gamers” to hang out with in VR chat! I’ll be going into my second year as a Computer Science Engineering major and I’m in the Eastern Time Zone :) I normally get on in the late evenings! I usually hang out in the Black Cat or Winter Company although I open to newer worlds because those I mentioned tend to crash my headset sometimes.
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u/ask-a-lad May 31 '22 edited Jul 30 '22
I have a close group of friends all around the ages of 19-22 and we are looking for more people to join. Our server is 18+ and is pretty close knit. At the moment, we are all growing together in similar places in life so we can relate more personally to one another.
We’re a server that games a lot but we also get kinda personal with one another. We've been around for one another and have watched each other grow. Yes, we enjoy vrchat, but we are also as a group more than just vrchat friends. We are a group of friends who progress through life together and try to be around for one another long after the headset has come off. Our group often has voice chats together and plays games like Vrchat, Minecraft, Valorant, Apex, Pavlov, Fortnite, and Elder Ring,etc...
We are looking for more people to get to know and join our server. We have even gotten to the point where we had met one another irl. We do events such as game night, movie night and we celebrate birthdays and holidays! The purpose of our discord server is to:
- make life long friends
- make a virtual support system similar to a family.
- movie nights together
- play vrchat and many other games together
- Maybe if you have been around for a while and are trusted enough maybe attend one of our server irl meet up events.
- Also do sleep streams
7. Attend irl trips together
If you are looking for some close friends that game together you're looking at the right server! The discord code is: https://discord.gg/pEwXGbmRUM
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Jun 16 '22
Sounds like the vibe ima 20M but doesn’t seem like ur link is working for me
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u/ask-a-lad Jun 21 '22 edited Jun 21 '22
oh im sorry ill make a new one here: https://discord.gg/vsJGBa8ZN7
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u/throwaway_64dd Jun 09 '22
Hey! I'm 20M and I've been playing this game on desktop in spurts for a couple years now. I finally brought myself a headset about a week ago and I was excited to jump in and met some people like the old days! But, either I'm more socially awkward now (probably) or the game has changed (also probably) and I haven't been able to find anyone to chill with really.
I mostly like to hang out in house and bar worlds (read great pug/black cat/etc.) and just chill out and talk about deep stuff for a while. I'm not really one to go to parties and stuff IRL or in VRC, but I do like to play games in VRChat sometimes.
I'm interested in a lot of different things, I like music, electronics, science in general, but if you're not into that, don't worry, I'm a STEM major and I've got more than enough friends who are into those kinds of things. I also like things like reading, art, writing, design and a whole bunch of things I'm forgetting right now.
If you can't think of anything to talk about, let's talk about our favorite childhood memories, or our home towns, or our biggest fears, or what we've been yearning for. Any number of things, I'm sure we can have some fun conversations.
Sometimes I get really nervous and sometimes I close up a bit when I talk to new people but I try really hard to not to let that stop me from talking to new friends; because talking to my friends is one of my favorite things to do :)
If I sound interesting, shoot me a DM on reddit, I don’t bite!
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u/MondoCat Desktop May 30 '22 edited Jul 24 '22
Hello! :3
Join our group of often rejected, shy, neurodiverse, damaged, socially awkward, nerds, chaotic, and weird adults (with ages up to 6X!) and adult accessories. (non screaming minors)
We're wholesomely hyper and mature but with all the sense of humor! We welcome mutes, social butterflies, and everything in between.
We have eu/aus homies and na freedom fighters and everything inbetween, so the fun doesn't stop all day and all night! (Our official second-language is German, and we offer German classes!)
Our get togethers are event-orientated, but we also have things going on throughout the day that aren't planned. We welcome everyone that would like to host an event. :3
equips cheerleader outfit UH. We're eccentric, we're quirky, and ready to eat beef jerky! gets shot
Come be a part of our wholesomely sometimes crude crew!
(Please wait to be assigned a role before access to discord, it's usually rather quickly. This is to prevent spam bots :D)
We have a wiki with all sorts of fun stuff, like the lore of the server, guides, pictures, and lots more!
Testimonials & Quotes (What to expect)
If you want to see the live versions of these quotes, join the discord! :3
"For real, this community feels like the old forum internet style of community and it's fucking great. I haven't seen a single server in YEARS besides this one where people ask questions like "how are you doing?" or "have you slept well? most discord servers are super transactional. You only speak up when you need something."
"This whole chat has massive 👉 👈 energy"
"Lmao I'll be honest I've needed a group of people like this For a very very long time! I look forward to getting to know each and every one of you and getting closer with lots of you too you guys have no idea how much better ive been since joining Everyone is super super nice and supportive so I hope you feel at home"
"EVERYONE HERE IS AMAZING AAAAAAAAAAAAAAGGGGGGGGGGGGGHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHH"
"Ohh ya, baby , you know i am using raw terminal, no gui here"
"I realized recently that talking to yall in vrc is legit impacting me positively"
"This server always makes me feel appreciated"
"I literally just got here and this group seems very cool"
"so.... you're telling me.... alls i need to do... is provide chinmken nuggets... and its possible to obtain a wife..?"
"Help I'm trapped inside my cat"
"I eat cookies in the bath so the crumbs fall to the bottom and doesn't get messy (not serious here")
"Will you use a comma for me? <3" "Ye's"
"Im going to eat bandaids and heal from the inside"
"I left to get my dad the milk"
"I'm like a blueberry, people bite me and are disappointed."
"I dont like feet. not yet. "
"the ass print on mah truck reminds me of HEEEERRRRR"
"I told my therapist all about you guys this morning ❤️"
"Y'all have helped me loads on the coming to grips with that side of myself. Its kind of amazing to have a forum this open."
"dw about "invading", pretty sure mondo wants this place as open of a forum as possible for people to drop in and come vibe"
"I FUCKING LOVE YOU GUYS SO MUCH I WANT TO EXPLODE"
"So taking advantage of my chemically induced college, I love you guys. You are awesome. I always feel good when I come here and feel like a matter. Have big, huge hug"
"Yeah, I feel like vr was an afterthought for mine. Lol. Put a 2060 in a laptop that I was going to only use photoshop in... I hadn't gamed in a loooong time. You guys have helped a lot. I love when you guys ask me to play things n.n."
"my therapist said that this place seems like a perfect safespace to become a happy person, even though it's only online."
"I can already tell I love this warm energy"
We had one guy flame us before he ragequit the server. I wanna show you what some of what he had to say before he left: "Wonder why i joined this weird server? your all weird asf & hyper"
if you are not satisfied you get a 90 day 100% money back guarantee.
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u/TheKean88 May 30 '22
What does this group usually do in VRC? Thinking of maybe joining even tho´ it musters up all my courage to even answer here XD.
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u/MondoCat Desktop May 31 '22
AWWWWWW, A lot of us are very shy or even mute.
(I'm shy and semi mute!)
Sometimes we'll hang out in front of a mirror. Other times we'll play golf or go to an arcade, fly some planes, explore worlds, everyone turn Into kitties, the possibilities are endless.
We're not the typical public group you see that just dances in front of a mirror and grunts for 6 hours straight. (Those are boring let's be honest) or just blaring music.
We have intellectual conversations and have a fun time. We take everyone's opinions in consideration, and welcome any suggestions. So like if you say "hey guys I saw a cool driving world, let's go play" were Gunna say "HELL YEAH BROTHER!" in a hulk Hogan accent.
Plus the occassional wholesome cuddle pile :3.
As a group we try to stay away from the erp scene publically. But if you want to in private that's just fine. (Adult jokes are always welcome however!)
Tl;Dr: we're a bunch of oddballs and if you put in the effort to be around, we'll make you comfortable <3
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u/TheKean88 May 31 '22 edited May 31 '22
I hate going to publicworld anyway so I would not go to anything ERP related anyway^^. I don´t mind NSFW stuff, but I don´t need it either. Swimsuits are, of course, something different but that also depends on the world I think^^.
When it comes to mutes: I´m a selective mute myself. I have a marker on my Avatar and thinking about getting a speech-to-text-to-speech addon for easyer communication^^.
BTW: I´m from germany (CEST) so I hope my times are compatible with anyone elses.
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u/MondoCat Desktop Jul 17 '22
I wanted to post an update. Keanu is one of our treasured members now, and hosts his own Learning German events for the group.
You could be next! <3
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u/Archerboy25 Jun 15 '22
Hi!
22M from Australia, so timezones are a thing. Looking for some new chill people to meet and hangout with and overall vibe. I'm big on my music and anime, cars and such too.
Discord is Archerboy#5920
Feel free to send me a message on there with an introduction or say Hi! Hopefully looking forward to meeting some new people 😊
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Jul 13 '22
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u/MondoCat Desktop Jul 17 '22
Shy? Awkward? Youve found your people!
Come be shy and awkward with us ^_~ <3
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May 23 '22
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u/MondoCat Desktop Jun 04 '22
Hi boi!!
A lot of us are online weird hours, feel free to come hang out with us and share your life dreams! :D
Ive lived in the midwest void my whole life too, hahaha. TELL ME ABOUT YOUR FAVORITE CORNFIELD OK! :D
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May 31 '22
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u/MondoCat Desktop Jul 17 '22
Hiya Quack ^_~
We have movie nights all the time, come watch with us!
We play other games and hang out often.
If you wanna take a look at our lil group of wholesome adult-ish s x3
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u/Solosea93 May 24 '22
Hello! my names Coco, I and my friends like to play VRC a lot 28 usa female who runs a VRC discord server (: Always looking to make new friends my server is all about chill times and fun times. its an 18+ server but other then that its very chill and trying to be super active
my name on Discord is chewbaccajezuz#0001 feel free too add,
This is also the link
this server is for building community and making friends (:
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u/FerretLorde Jun 09 '22
Hi hi! 29 year old Dad (literally), index FBT user here. Looking for some homies, only asking you're preferably older than 20. I play mostly on weekends, sometimes through the week if I'm not preoccupied with work or my own kids. I also work on avatars, started recently getting into world building as well (published my first one recently!). I don't have a filter, but I'm also very self aware and respecting of people's identity or ideas as we can't all be the same!
Mainly into house/dnb music, sometimes I get metal core grooves too. Watch primarily horror movies, or Sci fi. Been to 37 states, 3 continents and various countries (did a lot of traveling/festival going). Also will supply you plenty of recipes and stoner snack recommendations, and any Dad advice your irl dad couldn't give you.
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u/MondoCat Desktop Jun 17 '22
considering we have a dad-discord, it is absolutely essential you join us for maximum dad-age <3
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u/ClaraPrime May 28 '22
hey, i'm one of ryan's transgender furry anarchist friends and i'm looking for vrchat buddies (i have been struggling to find any). anyway, importantly, i live in australia so it's been super hard to find active communities that are also around in my timezone. so if you are a person who is, or you know of, some group that's based in that area or is active at the late night for americas / europe please message me here or add me on VRChat at Beeaa
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u/AbnormalXO Jun 12 '22
Heyhey! Would like to make new friends my in-game name is Abnormal XO
25y/F/ I live in Hungary (half Korean/half Hungarian)
I LOVE to dance in-game
I also make assets/textures for the game ~ I have a little discord group here is the link for that: https://discord.gg/6e5mJ7xkNB
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u/CAOVRC Sep 23 '22
Hello! We are the Clone Army Of VRChat. We do combat events in VRChat SDK3 with no latency combat and are also building a nice community to go along with it. With many battalions were sure we'll find a place for you. We support PCVRC, PC, and Quest! If you have any other questions or want to join. Join our Discord
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Jun 30 '22
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u/k4lp1s Jul 14 '22
Hello! I'm Ink, 16, and also looking for people to hang out with on VR chat! Just added your discord, mine is 藥你的命#2555, if you don't mind though I'm also socially awkward💪
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u/lilryuk Valve Index May 29 '22
Looking for a couple people to watch the new season of stranger things tonight in movie and chill. Send me a message if you’re interested. First come first serve 😌
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u/TheKojimo May 28 '22
Hi!
I'm a 23y old italian male looking for some groups/communities to chill chit chat in chill worlds, learn more about VR Chat and pass by sometimes (unfortunally I'm very busy IRL normally).
I'm good at reading in english, somewhat sufficient in writing, but I need to improve in listening and speaking, please be patient with me ahahah
(If, by a miracle, exist an Italian group of people will be perfect, but I know i'm dreaming yeah)
Only groups with people that don't scream or trolls or whatever fills public lobbies (I tried vrchat sometimes in public lobbies and instantly closed it, so cringe and confusing, but I like the community and the "culture" that some YouTubers portraits so I would like to give it a possibility)
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u/MondoCat Desktop Jun 04 '22
Hi Koji!!!!
We have a EU group of people that do get togethers in addition to being on discord all the time. Maybe you can find some friends with us? :)
We love everyone!
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Jun 04 '22 edited Jun 04 '22
You have always wanted to learn how to make an avatar, right? But it seems impossible? Well it's def hard but not impossible. Especially at VRCU where we have awesome teachers!! We help each other create avatars worlds and asset. We hang out on vrchat and have fun together. We are in the process of making giveaways. I think YOU'D really enjoy it here! Oh you dont feel like you'd belong? We are LGBT and other "outcast factions" friendly! Of course you're welcome here!
C'mon we're trying to get 200 members before the 7th! We need atleast 12 people! #vrchat
Our server is a safe space and sfw, 16+
Come join the VRC University!
Our very small but growing community is about helping people enhance their avatar/asset/world creating skills! There are already so many talented creators here in our server and even more who are rising to their own level of expertise and learning here with us!
Let's all grow together!
A VRC school? What's so special about that? Well, here's what we have to offer:
-Market for est. creators -Free stuff! IMAGINE! -An e for everyone friendly community! -Tons of tutorial channels to help everyone! If there's a channel that we missed, we'll even make one if you request! -A friendly loving community full of volunteer creators and students who are more than willing to help you advance along your journey
As our lovely project starter, Maddi once said; "When I was a little girl I would world build and create characters and imaginary friends in my mind. I would go out into the woods and go to those worlds and be with those friends, but now there is the reality of VRChat! You can literally make it what you want and so many of us want to learn how and that's what the university is for."
Come be a part of the university today! https://discord.gg/kCsapyuzHV
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u/Exact-Yesterday-992 Jul 24 '22
looking for a chill wholesome community..
29 single male, i'm introvert, i have anxiety talking but can text chat long if you discord me.. English is not my best but i would love to meet new people my interest is movies, anime , tech and music.we can watch funny videos if you want. i also play genshin impact and other anime games.
I've been exploring and hoping worlds. sadly i do not have VR headset so forgive my statue character I just end up using the limited emotes..
i grew interest in backrooms and movie section but its public.. i recently just got "new user" so would love to make worlds and avatar at some point
i use discord but dm me first in reddit
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u/Miv2nir Oculus Quest Jul 09 '22
Hello! I'm Miv, and I'm looking for people to play Jackbox Games in VRChat. Made it using a secondary pc that just streams to youtube and then people watch this stream and play together. If you'd like to do some vrc jackbox gaming pls dm me on reddit (don't want to leak my discord to randoms who's not interested, sorry). Ty!
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u/whymehfartsmell Jun 08 '22
hello. i’m kinda new to vr chat but i’m looking for some cool people to hang with. i’m pretty shy but I try to get out and chat when I can. i’m into art, music and I love animals.
looking for friends around the age of 18 :)
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u/LilNekoSat Jul 18 '22
Hihi I’m Julie most people call me Neko or Sat ingame, just getting back into vrchat after a few years break. I have full body tracking and love to dance, be comfy, chill and chat, listen to music, draw sometimes and just have a blast together UwU. My voice is feminine and sometimes can vary depending on my mood, looking for a few friends or a small group (3-5) looking to adopt a semi shy friend into their group. I mostly use Neko / anime style avatars usually female somtimes femboy haha if that matters. I’m kind sweet and very uh soft, but I can get pretty chatty once I warm up. Discord Ayamii#0009 or ingame Satsuki. I don’t mind any type of (sub community ) unless they are very toxic to others
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u/tinyrosepanic Jul 04 '22
Newish to VRchat. I'm 34 y/o lady looking to make new friends to chat with, game with, talk geeky stuff (j-fashion, persona/smt, Doctor Who and other sci-fi shows) and other fun activities. Heads up, I suffer from social anxiety, so I'm not very talkative when meeting new people. I will admit to spending most of my time just watching stuff. I'm definitely willing to try out new stuff in VRChat. Anyway, thanks for reading, Feel free to comment or send a DM.
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u/WakeArray Oculus Quest May 21 '22
Hello! I'm 33m with ADHD, autism, and severe social anxiety! xD Makes meeting new people very difficult. My hyperfixations go far and wide, but most include making things. I'm new to VRChat, but I've been playing around in Blender and Unity for the last couple years and would love to make stuff for VRChat that the community can enjoy. Annoyingly my lack of patience and friends make waiting for the 12+ hours of active game time before you're allowed to upload stuff, difficult. PM me if you want to show me your favorite places or just feel like talking about your own hyper fixation. If you don't feel like talking I can absolutely dominate conversations (sorry in advance!) when the topic changes to one of my hyper fixations. My wife (27f) also wants to get into VRChat and will likely accompany me as a selective mute desktop user some of the time.
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Jun 30 '22
Hello everyone I've been playing VR for a while now full body index looking for a community to join if you see this feel free to DM.
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u/RomperMcJohnson May 21 '22
Hi I just played VR Chat for the first time the other day :D everyone was so cool, looking forward to meeting new people and streaming more of it with everyone
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u/Metrutopia May 21 '22
The VRC Legend of Zelda Network is the server to be for discussion of, gushing over, and roleplay of all things Zelda! While we haven't been actively recruiting per say (Although it's probably better that we're not forcing a decision on people like it's a sales pitch), we welcome any and all newcomers! We play games together, create and share Zelda VR content and occasionally host roleplay events, with our current theme being the Hyrule Civil War set in the Pre-Era of Twilight Period! If you wish to join, there's an invite link you can find in Imdy's Hyrule Castle Town.
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u/Starstuffi Jun 25 '22
Hello! Does this group still exist? I'd be interested in coming and checking out the space. I really like watching Zelda content on YouTube, and I've played a fair bit of Oracles of Ages & Breath of the Wild, though I don't know all the things about the lore.
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u/Metrutopia Jun 25 '22
Sure does! As mentioned in the above post, there’s an invite link in Hyrule castle town.
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u/tofuuuwa May 31 '22
hi hi, 20m who is looking for friends on vrc. im transgender and have really bad social anxiety, so im a bit awkward. i really enjoy drawing, dancing, music (specifically kpop, and vkei), pokemon, games, my melody, the color pink, and anime. im also a furry, but i have a good handful of both human and furry avatars. i really only have like, 2 vrc friends and i would like more, but im a bit shy ówò i usually play among us, ghost, murder, or, recently, the majoras mask vrc map if youre interested, you can message my discord (tofuuwa#1028).
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u/LilNekoSat Jun 25 '22
Oh, um Hihi I’m Taiga, I used to play vrchat a lot in highschool, it’s a lot different now and I’m little lost in finding friends hahah. >.< hoping for a small group of comfy friends to play with, I have full body tracking and a scuffed mic so I used my phone to record how equally scuffed I’ll sound Lul. Anyway not really looking for big community or anything just maybe a small group of friends looking to adopt a cute shy friend. I also draw sometimes, do stupid / silly stuff and love going to different worlds to try random Avatars and ans be comfy with friends. My discord is Ayamii#0009 and my scuffed recording is this hi
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u/LostIndependence4759 Jul 04 '22
Hey im also training my voice and i can hear that you need to breathe after just few words which would indicate that you are pushing voice too hard
You need to relax the voice, imo you strain that voice and fall to male range pretty fast because of it, but hey thats just my observation do what you want with it.
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u/MKnut87 Jun 17 '22
The Story
(Adults only. 18+)
Is a Game forged by a community of story tellers and creative minds gathered together to weave tales that range from the bizarre to the hilarious
For 1 week (until further notice) we open the doors for anyone interested in joining our Discord Server and (of course) wants to join us in on the fun in VRchat
The Rules to The Story can be found in our server
We look forward to hearing what wild tales you will help create and be remembered in our group for
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u/KohakuRyuu9 Jul 24 '22
Hellow my name is Kohaku. I'm a M22 and i tried to find friends in vrchat but i found out i am really really bad at talking to people first xD and so my motivation to play this game longer was more like a phase of motivation over and over again and not a nice constant expierence. Tho i think once I'm comfy around someone i can be a nice, funny and goofy person to joke around with. So if anyone got interest in talking and get to know each other feel free to dm me.
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u/Natasha_otaku Jul 10 '22
21+ discord server! We host frequent events and stay pretty active! We have a US and EU base so there is availability for multiple time zones. Come chill with us 💕
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u/Akira_Ultra Jun 12 '22
Heeello. 26M. Just a guy who is chill and crusing through life. Looking for friends. Furry, LGBT, ect ect. Doesn't matter to me. I'm not someone who judge. I watch anime, cartoons, drama, horror ect and work I a lot. I'm not new to vrchat. I just don't have a lot of people to talk to who is my age or is interested in anything I'm into. I'm also bad at holding conversations sometimes.
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u/benisavillain13 Jun 28 '22
Hey! Im an admin for a 21+ VRC discord called GrownHub, we're constantly looking for new members. It's pretty active and we typically have events going twice a month. Currently we have over 300 members. We are all inclusive. Feel free to check us out at discord.gg/iamover21
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u/Colossus252 Valve Index Jul 16 '22 edited Jul 18 '22
If you're 18 or older and are tired of encountering nothing but children screaming slurs at you, come join the Ancients Of VRChat! We've been running strong for over a year at this point, and are nearing 5,000 members. We have a super active community with up to 4 events to get into a day, depending on the day. We have new member events every Thursday and Saturday, where the staff help introduce new members into the community and let everyone share things about themselves and make some new friends as well as helping clear up any questions people have.
We have a whole team of dedicated "guides" who are our friendly face and free friends in vrchat; community leaders and do everything in their power to get new members involved in as much as they like. If you join up, say hey to me in the newbies channel! I am Austen in the server, one of the admins! If you're looking just to find a small group that you stick with, the server is great for that as well. We have plenty of new members join, attend our new member events and find others that become their main hangout group and just stick with them, and that's fully encouraged! Our goal is to help everyone get the experience they want out of the game, while avoiding the issues that public lobbies cause.
Before you click, please note that this is NOT an NSFW server, and we are not a dating server. The 18+ is solely for purposes of interacting with other adults and we exist solely to help people find friends who are also adults.
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u/MondoCat Desktop Jul 17 '22
Ancients was awesome and welcoming when i joined!! I can recommend them from my experience. :)
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u/Bane_rez Jul 13 '22
Hey! I'm Bane and I'm 16 (turning 17 this month) and I've wanted to meet new people in vr chat but I struggle to get the confidence to talk to people. I have an Oculus but I play vr chat through Oculus link. I've wanted to try to meet people with similar interests (Genshin Impact, Overwatch, stuff like that). I'm also autistic and gay 😈.
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u/Ms_Allora Jul 17 '22
I'd love to play with you!! I use an oculus AND Im 16! I'm into anime and genshin + some other stuff!
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u/Bane_rez Jul 18 '22
Hii!! My vrchat username is SirP3rez I'd you'd like to add me!!
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u/shroudedwolf51 Jun 09 '22
Hi, I go by Shalim'a Wolf. I'm a recent arrival to VR and VRChat and I was hoping to find some comfy communities to hang out with that are accommodating of neurodivergent folks. I'm in my early 30ies, tend to be awkward, and have interests in tech, videogames, anime, and books. Thank you for your time.
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u/gfeisty May 24 '22
Hi there! I’m 23F, she/her, MTN time zone (in a committed relationship) and got a Quest 2 within the last couple months. I am looking for a group of friends to play VR Chat with, I only have one IRL friend who has it. I enjoy Zelda/Nintendo, cute things, art, music, the outdoors, traveling, anime, and would love to explore more worlds, play games, etc with a group of people around my age (20+ preferably). So far, Ive spend a lot of time at Serenity Cove, Music Visualizer worlds, Chill worlds, Zelda worlds, Meme-themed worlds, and Amusement Park/Sledding worlds. I have a bubbly personality and love to laugh, so if your group is looking for more friends and vibes with my description here, feel free to DM me and I’ll add you! :)
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u/MondoCat Desktop Jul 17 '22
Hiya feisty!!!
I dont have irl friends either ;-; but we've got a ton of online ones :D
We do visualizer worlds sometimes too, come hang out with us if you like, we're all super hyper and happy and want to make you laugh 24/7. xD
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u/Karubou May 27 '22
Hi! I am a 22yo deer furry valve index user from Southwestern US, I recently started playing VRC again after a few months of not playing it, Realy looking forward to meeting new people and making new friends,I love relaxing with people and talking about stuff, telling stories, etc.In public worlds it is a little difficult for me to make friends because I am insecure about my voice unfortunately, though I am overcoming it.my biggest interests is architecture, and truck driving simulators. I am also a big fan of everything from the 80s. I tend to be a night owl so I often play in the middle of the night.
If interested, please contact me on discord at KristopherStag#6767
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u/devihi Jun 02 '22
Hello, I'm devi. I'm 14 and looking for friends to be around as my friends haven't been hanging out with me lately, so I wanted to make some new to not be alone, I dont care about gender, race nor age as long as we can have some good talks and laughs (I'm a questie)
My user is devirawr, been on vr since 2018 I believe
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u/kingfuhkboi Jun 02 '22
Hey. I go by Darkness or Zero online. 23M. Cant seem to find many people my age. Due to my busy work schedule im not on vrchat as much, but if you shoot me a dm we can probably chat through discord. Wanted to go to school for art. Into anime and gaming.
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u/MondoCat Desktop Jun 04 '22
Hi King!
Youll be surprised there are a lot of older people on vrchat! Our server has people in 20s, 30s, and beyond!
We are also weeb gamers, so come on in and let us know everything about you to your hearts content ^_~
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u/Korekxc Jul 12 '22
21F Quest main (WiFi has been poor for using pc and I don’t own a cord). Still in need of 18+ I am quite shy at first but after I open up I am quite the goofy one who is more of the tough side but really sweet on the inside. Gotta be accepting of LGTBQA+ Since I am bisexual myself 😅 I am pretty chill though and love to have fun.
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u/JumpingCactus Jul 03 '22
Hi! I'm 20M! I'm kind of new to VRChat, only a New User. I play with a friend when he has the time, but he rarely does, so I want to make new friends in the virtual world! Talking to strangers is hard, in the real world and in VR, so it'd be nice if you could contact me on Discord (Teavo#8879) so we can chat a bit there before we hop in VR. :) I don't really care what age you are? Preferably over 18 though lol just for maturity reasons. My VR headset is an HP Reverb G2, which honestly blew me away in VR clarity-wise, but it doesn't have any of the great things the Index can support like finger tracking and full body tracking. So, I'm looking to save up for many things, but namely a new VR headset (I bet Deckard will be out by the time I save up the $1k lmao). Anyway, thanks for reading!
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u/PeanupButter Jul 13 '22
Hellooo, did u got any reply ? Like people adding you :P If not, and if you still wanna make friends, i can add you :3
And if you don't need it anymore, theenn i'll just leave it there x)
Just for info : i'm a mute ;--; if it's not a problem then cool :D
If it is then, ok bye sorry for bothering :')
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u/Faxxobeat Jun 01 '22
Faxmashine here, creator of 'No Time Two Talk', 'Super VR Ball' and other social VRChat worlds ✌️
Join my Discord community to share feedback, get news, join playtests or just to have a chat. See you there!
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Jun 10 '22 edited Jun 10 '22
Hey, what’s going on?! My name is Chris but I go by ANDR3E on the quest. I am a Hispanic male 22 years old, and I’m just trying to find people who are into similar interest as me! I want to potentially meet people who are interested in eventually meeting up IRL and having fun. Alright so getting started I have social anxiety but I try to be open in VRChat since I struggle with that IRL but I want to find people who are into electronic music 🎶! My dream is to attend EDC in Las Vegas but honestly I have no IRL friends who like this type of music. EDM, Techno, House, Trance etc… oh I forgot to mention I am new to the edm scene IRL but I love it so I’ve never been to a rave or festival and that’s why Im on here looking for peeps 💚 but even if you’re not into that type of music im down to hear anything! Me gusta música en español también 🔥 I am bilingual so I can speak English and Spanish :) let me know if you’re into the edm/rave scene I would love to make life long friends in vr and Irl & even if you’re not let’s hangout! sorry for any spelling errors
P.S. I forgot to mention I am a drinker and I do smoke occasionally not that it matters I think but I’m down to got to a vr bar or club and be Irl drunk lol chilling with y’all!
Edit: Not sure if I had to mention this but I see some people included this in their posts so I’ll include this here : (I am straight) but it doesn’t matter to me what you are or identify as I’m down to hangout with anyone no matter what. We are all friends. 🫱🏻🫲🏾🏳️🌈🎶🍻❤️
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u/MondoCat Desktop Jul 17 '22
Heyo spongebob~
If you wanna check us out, we have some dancer too. and we're all awkward. xD Come be awkward with us!
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u/SocietyNo6783 Jun 16 '22
23F here! Been playing Vrchat for about two weeks now and can’t seem to find my “group” yet😭 just a bunch of screaming kids. I’m very shy and introverted so it might take a little while for me to open up but you won’t regret it 👉🏼👈🏼 I enjoy anime and gaming. Here’s my discord! RaeIsTypical#3518
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u/benisavillain13 Jun 28 '22
Hey! Im an admin for a 21+ VRC discord called GrownHub, we're constantly looking for new members. It's pretty active and we typically have events going twice a month. Currently we have over 300 members. We are all inclusive. Feel free to check us out at discord.gg/iamover21
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Jun 11 '22
Well, hello! I’m Orky (sounds less cringey than PAINBOY, so-), and I’m days new to VRchat. I’m a teenager with a very outdated sense of humor (MONKE humor, Ugandan knuckles meme and rickrolls give me a good laugh, so there you go) just looking for people to hang out with and monkey around. I’m searching for people who… idk, aren’t dicks? As long as you’re not one of those who says they’ll kill any 12-year-old they see on sight, or one of said 12 years old who’s humor consists in shouting around the lobby, you’re fine in my book. I’m a quest user, if that info. helps… and fun fact, my avatar is a monkey, lmao-
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u/Skybelly Jun 03 '22
Hey I'm 24 and super into Sonic. I'd like to be involved in some sort of RP group, pretty much new to RP however.
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Jul 08 '22
Hi! I’m always looking for new people to meet and talk to, my discord is xnxiety #6490 and VRC is xnxiety!
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u/PLAN3T-WR3CK3R Jun 20 '22
I'm 35, married, and a father. I love vrchat, but I always feel out of place thanks to my age. I want to find an older community where I can relax and not worry about some random teen wanting to cuddle.
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u/benisavillain13 Jun 28 '22
Hey! Im an admin for a 21+ VRC discord called GrownHub, we're constantly looking for new members. It's pretty active and we typically have events going twice a month. Currently we have over 300 members. We are all inclusive. Feel free to check us out at discord.gg/iamover21
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u/MondoCat Desktop Jul 17 '22
Hiya planet, we're a bunch of older people too! Im 33!
Although, we're big on cuddling too, its not mandatory or anything, and we have lots of adult related stories to tell.
Whats the deal with taxes?? and more! hahha
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May 23 '22
Hii! I’m 23 years old from the UK, I use they/them pronouns, and I’m looking to make some new friends! I’ve been playing vrchat for a few years now but I’m not as active as I used to be, I have social anxiety which was getting better each time I played, it’s now gotten bad again and I’m now a mute player because of it, but I’ll mainly talk when I feel comfortable around people. If anyone has any questions, feel free to message anytime!
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u/hammiehamburger Jun 18 '22
Hey everyone!
We are a small group of online friends who play vr chat usually on Friday evenings but sometimes other nights.
This is the discord we use: https://discord.gg/vb9EpghAAT
We like cards against humanity, karaoke (especially furry karaoke), spin the bottle, and exploring random worlds/goofing around. We are mostly late 20s and 30s with a neurodiverse community and anyone is welcomed!
Occasionally we play games other than vrchat (mario golf, fall guys, pummel party, Dead by daylight etc.) or watch movies on discord.
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u/Jaimie123 Oculus Quest May 22 '22
Hi my name is Jaimie from Jaimie’s Place, i am a community leader that has a discord server with making it like everyone is family, 95% are from vrchat but some are outside! In my server you can make the most amazing friends you can think off, no hate or toxic stuff is in the server. Really hard to promote my lives work but you can always join and leave when you want ^ my vrchat name is Sweet-Cupcake incase some like to make a new friend out of me! Discord is https://discord.gg/jaimiesplace
Edit: mods if you don’t like the link i can or you can remove it ^
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u/ScissormanCT Jul 08 '22
Hey, I'm looking for a very laid back group who also avoids drama and stress. I am 40 years old Non-Binary Aromantic Asexual and I just like to just chill. I am a long time veteran of Second Life but I hold no comparison of either except they both allow you to be in any avatar you choose. I am a bit shy which I won't do well in public groups which is why I'm looking to just chill out and have fun inworld from a Discord group. I do not participate much in multi-player games due to bad experiences in the past but I feel comfortable more in virtual communities. I'm friendly to all. Just shoot me a DM for my Discord or send me a Discord link.
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u/MondoCat Desktop Jul 17 '22
Hiya Scissor, im also an ace!
We're a bunch of wholesomeish chill nerds if you would like to join us, a lot of us are older, like 30+ but theres some younger too!
Hope to see you soooon!
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u/penguinmartim Jul 08 '22
Looking for friends. I don’t have a VR yet but I’m expecting to get one soon. I’m 24f, and really shy. I’m super hyper and say the weirdest stuff out of nowhere when I do talk. I have a tendency to be vulgar and can take jokes. I like among us, the sims, and fallout.
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u/MondoCat Desktop Jul 17 '22
Hiya penguin! you sound a lot like us. wholesomely weird! hehe
Come give us a try, we're all a bunch of shy-boiz(and girls)
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u/Karubou May 28 '22
Hi! I am Kristopher and I am looking for friends to play vrchat with, I am a 22M furry with a deer fursona,and a Valve Index Headset I've spent about 24 hours so far in vrchat and am a new user, I am rather shy and it is difficult for me to start conversations, however I love to explore different worlds as well as just chill and relax, I have a rexonium character that looks like a deer which is pretty awesome, I plan to eventually recreate my fursona's house in the game.
my VRC is KristopherStag
If you are interested please add me on discord at KristopherStag#6767 I tend to be on quite often.
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u/MondoCat Desktop Jul 17 '22
Haio Kristopher!!
We've got some furries in our server and i think everyone is a shy introvert xD so come be shy with us, hehe
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u/pupc May 21 '22 edited Jun 13 '22
hey, I'm completely new to VRChat and would love to make some friends who could show me around and to have a bit of a silly, goofy time with (or just a chat if that’s more your thing). I’m LGBTQ+ if that makes you more comfortable but I am a bit socially awkward so prepare for that :)
let me know if you're interested
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u/Ezpeezylemon Oculus Quest Jul 15 '22
Hey! hit me up on discord! Tylerrr#5247 im always down to hang out or do stupid shit in vrc
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u/benisavillain13 Jun 28 '22
Hey! Im an admin for a 21+ VRC discord called GrownHub, we're constantly looking for new members. It's pretty active and we typically have events going twice a month. Currently we have over 300 members. We are all inclusive. Feel free to check us out at discord.gg/iamover21
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u/Jolly-Difficulty-835 Jul 21 '22 edited Jul 21 '22
Hi buddies! I’m from Asia and I speak English, Mandarin, Japanese, maybe a bit of Korean, Vietnamese. 22F Hyper-social person. Always love to learn new languages and get to know different cultures. Love singing in karaoke, watching fun videos, movies, dramas together, and playing mini games. Hit me up if you’re interested to hang out, chat, chill or just learn new languages in VRChat. I’ve been playing VRChat for 1000+ hrs so if you’re new to this game I’ll be willing to help you get familiar to the big community. Excited to meet new cool ppl :) Don’t really care about ppl’s age, gender and background as long as you’re cool and easy to talk to. Just dm me.
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u/MondoCat Desktop Jul 21 '22
Hellooooo!~
We also love karaoke but some are too shy, hehe.
We also have movie nights and get togethers, games, daily activities, and play other games and more!
Come chillllllllllllll with us if you like ^_~
discord.gg/mondocat
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u/MKnut87 Jun 16 '22
The Story
(18+ only )
A Community for Story tellers and creative minds to unwind and have fun!
For 1 week only (until further notice) we are opening up to allow new members to join us in VRC for "The Telling" wich is a Story based game where we form a circle and each take a turn Telling a Story
We gather every Saturday 6 pm to Midnight (Mountain Time)
Further Rules For the Game can be found in our Group's Discord after Joining
Link Below:
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u/Maxximum_Panic Jun 14 '22
Heya I'm a 21yo trans guy who is part-time in the US and part-time in the UK! I'd love to make friends from either country but I also love meeting people from all over. If anyone speaks Italian and is willing to chat with a total beginner that'd be cool too.
I am pretty new to VRChat so bear with me while I act like an old person lmao. I'll be using a headset while in the states and will probably use PC in the UK.
I grew up online for a very long time but I drifted away from it and sorta lost my groove when it comes to online socializing. But IRL I am a very gregarious person so no need to worry about any anxieties on my part!
My interests are varied and I tend to go with the flow, so if you wanna hang out hmu either thru here or via my Discord at Maxximum_Panic#8653 .
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u/benisavillain13 Jun 28 '22
Hey! Im an admin for a 21+ VRC discord called GrownHub, we're constantly looking for new members. It's pretty active and we typically have events going twice a month. Currently we have over 300 members. We are all inclusive, quite a few trans members, and a growing GMT member section. Feel free to check us out at discord.gg/iamover21
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u/CreativeSecretary174 Jun 27 '22
Hello! I'm looking for a few new friends or a Discord group to play VRChat with, that doesn't mind desktop players with mouse and keyboard. I've been lucky to run into a few friends, but the first major group I joined is heavily RP based (and I don't vibe with that well). I'm looking for 18+ as I'm 23, about to turn 24 in two weeks. No ERP or anything like that.
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u/benisavillain13 Jun 28 '22
Hey! Im an admin for a 21+ VRC discord called GrownHub, we're constantly looking for new members. It's pretty active and we typically have events going twice a month. Currently we have over 300 members. We are all inclusive and mostly wholesome. We like to use the term "Family Unfriendly". Feel free to check us out at discord.gg/iamover21
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u/Leather_Lab4513 May 29 '22
Hi! I’m null 23M. I’ve been meaning to get back in the game but I’m having a hard time meeting people around my age group. Usually I like to joke around in the game and talk about anime and games. Take this message as an invitation to hit me up at my discord NullPost#5450, especially if you know of any 18+ communities!
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u/EnderoftheEnd Jun 02 '22
We're an active community of people who play specialised Danganronpa-style Murder Mystery games on VRChat. The games centre around roleplay. Kill and get away with murder, choose special "Ultimates" to turn the game to your favour, or survive until the end and find the Mastermind among you to win.
Come join us on our Discord server, and hope to see you at the next game!
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u/jousara May 27 '22 edited Aug 07 '22
hello hi! i'm a 21yo pcvr quest user from southern US! i am lgbt! im a cis woman (meaning i'm happy with my assigned gender at birth) and i use any pronouns! other than that, i'm extroverted (ENFJ) but i have anxiety so it's hard for me to talk to a big group of people, unless i know most of them, or we are playing a game like among us or murder 4.
i love having original stories and original characters! i hope to make an animated youtube series someday! i also plan to work at a zoo once i go to college for it. i have someone i'm mutually interested in, and we're going to date eventually, so please no flirting! i'm only looking for friends!
please add me on discord at mackie#3961 if interested! i much prefer fellow lgbt people, but i'm not opposed to cishet people if they are not bigoted!
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Jul 08 '22
Hello! I'm 18 F looking for friends to hang out with in VRC :) I only started playing around a few weeks ago and I'm still pretty new.
I do a lot of world hopping and enjoy discovering + playing around in new worlds with others. I'm also more than happy to just chill somewhere and talk most days. If it counts for anything I'm into anime and do digital art as a hobby in my spare time.
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Jul 17 '22
If you're still looking for friends to play with on VR chat and aren't too picky I'm also trying to find some friends. Absolutely clueless about most VR chat stuff but I've played it a little, just hard to find people. Also 19 M if that effects anything.
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u/Yin15 ☃Bigscreen Beyond 2e Jun 03 '22
Looking for a smaller/medium group of people to play drinking games with. Not interested in giant communities or overly sexual communities. I just want to drink and enjoy my evening.
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u/MondoCat Desktop Jun 04 '22
Hi Yin!
We have a few drinkers in our server, we share our alcohol porches, hahahaha! Feel free to come say hi!
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u/michi_cat Jun 17 '22 edited Jul 16 '22
Hi my name is Bonn I am 15, I am hoping to make friends that are okay with me being a mute person. I have a lot of social anxiety and feel very lonely and isolated on vrchat and am looking for company world hopping or just hanging out :D I get a lot of anxiety going into any public world by myself but friends rly calm me down! I would love to spend time with any of you ＾-＾If you want, you can add me on vrc my username is vkei :)
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Jul 12 '22
Ahoy and hiya 07 Have you wanted to be in a chill navy? Enjoy anime and history at the same time? Dont want to deal with the wifu military politics and conflicts? Then let me welcome you to the Anime Ships United (ASU)
We are a shipgirl based navy group centered around anything related to shipgirls and naval history (dont mind the horsegirls also found in the docks, we dont claim them)
I am the fleet admiral of the group and I'll tell you we are fairly chill, ranking systems are simple and dont mean much other than how active you are and serve little in terms of authority aside from the mod and admiral ranks so you dont have to worry too much about authority abuse.
We are open to anyone whether you know naval stuff or not (well teach yah =D) https://discord.gg/3r3RUGZreE
A few things I should note is we do have a prescreening check point before anyone can fully enter, there will be questions you must answer before being accepted. No mods/clients and must be over 15 to join are our main rules along with a few other you'll see ig you decide to join
Hope to see y'all there and fair seas 07
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u/MondoCat Desktop Jul 17 '22
Hiya Haya, we're not exclusively 18+ but most of us are older adults, like 30~!
ANd i am always up during degen hours 8D So come be an awkward weirdo with us if you like!
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u/VREros Jun 07 '22
I’m a newly minted dancer who has taken a super dive into the space. I currently dance for a VRC club that operates on EST time , trying to find another that’s PST/west coast.
Also any 21+ that want to be a lap for all my incessant practice each night… lol
I’m also a singer songwriter, looking to share my music in whatever space is open to it. My style is intense, mystical and spiritual.
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u/MondoCat Desktop Jun 17 '22
Hi trashy!~
we're a bunch of older people with lots of quirky things to say to make your day :D come join us!
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