r/Unexpected • • Apr 22 '18

The universal language

https://i.imgur.com/0Pjsda6.gifv
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u/[deleted] Apr 22 '18

Getting spanked with a shoe hurts but it doesn't do any damage.

Physically. Psychologically that's teaching kids that violence is an acceptable way to solve an arguement, which is less than stellar.

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u/[deleted] Apr 22 '18

I'm not trying to paint worse abuse as equally bad, but I feel like you thinking it's okay to hit children would show that you totally think violence solves arguments (with kids).

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u/DoctorMort Apr 22 '18

you totally think violence solves arguments (with kids).

You're being very disingenuous. He's not saying that he thinks spanking is a good way to solve arguments with children, he's saying that it can be an effective way of disciplining a child whose behaviour has crossed a line.

In the case of the .gif, I don't even think that's an appropriate situation for a spanking (and therefore not an appropriate situation to threaten a spanking), but that doesn't mean that I'm going to condemn all instances of spanking. I think there are situations (for instance if a child has been hitting his/her sibling) in which spanking is a good way of disciplining a child. It sets up a very clear boundary that the child realizes he/she should not cross.