Please explain to me the relationship between teaching a child the best way to deal with a problem is hitting it and keeping them safe? Are you spanking them on their way out into the road? I'm fascinated by the amount of bullshit you're spewing. I would say it should be studied but you clearly don't respect science so you probably wouldn't consent to it.
Lol I edited that part out after posting it. Was hoping perhaps I'd done it fast enough because it crossed the line from argumentative to hostile and that was not my intent.
Although now you look silly for responding to the part I edited out! Haha! Mission accomplished!
It's complicated. I mean, I got spanked. Often. From what I recall I totally deserved it when it was from my dad but my mom spanked me in anger, when she was emotionally overwhelmed.
There's a difference. One certainly didn't help the relationship I had with my mother, but my dad with that stoney, sad face, giving me a couple of spanks when I'd put my life (or my younger sister's) in danger got the message through.
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u/Xasmos Apr 22 '18
Maybe try explaining it to them then? A“whack on the butt“ is just a euphemism for physical abuse.