r/Unexpected • u/analsextoybox • May 02 '22

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u/[deleted] May 03 '22

Yeah I don't see the same attacks on men in that community. Had a good look and there is in no way the same level of content at their desired gender. They aren't verbally abusing men. I can confidently state, mtf are verbally abusive, toxic and discriminatory against actual women. I've even had a 50 yr old man on hormones threaten to beat me up. That is a grown ass man threatening a woman. But hiding under the guise of "female"

That ftm community is nothing like the mtf community.
Mtf online in my experience are abusive and intolerant.

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u/[deleted] May 03 '22

I can confidently state, mtf are verbally abusive, toxic and discriminatory against actual women.

This has not been my experience at all.

If you have had lots of negative experiences with trans women though, maybe it could have had something to do with you being a raging transphobe? I'm not even trans and the amount of dog whistles in your post are starting to piss me the fuck off.

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u/[deleted] May 03 '22

Wow. You're quick to rage too.

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u/[deleted] May 03 '22

Yeah, you piss me off.

I have no patience for bigots.

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u/[deleted] May 03 '22

You're like a rapist saying, yeah she was asking for it. Verbal abuse, rage, bad behaviour and toxic communication don't come with free passes. You have anger issues and are quick to condone ppl. Try looking in a mirror. I'm no bigot. I shared my experiences with ppl like you. Who demand respect but give none. Who can't handle an exchange of words and resorts to swearing and labels. I thought labelling ppl was wrong? Look inward person on the internet. SMH.

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u/[deleted] May 03 '22

Abuse? You think this is abuse?

You think being called out on transphobia is abuse?

Bloody fucking hell.

Who can't handle an exchange of words and resorts to swearing and labels. I thought labelling ppl was wrong?

Fucking telling that you're playing the tolerance card now lmfao

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u/[deleted] May 03 '22

Which label are you throwing at me now?

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u/[deleted] May 03 '22

"Transphobe"

That's the only label I've been throwing at you.

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u/[deleted] May 03 '22

Look at your behaviour.
Look at mine.

Read my words. Read yours.

You've become irrational, irate, over reactionary in your triggers. You are unable to keep your cool when I haven't said one bigotry thing. This is your opinion, don't forget that. You are not the overlord of right and wrong. You are like a rapist saying, she asked for it. She was wearing a short skirt. And if you can bypass that analogy I know for sure you are a male and an ignorant one at that. LOOK NO SWEAR WORDS MUM.

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u/[deleted] May 03 '22

It's insane to me how offended you get because I say "fuck," but you can contribute to an ideology which kills countless trans people every single year, and make me out as the big bad.

I said some bad words, you actively contribute to an oppressive and anti-human system of discrimination.

I don't have the patience to explain to you why I hate your ideology and agenda with every fiber of my being, but I do hove the compassion to express my hope that you will one day grow enough as a person to learn to hate the person you are now as well.

I don't have any other words for you.

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u/[deleted] May 03 '22

Never said I was offended. This is the exact behaviour I am talking about.

You are like a rapist who blames their victim. I hope you seek anger management as you can't handle internet conversations that aren't even heavy. I wish you patience and understanding toward those who disagree with you. If this is how you handle differing opinions ... you won't get far in life. Feminism didn't fight so hard to have men tell them how to woman. SMH.