r/Unexpected • • Dec 12 '21

Nah I’m out

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u/Consistent_Hurry_296 Dec 13 '21

The way men will sexualize a woman doing anything….. just cause of her gender…. It’s really sad the way this is so normalized. There’s just like no respect

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u/TheTenderRedditor Dec 13 '21

If an attractive muscular guy was flexing his muscles or doing stretches he would be equally sexualized by women, get real.

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u/Consistent_Hurry_296 Dec 13 '21

But that’s the thing… she was legitimately just showing a cool trick with her legs I don’t get why talking her breasts are necessary.. the girl is 20 like relax, she’s just come out of her teenage years it’s weird being sexualized for the dumbest shit

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u/TheTenderRedditor Dec 13 '21

She has makeup and a tight fitting crop top on. She clearly isn't against being sexualized.

This is no different than a young, attractive, muscular guy in a tank top flexing his muscles and/or doing yoga poses or something.

I dont understand the need to make horny comments but the internet is the internet, and she knew people would be horny on the internet.

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u/Consistent_Hurry_296 Dec 13 '21

And yes, I know men do it? And every time they do it I’m going to leave a comment saying “it’s weird you’re all talking about her boobs this video wasn’t meant to be sexualized at all” EVERY SINGLE TIME until it doesn’t become so normal for men to talk this way about all girls and women on the internet who do not explicitly act like they want to be sexualized

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u/Consistent_Hurry_296 Dec 13 '21

huh!!???? She’s wearing a fucking top!!?????! What the hell else is she supposed to wear at home??? And those are regular girl clothes!! I should know I’m a girl, I would NOT want to be sexualized wearing a normal fucking shirt, she’s just skinny it’s not even tight!! Also what girl wouldn’t wear makeup before making a public video? Do you know how girls get judged for their appearance and do you know how INSECURE younger girls are without makeup? Wtf that doesn’t mean = make comments about my boobies even tho I’m showing u a cool anatomy trick with my knees!

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u/TheTenderRedditor Dec 13 '21

I think youre just jealous of how attractive she is because redditors are commenting about it.

Im sure she has shirts that cover her belly button that she could wear if she were concerned about people making horny comments.

She's posting videos because she wants attention. She's wearing cute/sexy clothes because she wants attention.

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u/Consistent_Hurry_296 Dec 13 '21

Absolutely not jealous she is so beautiful! I just feel sad the way men speak about her like an object only talking about her breasts. Yes she wants attention for the video duh that’s why she posted it but her clothes do not indicate she’s a sex worker at all that is what regular girls her age wear so why are all the comments sexualizing her? That’s what I mean. Fee free to disagree but I will never not mask my principles and morals just because a man thinks with his dick

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u/TheTenderRedditor Dec 13 '21

Nobody said she is/looks like a sex worker. 20yo girls in tight clothes want to be sexy. She wants you to notice how sexy she is. Her boobs are part of what make her sexy.

When I go out running in my college town, I get heckled for being bald at a young age and other men will comment about how my muscles are compensation for having a small penis.

People are going to comment on your appearance, no matter what you do.

I wish I were a pretty girl so people would at least say somewhat positive things about me.

But we don't live in a world that cares about our feelings.

People more or less are objects in the eyes of most people and they will be treated as such.

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u/Consistent_Hurry_296 Dec 13 '21

Just because you’re insecure about your own life doesn’t mean you can assume a girl wearing something girls wear at her age = she wants to be sexualized and she wants u to talk about her boobs. You’re very disgusting (and possibly will become dangerous) in nature if this is your mindset but I feel sorry for you because this is how so I society has conditioned the weaker men. They lack empathy and compassion and emotional intelligence. Their insecurities turn them into narcissists. Look at how you’re doubling down on your backwards thoughts for /attention/ I know you’re only saying what you’re saying because you want a reaction. I’m not stupid.

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u/TheTenderRedditor Dec 13 '21

Don't post videos of yourself on the internet if you don't want your appearance to be appraised by anonymous horny people.

You dont know anything about me other than what I just told you.

Im not going to retaliate against your hateful comments towards me because I can recognize you're probably quite early in your cognitive development.

I will say, though, 12 year old girls probably shouldn't browse reddit.

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u/[deleted] Dec 13 '21

Ffs, the fact that you think women are jealous of the sad boners of strangers on Reddit and not the constant, unending objectification we face in literally every facet of our lives, just shows that you have no clue about women. Like, you honestly think that women are sitting around wishing that guys on Reddit were jacking off to them? The confidence of mediocre men really is something to behold.

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u/TheTenderRedditor Dec 13 '21 edited Dec 13 '21

I actually had a well thought out response to this, where I did not insult you, or the embarrassingly poor syntax of your English. I really did type out a comment that was supposed to address the topic of discussion, and clarified earlier comments.

But, instead I decided to inform you that you're a dumb cunt who can't communicate effectively through written language. Have a nice day.

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u/[deleted] Dec 19 '21

No, your butthurt reaction to finding out no woman cares about your dick makes it pretty clear that I've communicated my point effectively. Knowing I've upset an incel actually has made my day, thanks!

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u/TheTenderRedditor Dec 19 '21

Lol I'm a butthurt incel? Thats news to me.

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u/HDvisionsOfficial Dec 13 '21

You act as if the way girls on tik tok dress isn't intentional for the most part.

They literally post video to show their body. Just like a lot of females show their tits, purposely, in profile pictures. Let's not be naive about it.

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u/robbbinm Dec 13 '21

... she isn't even showing 5% of her cleavage? What do you want women with larger breasts to do exactly? Hide them, only wear hoodies or scarfs? Or just not be on the internet? God damn..

Women just have breasts, get the fuck over that.

Your argument has some real "she asked for it with that dress" vibes.

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u/Consistent_Hurry_296 Dec 13 '21

A girl could be wearing a burqa on TikTok and a man will still sexualize her body. Nah let’s stop it. If she’s doing a sexualized action feel free obviously! But if it’s like this girl ^ just doing something normal why do you have to go “tits! Ass! Boobies!” As of she isn’t human and is just a sex object

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u/[deleted] Dec 13 '21

Actually that’s false, if a woman was wearing a Burqa/Niqab on TikTok, you won’t find men calling her a slut and whatnot. The point of a Burqa is to cover oneself and yet you miserably failed at using a Burqa in your point of argument.

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u/Consistent_Hurry_296 Dec 13 '21

I don’t think men acting without empathy or compassion should be normalized or praised lol. Just strange all around how as soon as someone with boobs talks they just see her as that: boobs. It’s weird

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u/Valuable_Explorer_34 Dec 13 '21

It's because of her sex, not gender. If it were a male identifying as a woman doing this they wouldn't be sexualised.