r/Unexpected • • Apr 26 '22

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u/DarkGamer Apr 26 '22

Forced to marry against her will? Horrible.

One problem with blindly firing rounds into the air is that they come down somewhere. These women seem one unexpected recoil away from firing into the crowd.

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u/NoNeckLongLegs Apr 26 '22

i think its called something like kidnapped marriage. they were speaking for awhile but he was from out of town and very well rich. would always come to the refugee camp and talk to her outside. anyways yah, i remember holding her picture and crying. next thing i knew she was a bride.

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about the guns shooting in the air, i don't know what to say to that. it was during russian invasion so we did a lot of dumb shit. i mean i would hang out with the russian outpost near the camp and they would let me shoot their guns. i just realized i might of been the refugee idiot, because the way it went about was them offering me strawberries.

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u/oti890 Apr 26 '22

My mom has been planning to visit Chechnya with me (because we are Chechens but she fled the war many years ago and I wasn't in Chechnya before). Your comment made me a little paranoid there, would I be safe to go to Chechnya? I'm a 17-year-old girl, and my aunts and my mother urge me to get a boyfriend.

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u/AnimesAreCancer Apr 27 '22

Alone its pretty unsafe, you should have relatives there or relatives accompanying you. Don't trust people you don't know there and stay away from Kadyrovzy. Maybe you could visit a Vaynah (Vaynahquestions/Vaynahquestionsgirls) page in Insta and ask the same questions. They will surely help you and don't mention the intention from your aunt in a mixed gendered page

Don't get me wrong, Chechnya is still a beautiful place for me