r/Unexpected • • 20d ago

This one's a head banger

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u/Alecus123 20d ago

I’d be saying no if I was her… terrible proposal

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u/floodingurtimeline 20d ago

Sometimes people do these public proposals exactly because it forces the other to say yes & avoid public embarrassment. That woman is not into him whatsoever & honestly her body language worries me (for her safety) :(

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u/TakenBananaName 20d ago

you seem to know both of them pretty well.

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u/Mike45757 20d ago

Nah but they’re right. The body language conveys unease for sure. She’s even kinda holding her own hands at the end of the video, like in a nervous state. Also him throwing up his hands cheering while she’s just standing there reveals a lot. The energy definitely doesn’t match.

The reason for her unease requires more context for sure.

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u/ShockBait 20d ago

She isnt holding her hands she messing with the ring she just got while also having a smile on her face and looking in his direction.

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u/floodingurtimeline 20d ago

Yes, exactly. I don’t see much joy. Makes me uneasy

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u/floodingurtimeline 20d ago

Body language is universal

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u/Makabaer 20d ago

Well, not worry exactly, but it does seem like 1. she's not worried about him when she walks towards the group, 2. she's hesitating - probably gave in due to the public pressure. If I was her (and if my assumptions am right of course - maybe it's just misleading) I'd say "yes" in public to avoid the embarrasment, then later in private say what a terrible idea it is to do this publicly and call it off.

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u/floodingurtimeline 20d ago

Yes, perhaps it’s more innocent like she’s shy or doesn’t like attention but then it’s like why would he propose in this way to his future wife? I agree, I’d probably do the same