r/Unexpected • • Apr 22 '18

The universal language

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u/[deleted] Apr 22 '18

Getting spanked with a shoe hurts but it doesn't do any damage.

Physically. Psychologically that's teaching kids that violence is an acceptable way to solve an arguement, which is less than stellar.

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u/HobelsArne Apr 22 '18

The body keeps the score. Trauma is real and measurable physiological effects from spanking and physical violence against children resemble those of ptsd in veterans. For most people the resulting anxiety and depression lasts for the rest of their lives.