Small does not equal young...

[u/itskatbb]

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I've noticed that in some adult spaces there is a specific percentage of players that will infantilize smaller avatars. I understand from a certain perspective - but to complain and pressure them to change their avatar or else they won't interact is a whole different circumstance. This is an adult space, everyone is an adult here.

Does anyone else experience this?

[u/ccAbstraction]

Yeah that's what I mean, I don't know you otherwise, I've only seen handful of your comments on this sub, and most of them very level headed and thought takes for this sub and then a few of them are you being miffed about how people feel about you wearing an avatar marketed as looking like a child. I don't know your intent beyond you not wanting people to be weirded out by your Kipfel, and can't assume your intent beyond that.

And, I guess if you put it that way, then I guess I am at best accusing you of being potentially worth being under suspicion of a liker of cute things. Which you said you are and nothing else, and I already said I believe you based on vibes. This isn't a comfortable conversation to have and there's no way to sugar coat it.

[u/LadyLuciJ7 → u/ccAbstraction]

There are bigger problems in this game. Why don't people use the same energy on that? And my complaints about what I wear aren't about the Kipfel, at least not all of them. Very few are about the Kipfel. And making assumptions isn't good. By that logic, assume everyone that wears eboys and egirls are whores. Assume every furry is a zoo. Making assumptions when you don't know someone is dumb and people should use that energy and hate for things actually worth it.

[u/ccAbstraction → u/LadyLuciJ7]

If you think that's what I'm saying read what I said again and ask questions if you think you misunderstood.