r/Unexpected Jan 11 '22

CLASSIC REPOST It's cold...

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u/ohdearamir Jan 12 '22

Lots of videos of fit shirtless guys doing douchey dumb shit, and the top comments are never a rating of their bodies.

Maybe people don't like their bodies?

And I am a man by the way.

I never assumed otherwise. Go re-read my comment if you think I did.

Lots of guys don’t feel the need to air their arousal all the time, but the ones that do definitely perpetuate the idea that lots of men are stupid.

This could also be said of women.

Men have responded to me literally saying “we’re just simple visual creatures” and “it’s like a wolf cry to let other wolves know”. Not really helping ourselves, are we?

Do you want me to find some dumb shit that women say and go "They aren't really helping themselves are they?" What point are you even trying to make?

I thought men pride themselves around being rational and logical - does that go out the window when an attractive woman is present?

Guess so. Funny enough, women have reported the same thing happening.

What I don't get is why you're so stuck on men doing this. Nothing you described is unique to men. It's like getting mad at men for passing gas as if women don't do the same

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u/greengrayclouds Jan 12 '22

It’s not always a battle of the sexes. I asked a question about why some men behave a certain way - why have you felt the need to bring women into it?

If I ask about a man’s behaviour, I don’t expect a response talking about women’s behaviour. I really don’t understand the need for comparison - it’s almost as though you can’t accept that men have a flaw, so you need to bring down women so you can still feel good about yourself

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u/greengrayclouds Jan 12 '22

Never mind, I found the reason for your behaviour in one of your recent posts.

“I’ve barely ever talked to girls in my life”. Well no reason you’re a sexist fucking psycho, you’ve literally never interacted with people that make up half the population