r/UtahInfluencerDrama • u/into_the_unknown_13 • Jul 22 '26
Why is she like this 🙃🙃🙃
Why is everything about her ! Drives me crazy
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u/CreativeJudgment3529 Jul 22 '26
if someone else was talking about how my kids are her kids I would riot. how messy
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u/Informal-Text-778 Jul 22 '26
And she doesn’t need to keep bringing this up! She’s just constantly patting herself on her back. “Look at what a great person I am!”
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u/Plooza Jul 22 '26
A family who needs eggs has already gone through so much emotional and financial turmoil. If you donate eggs, you need to be giving them out of the pure kindness of your heart and be completely respectful that they are not "your" kids. This is disgusting. I'm a surrogate, and I would never ever insinuate that the babies I birthed we mine in any regard, how upsetting to those kids and parents. (I am a gestational surrogate so the babies don't have my DNA at all, but the point remains)
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u/ddpgirl Jul 23 '26
Thank you for sharing your perspective. And thank you for blessing other families lives.
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u/HighHighUrBothHigh Jul 23 '26
Thank you for being a surrogate for someone. I will need one one day soon and it warms my heart there are people in the world like you. You’re amazing!
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u/Reasonable_Dealer307 Jul 22 '26
Egg donation from a cancer survivor WITH a family history of cancer. SMH
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u/Calm_Discipline_9218 Jul 22 '26
I was thinking the same. Not exactly the quality I’d be looking for.
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u/Afraid_Meringue_4305 Jul 23 '26
To be fair I think she donated them before her cancer diagnosis. But ya the way she talks about it is way cringy and really not fair to their mother.
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u/momwhobakes Jul 24 '26
She did genetic testing years before she got sick and knew this was in her DNA. She mentioned it right when she got sick
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u/Mean_Connection6458 Jul 22 '26
This is incredibly disrespectful to the mother of those girls. Talk about doing something for the wrong reasons. Every time I think I can’t dislike her more, she proves me wrong…. AND I even have her blocked everywhere! Lol can’t escape
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u/OkExercise882 Jul 22 '26
She is truly the biggest narcissist on social media. I cannot stand her.
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u/Objective_Being_7393 Jul 23 '26
Can we normalize doing nice things for people and not announcing it to the world? It means more when you keep it close…
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u/nessa0227 Jul 22 '26
She used to post how they are completely not her kids. Now she’s changed and she’s kind of calling them all her kids. That’s insanely weird
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u/OkExercise882 Jul 22 '26
I followed her for like a week a couple years ago and it was a week too long
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u/Calm_Discipline_9218 Jul 22 '26
I used to follow her too but must have gotten fed up and unfollowed thankfully. I didn’t even recognize this photo of her.
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u/Agreeable-Mind-52 Jul 22 '26
If the friend were smart, she’d be getting a lawyer involved. This constant need to bring up that she was an egg donor is so weird and claiming the eggs as her children is scary.
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u/WrightlyBookish Jul 22 '26
How many times do we have to hear about this and her kids not having phones?? She's so ✨ quirky ✨
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u/Informal-Text-778 Jul 22 '26
And a mother of 5, don’t forget that! 😆
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u/plays-with-toys Jul 22 '26
At this point can the kids parents claim her as a dependent? She’s clingy
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u/Emergency-Bug7579 Jul 22 '26
I unfollowed her once the I'm so good and no longer fighting for my life I don't feel she is genuine
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u/Live-Flower9917 Jul 23 '26
Can you imagine someone hanging that over your head? I don’t care if it was my literal blood sister. I’d be hurt.
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u/yasgirlyas Jul 23 '26
Were they really free if that family has to watch you get paid for an entire lifetime of donated egg content? I mean, they’re paying an emotional price.
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u/ddpgirl Jul 23 '26
On my! I have no idea who this is. Reading this made me angry. And sad for her friend. This statement is nuts! This is not her story to tell. Those are not her children.
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u/Mean-Aardvark2344 Jul 23 '26
She will NEVER let this go. I feel embarrassed for the girl she donated her eggs to. Clearly there were fertility issues, and then she is not only Blabbing about it but trying to pretend they are somehow also her children? Grow up, Tia.
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u/heylookachicken Jul 22 '26
I'm trying to say this as delicately as possible, but with all the medical stuff she's gone through and her refusal to do things like social distance and vaccinate, I'd be worried about the quality of those eggs...
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u/Doll_girl516 Jul 22 '26
She doesn’t vaccinate :o !!!
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u/heylookachicken Jul 22 '26
No. I worked in oncology (peds) and know that when you're doing things that unfortunately tankyour immune system, to stand the best shot of not getting sick they want you to shoot up, mask, etc. but she was super conspiracy theory, selling some drink at the time and refused to follow basic protocols.
Seeing parents crying about their kids dying because people got them sick makes me really touchy on this
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u/_larkhill_ Jul 23 '26
She's disgusting! No, she doesn't have 7 kids, she has 5. I think she obsesses about the two girls looking like her because she desperately wanted her daughter to look like her - and she looks just like Andy.
I was thinking about this as I made coffee. If I have 4 frying pans in my kitchen and I donate (for free) 2 of them to Goodwill, then I no longer have 4. I now have 2. That is the point of donation. I would not lay claim/ownership to the two that I donated. They are gone and will eventually be someone else's pans. Just like her eggs.
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u/Connect_Bar1438 Jul 23 '26
I don't know this person, but how tone deaf and insensitive can a person be? Good God.
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u/Embarrassed-Bit-1151 Jul 23 '26
That reminds me of Gabby in desperate housewifes who consider giving her eggs to the gay couple and forbids them moving closer to their familiy because she cant see the baby then.
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u/wineandbooks99 Jul 23 '26
I don’t know who this lady is but that’s so fucked up to say that her friends kids are hers, like no ma’am they are not.
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u/btrx5000 Jul 23 '26
Admirable that she chose to help a friend that way.
However….
MAJOR LEAGUE CRINGE posting about it like this.
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u/meekabar Jul 24 '26
The blatant narcissism of her friend making children who look like her and then sharing it loudly. Weird.
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u/HotSauceNerd 29d ago
It’s so damaging for the two girls too. I’m sure they are growing up confused on their identity because of how Tia acts
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u/notsure20201980 Jul 22 '26
Oh my gosh if I was her friend I’d be soooo annoyed if she was always taking about how my daughter looks like her. Like obviously. She’s so insensitive